How deal with unhelpful mentor?

[latent remnant]

it could just be how he communicates

uh some people can sound abrasive

(I know I could be sometimes and learned to tone it down)

but they actually don't look down on you

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that's just one possibility

no one is in his head

so we dont actually know

other people can chip in

[warm raven]

If we're discussing actual mentorship, that's something that both parties have to enter into. So just stop meeting with him and asking him for advice.

If the question is more about how to deal with this relationship inside your team, then that's a bit of a different thing

[latent remnant]

However, in my recent performance review, it said that my commitment and hard work have stood out, my teammates noticed I've improved and worked hard and implemented the feedback I got
this is really cool tho man. good job

[gleaming spire]

thanks