#QOTD 18 November 2024 - Which is worse: failing or never trying?

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thorny rune
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quaint kraken
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falling

slim gate
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I’m so afraid of failing that I never try

amber horizon
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never trying

pulsar lion
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Failing

lapis ibex
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failing.

winter kayak
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Never trying

craggy ridge
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Never trying

compact vessel
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never trying but my brain is convinced its failing

tranquil echo
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failing

thorny rune
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Never trying for me these days

icy sparrow
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Failure is the journey to success. Or not. So never trying is worse.

late yew
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Never trying

random haven
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never trying

cyan nacelle
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Never failing

compact vessel
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at least if you fail you can see where you went wrong

late yew
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I can't get anythin outta never trying at least failing can produce a thought to build on

woven kettle
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Depends, but I guess I'll say never trying

harsh axle
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Personally, never trying isn't scary, but regretful. Failing is scary though. They are both equally bad, but different emotions.
And since failing is the only one I personally find scary, its scarier by default.

craggy ridge
limber ridge
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Never trying

winter kayak
cyan nacelle
sage pond
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Failing is scarier to us but not trying is more harmful to you in the long run
My experience, fear has ruined my life

abstract laurel
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Never trying

tulip vigil
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The important part is watching others fail, so you don't have to try

narrow juniper
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it depends on what. I could try to jump into a box of razor blades and fail, but it's better i never try it to begin with

solid hound
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It also depends if the process itself is any fun,, like I personally really like drawing, even if the result itself is a failure, because I just like doing it

vale belfry
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It depends on the consequences for failure.

If it’s something like trying something new that is relatively safe, then never trying is worse. If it’s something like defending someone’s right to exist, then failure is worse.

keen yacht
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Never trying. I see trying as about deciding to take action while failure and success are about standards that value or devalue that trying according to their own criteria that may be outside of our control or have nothing to do with what trying actually means to us or for us.

neon crater
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I have regrets from both failing and never trying, but they're bigger with never trying.

glass helm
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failing is worsw

unique fable
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Everything is worse

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The glass is always half empty

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I give up

delicate cipher
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probably failing, but its still worth a shot

north bobcat
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Never trying. If I'm not trying, there's an internal feeling of helplessness that I just can't shake. It's that feeling that makes it worse.

failure can be painful, but there's merit in it. not trying just makes me feel like dirt.

steel jetty
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trick question, both

patent bear
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"who doesn't play, doesn't drink champagne" so it's worse to never try

snow prairie
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In my personal experience. I wish I let myself fail at so many things. Being a chronic overthinker who also cares far too much about others' perception of me, I didn't even let myself try, just to spare me the pain from a failure that may well have never come to pass, or even open up new and better opportunities or connections for myself.

Of course I understand that it depends on who you are and your specific circumstances, and in some cases the consequence of failure might not be worth what you may gain from success, and that's for you to use your judgement and decide for yourself. I don't mean to say it's ever easy to shake off the fears and doubts, but I look back often and wish I was a little more willing to take the step and maybe fall on my face a couple times.

fervent knoll
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never trying

wary jacinth
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It depends on the situation

proud flicker
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never trying

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for failure is only a temporary setback