#serious-discussion
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I need at least 35 hours of sleep everyday 
in fact I'm sleeping rn
and I'm on discord using my neuralink chip in my hippocampus
Which coordinate system are you using? Cuz time is relative
Because mine has max limit of 24 hours a day
an infinite dimensional coordinate system
Bro come back to Euclidean Space now
what exactly is a lie algebra 
Uhhh
I know it has something to do with the lie bracket
but
I don't actually understand what the lie bracket is
Lazy to explain sorry
Affine Lie Algebra is an infinite Lie Algebra
hm okay so it's just a vector space together with a lie bracket?
the lie bracket is an alternating multilinear map?
Basically a Lie Bracket is an alternating bilinear map from V×V to V such that it satisfies the Jacobi Identity
By "alternating bilinear"
It basically means
If $x_i = x_{i+1}, f(x_i,x_{i+1}) = 0$ or if $x_i$ and $x_j$ are linearly dependent, then $f(x_i,x_j) = 0$
Yeah
Pencil/Idris
I'm gonna revisit this tomorrow
and you better be there pencil or else.... 
lol jk
my psych teacher was awesome
she had ways of helping us remember the parts of the brain
like hippocampus
Hypothalamus
she's like "you'll definitely remember if you saw a hippo on campus"
so for tuat
she had this story
Hal and Amos
(for thalamus)
Ohh
and they had this like
switchboard
sensory switchboard
I forget the difference between thalamus and hypothalamus
f
Yes
for amygdala
she had this wig
with a dollar bill in it
it was a wig for a scary mask
and so
a-wig-dolla
and you would remember the scary mask
That's actually good
yeah
she had things all over the room
to constantly remind us of what things mean
she had this mannequin that she would put psychology related shirts on
based on the topic for that day
and she would also wear a psychology related shirt
lmao
lol
Teachers like these are awesome and deserve more recognition
lol
like all he did was make us do general ledgers all day
and then he got fired halfway through the year
Damn
so we had no teacher for a couple months
then we got a new one who sucked ass
so all around a total shitshow
oof
im happy I had a good math teacher for the last 2 years
well
decent
she helped us remember calc and pass the ap exam
but not much solid intuition
not much of the why
just the what
I see
but we all remembered the what very well
so idk
I had some classmates who would ask me for help and I would explain the why to them
Well most teachers would usually teach the what to help us pass in exams
Explaining the why would take time for some students to understand
im actually remaking my teacher's worksheets in latex since a bunch of them were handwritten
Ooh
exactly, unfortunately there isn't much extra time for that so that sucks
Indeed
@deep mango so does free surface flow describe literally everything about how a liquid flows? like is it the most general thing?
Umm
Not really because you lose track of what's happening inside the liquid
since you just pay attention to where the surface is
but you could consider a big system of equations to track that
i guess
really? but I thought you could have the vector field on the manifold to keep track of that?
so you can but it would get too complicated?
i don't really know enough to say how complicated it gets
or what you can say
i don't want to pull claims out of my ass
Lol fair enough
so that field just studies what happens to fluid at the boundary and doesn't care about what happens inside?
do these pure mathematicians also sometimes work with physicists?
and energy transfer between fluids at a boundary
oohh so that also studied different fluid interacting at the boundary?
yes, to a degree. i think it would be more accurate to say that there are people who are kind of half-mathematician half-physicist
yeah
well
remember that gasses are fluids
lol yeah
so we were already talking about that
but yes, you can also study like oil and water or something
so like waves on a ocean, how they're caused by winds and stuff?
yep
i see you not studying what you are supposed to

something that I've noticed is that rigid materials like even metals act like fluids at really high velocities, like an armor piercing bullet striking a solid metal plate, like in simulations of these things, they really behave like fluids and deform like fluids
is there a field that studies that ryc?
exposed

