Suppose z is some fixed set
A = {x | x = z or xRy for some y in A}
And B = {x | z or xRy for some y in B}
How could one prove that A = B? I think that you could prove it if card A and card B are both countable, and R is a bijection, because you could then prove it by induction.
For suppose card A = n, and construct a bijection f between n and A such that
f(0) = z
And f(k+) = R(f(k))
Then it can be proven by induction that f(k) is always in B.
But what if uncountable sets, or sets where A is uncountable?