#How do you better yourself as a person

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undone ginkgo
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What conscience efforts do you do to make yourself a better person? I’m trying to work on myself

onyx mantle
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play more knack

tardy kelp
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Keep in mind that struggle leads to growth in the end. Ultimately, just sitting there and feeling bad about yourself wont do anything. Humans are meant to change, and problems are given to bring change. It may sound dumb, but you have to keep in mind that happiness has always been earned through struggle

Also play more knack

toxic shuttle
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Disconnect from friends and family, stay in one location as much as possible avoid playing knack

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No wait the opposite of that

undone ginkgo
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I struggled a lot 2019-2021 and was in therapy for a lot of it until lockdown, coming out of it I was a completely different person because mainly I think lockdown gave me so much time to work on myself. I just kinda feel stuck on how to grow as a person at the moment because I’m not lookin to struggle anymore lmao, I’m in quite a good place in my life at the moment, I’m going to university, I have a good job, good friends. But I just kinda struggle to find the resources for personal growth atm if that makes sense. I don’t think I’m a bad person or anything, it’s just I think we can always improve. I know ways I can improve and how to do it but one of the the ways I’m struggling to improve is how I feel about certain situations; like how I judge someone after seeing them do something, I’d rather be a lot more understanding and think in my head “maybe they’re being like that for a reason” instead of “what an asshole”. Idk if I’m making sense at all and I might seem like a massive dumbass rn lmao

tardy kelp
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I know what you mean, I guess its human nature to go "what an asshole," especially considering theyre taking anger out on others instead of trying to improve themselves, even if its hard

rustic falcon
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I have to go with what finger said and say play more knack

undone ginkgo
tardy kelp
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Yeah

toxic shuttle
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If you have things going good for you, friends, uni, job. Then improvement further is gonna be small steps

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You don’t need to feel bad if your doing good, or if your not struggling or if you think your judgmental

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Just write on paper what you want to achieve like “be less judgmental” and try to meditate on your goals

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Being hard on others could be a sign your being hard on yourself

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Maybe if you stopped therapy, restart it but make it less frequent. Just an occasional time where you can work on yourself

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Going from struggling to doing good is hard, I’ve been where you are. For me its become a bit of a cycle, where something crashes me back down and crawl my way back up. Currently I’m coming back up from a crash. Im noticing every time I go down i get a little faster at getting back up, however not going back up as high as before. The easy part is getting started, the hard part is to keep going

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Just keep going and forgive yourself to be able to forgive others

undone ginkgo
# toxic shuttle Just keep going and forgive yourself to be able to forgive others

Thanks that helped a lot, I hear the whole cycle thing. The thing that happened to me in 2019 for me to crash so hard happened again last month and this time I’m pretty much over it already. I think I’m a lot better person then I was in 2019 and I guess I’m just not used to making progress at this slow of a rate, I guess therapy wouldn’t be a bad idea

toxic shuttle
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Nice dude, just take it a day at a time and live in the moment. You’ll get by

dense ermine
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Be kind to yourself most importantly. Do things you enjoy regularly. Do things that challenge you. Spend time with good people. Make a solid routine, and enjoy whatever it is you’re doing

onyx mantle
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Changing your beliefs can help too like if you desire something but nothing has changed for awhile or the opposite of what you wants keeps happening over and over then there might be something negative that you still believe or are hanging onto whatever it might be and figuring out what that is and switching it out for a positive belief can help as well.

dreamy summit
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kill some people

onyx mantle
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fr

undone ginkgo
undone ginkgo
undone ginkgo
onyx mantle
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troll

sick hamlet
toxic shuttle
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Play knack

half needle
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If you’re not always looking to the past it’s easy to work on yourself in the present to have a better future

toxic shuttle
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Im reading this book called “the power of now” that delves into thay

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Its all about trying to live in the present moment

onyx mantle
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I'm reading this book called "the ultimate fortnite guide" that delves into that

sick hamlet
toxic shuttle
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Shut up fortnite is not a book

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Its a game for gamers