Yeah
I don't really know anything about that though
that's probably more in the vein of solid mechanics
?
Neamesis has been talking to me about fluid dynamics for an hour
We moved here cause I want to make sure other people can learn if they want
whaaaaaa
neam!
Shyshu knows I never lie

hmmmm
Lmaooo
now that you say that

i can see u smiling
Wha
remember ryc
No!
im in ur walls
he's a bird look at him! ofc he would lie 
then this must've been a lie 
But I only started smiling after you said "hmmmmm"

!!!!
jee be like
Soon it will be over
in like

20 days
Oh
I thought it was like a week
2 exams
Oh yeah whatever
but I wanna study so much fun stuff like quantum, diff geo, real anal
I'm going to ping azeem

When JEE happens
jee is the worst 
He will be here to congratulate u all
who's azeem?
Lmaoo
future topper
that's extra heresy 

time to cancel azeem 
Oof
wow to think i've been trying for a year to roast shyshu and never succeeded
Lmao
you have 😔
😔
doesn't matter 


Edgeworth sobbing is pretty funny
ikr
@arctic grove when will you be done with exams again?
Start of July?
pretty much
Oh
That's not that bad
Only 2 weeks left 
(That wasn't a typo, was it?
)
not at all
lol
unless i am in need to give jee again
which will also happen in late july
lucky you 
august 3 
Differs by country
you go to a worse college
No
Np
Spot the mistake.
I'm guessing that whoever made the mistake confused 1/(2W) with (1W)/2 and just simplified it to W/2
for those of you who have seen me struggle with chapter 8 of mapping class groups, I gave the talk today
went really well!
Wow congrats. What is your research interests
GGT, hyperbolic geometry, maybe some low dimensional topology, but I'm not to sure on that last one, don't have enough background to really engage yet
Oh sweet. I've heard interesting things about all three topics.
Oh I have no knowledge about all that. I do have wish to know what is the purpose of algebraic topology etc and these mapping class groups
geoemtric group group group group group group theoery?
You can check out the end of the book, or read the preamble. Lots of applications to many different areas
The purpose of algebraic topology in general though? I mean, its everywhere
Maybe not much in number theory?
Yeah but I heard some where it has also something to do with integration
which one?
Algebraic topology
Oh yeah, I mean you use algebraic topology plenty in differential topology
When hypergeometric functions etc come or iterated integrals on simplicial complex
Yeah I mean simplicial complices are objects in algebraic topology
So if you're doing anything with them, you're probably using AT (maybe in the background)
Yeah that's why I need to learn all that so that I can do integrations
people here hate hatcher, so be prepared for that if you ask for recs lol
I don't hate any book. I just hate myself if I don't understand anything. All I need is a book with small baby questions to understand step by step
But I come here to ask trivial questions
People here have been recommending me hatcher non-stop
For motivation
the messages you and I read must tile the channel
It's also largely people in vc now that I think about it
oh, yeah I dont use vc
vc here can be a very mixed bag. Sometimes it's really good - I've read entire textbooks on vc with other people here - and other times it's a bunch of idiot highschool students bullying a grad student into teaching them trig.
I feel like everyone in this server just has the biggest brain, so I'd be lost in VC lol
I feel like everyone thinks that. In my experience we don't notice the flaws of others, the gaps in other people's knowledge, in the same way as we do our own.
Wow...entire textbook. I wish to be part of such cool textbook groups
You can be the identity element
I'm not. I'm an idiot and I wear it on my sleeve.
Nice
Everyday my brain is becoming small er and smaller because I keep forgetting basics
Same
I keep abstracting
Until I am pure intuition
It feels good tbh
I love the vibes
Should I go to bar tonight?
I think I can probably dance with cute girls if I do
I know what abstraction means...but idk what is intution
Would make sense. Imposter syndrome for grad students is a tale as old as grad students
If you're good at dancing. Otherwise, take dancing lessons first.
Lol
I'm not even a grad student so I'm especially stupider than most people here
I'm still getting the hang of dancing I guess
Apparently that's bad advice abelian grapes
Btw
Most people don't take dancing lessons
And they just vibe
Oh thanks then
Nice
thanks emma
Uh, the real advice is if you want to dance, you only need to get down one or two moves. If you can do that, just do those moves a bunch and people will be impressed.
What's yellow, sour and equivalent to the axiom of choice? My other username, Zorn's lemon
Oh when I danced last week I guess I was just being really close to the person and like being there with her
It was kind of hot
idk
I have butterflies now thinking about it
She was reacting to my movements

