Have you tried changing the repeat count value? I do this in my board.c for the Pimoroni Badger2350 which also uses a SSD1680. The repeat count has an effect on contrast and also on update speed (it basically changes the number of times the display "flashes" during update). The implementation allows the user to change this at runtime.
During development, I tried all kinds of waveforms: from the Adafruit-driver, from Wasveshare and from Pimoroni. It seems like VCOM is not the only thing t...