Yes, God created man out of the mud — but rather than it being slapdash, it’s the first sculpture. And Eve being created from Adam’s rib is not meant to be reductive of her and women — it symbolizes women being the helpmeet to their husbands, and the foundation for every subsequent new family that would cleave from its parents. It’s at worst an unrealistic standard for romantic relationships that the woman should feel like she and her partner are connected at the marrow level.
The tree was the knowledge of Good and Evil, and the promise the serpent made was that eating the fruit would make the two more like God.
God being omniscient knows this is all going to happen, and it’s all going to lead to Christ’s sacrifice, so the song touching on how Eve will always take the fall for us stings because she was put in the position to be the foil (like Peter, like Judas). She had a lot to navigate after they were ejected from the Garden. Her sons were the first murderer and victim.
We don’t honor Adam and Eve in scripture or in popular culture because we’re all “sons of Adam” referencing our sinful nature. But they proved free will in the face of the OT God who is angry, vengeful, speaks in code, and gives people tasks they’re often not cut out for or too afraid to do (Moses, Elijah). Yes, he warned them and they sinned. But the punishment never fit the crime. And after Eve, only the women in the Bible who submitted without question or subsumed themselves (Mary vs Martha, the nameless woman who anoints Christ’s feet) are elevated. Most women are still bringing their men down, from Lot’s wife to Bathsheba, to Jezebel, to Salome…
Re: Milton, he’s made Satan a sympathetic character, knowing that all of this was predestined. Emma and Dan briefly mentioned the show Lucifer, which is a brilliant arc that is all about reimagining the misunderstood angel who loves and seeks the approval of God the Father — and then takes his place as God.