Her hair was in my face and it smelled pretty nice
I think I should probably not horny post in discussion
Oops
I only dance alone
Oo-ooh Emma has a crush, Emma has a crush (read this in that middleschool mocking voice)
Like shuffle dance or c walk etc. But I wish I could do popping
Is there anything in #rules against horny-posting in discussion? Probably, I don't actually know the rules, but if there isn't, you're fine. If there is, I'll report you to the mods.
How do you even dance? I hardly passed that in PE
I can actually visit this girl btw
I was invited to stay at a different friend in Austin
For a week
Because covid's over?
And then Houston is a three hour greyhound from there
So I can visit him and then visit her afterwards
I taught myself the twist when I was 16 by watching that one scene in Mad Men where Peggy and Pete are doing the twist and I've been coasting on that.
Idk if I would stay by her or get an airbnb though
Probably an Airbnb wouldn't be too expensive
But probably I should talk to her a while more before visiting
idk
We've only known each other a week now
Anyway I will still dance with other girls
Because that's okay
So, in perfect rom-com fashion, it's the perfect time to drop everything, move across the country and stalk her until she falls in love!
Lol
(again, I only give bad advice)
Thanks
I actually helped her out of a similar situation surprisingly, which is how we met
She was visiting someone she met online

And the person had kind of misportrayed themselves
And I had to talk her through the situation
Anyone who just finished the math 30-1 diploma?
So it's a bit of a strange situation
But obviously because of that it's also pretty hot ngl
None of us do math, because math is for nerds.
I only do meme math
Hahahahhaha
I mean it's not like I do real math
I do whatever's necessary to come up with math puns and that's it
Strange situation is considered more favourable than non strange situation. Why?
Incredibly based
By publishers? Because its more interesting
And it's exciting
But it is also the reason of haste decisions
Dude we're not telling Emma to make good decisions fuck that good decisions are for goddamn loser nerds
Then you're a goddamn loser nerd
Lol
dont do drugs
I am a chad
Don't do boring drugs
Nerds are not loser. I think good decisions with wisdom bring peace
incredibly based
You're missing what we're saying SSK
We're saying WIS and INT should be our dump stats and to max out CHA
I would never do drugs
NEERD!
SSK we're just shooting the shit by the way
Oh you mean you all are also against drugs. Right
Lmao
I mean I'm not actually against drugs, but I won't push them on anyone
Bad decisions are the spice of life
On TikTok they called this the fleabag era I think
Or maybe that's something else
idk tbh
Wrong. Spice of life is to be able to do good as much as possible.
Lol
they're only decisions until they become bad winkwink
Nice
Let me guess, you're an ascetic?
I think you guys are joking because if you were guys who like bad things then you wouldn't be here.
The only thing worth doing in life is finding momentary distractions from the inevitability of death.
That's why I study math
Not really. I like spirituality
We don't mean we're hurting people
I like math because it's interesting
Well, you're not. Don't ask what happened to the antarctic expedition I was on.
It's about doing things that aren't necessarily responsible or smart
Nothing more nothing less and I'd like to do something interesting instead of something boring
Lmao
I'm definitely not eavesdropping, don't mind me
Oh you have to see a random insta dm I got from my undergrad best friend like a year ago
We are not born just not to hurt people. We are born to bring peace on earth. We have brain we can bring wisdom and peace
Exactly! It's something fun to do to pass the time, and then we just fucking die and are forgotten about and everyone we've ever known and loved also dies, so we might as well just do math because it's fun!
?
oh
I think you might be missing a lot of the verbal irony in this conversation
Exactly! I didn't really have much passion before trying to learn more about math just things I enjoyed doing but since I found math I'll do that
Honestly math majors in general
I wish everyone could just enjoy their passions
I'm not being ironic at all
It would make the world a little better
I work pretty hard to do good ssk
You literally can't judge from what we said
Our actions in general
I don't know why you're making this weird point
I probably do some bad things in SSK's eyes but they're fine in mine since they're not hurting anyone
I never judged anyone. I was told by someone that they want to do bad things. I just said it must be joke
Well would you consider drinking to be a bad thing?
We said bad decisions
We said Emma should make bad decisions, then you were being way too serious
Of course you all are good people
Well I'm not, and I reject the notion of "good people" and "bad people"
I wouldn't really say I'm a good person just a person lol
Yeah I agree with that too
Most of the evil in my life has been done by people who believed they were fundamentally doing good
I think people do good things and bad things, but I think the idea of "good people" has its downsides. The whole "he didn't mean to do that, he thought she was into it, he's a good kid with a bright future!" line of argumentation, for instance
I think there are truly evil people just few and far between
Yeah and Emma's childhood from what I've heard.
Lol
Hey I am not judging anyone. I am sorry. I just was saying that decisions made in hurry could be bad and drugs are bad. If anyone is doing drugs they shouldn't do. That's all.
Is this AoT or something
Do drugs safely and in a controlled manner.
And don't mix drugs if you don't know what the consequences will be
kiritsugu moment
Because also blanket saying "drugs bad" is kind of gross tbh
Yes if you do certain types of drugs do them with a sober friend to help you
But saying "don't do drugs at all ever" kind of stigmatizes and marginalizes drug users
I mean that sort of attitude also shuts down discussion
Consuming something to change your mental state to happiness and avoid natural way of becoming happy by learning or helping people.
I've heard they can be weird to do with a sober person. Like, if you're on LSD and someone's sober, you'll get weird vibes from the sober person.
So no antidepressants?
oh yikes
I feel much more capable of connecting to people while high
I've have done this many a times and I will say, I knew the person pretty well so I never got bad vibes but, it is weird because time is moving so differently for the two of you it's kind of surreal
Only if the person has lost the ability to function properly.
I did get bad vibes from a dog
It makes a lot of inhibitions go away
And outside cause it was dark and scary
idk I think the all or nothing pov you have is probably a bit uninformed ssk
Huh. Yeah, don't do drugs with people you don't trust or know well. I think that was my mistake the other day.
Oh that's rough abelian grapes
Oh yeah I never do mind altering substances with people I don't know or like I did it once and it sucked very bad
I need a shortening of your name
This is turn requires a definition of proper functioning
Hmm
How is Coursera as a resource?
I'll like do soft drugs with them
Our first priority is to be able to be happy without consuming any chemicals.
Like it was just a sativa so it wasn't that bad but it was a bit and I felt like throwing up
Pretty good same with edx it'll depend on whose courses you use MIT OCW is also good
Who's included in "Our"?
Man SSK you'd hate Erdos
And taking drugs to be happy is not good because you may permanently lose the ability to be cheerful without drugs
Like I think smoking a lot of weed recently has helped me process a lot of my transition which has been really good overall
That guy couldn't even do math without drugs
Yeah. I’m deciding between using Brilliant and Coursera as resources bc they’re both subscription based
I wouldn't pay for anything unless you really want/need the cert
nice emma
You can lose the ability to be happy without drugs without even doing drugs to begin with. Drugs don't really cause depression.
I can't be happy without producing dopamine/serotonin 😔
I mean, SSK, do you drink coffee or alcohol, or smoke or vape cigarrettes or cannibis? They're not that different than other drugs if used properly and safely.
Erdos got happiness out of mathematics mainly. He used pills to stay alert. I do not think it is good thing to do. Many mathemaricians do good math without pills.
Well, I’m going to spend the next 6 years in school. Going for Masters degree
I take Adderall to be able to function
I dont
Should I not be doing that?
I wouldn't worry about paying for courses on coursera then just do the free ones
Any specific course Nitro?
I mean, kudos to you for the intellectual consistency, I suppose.
I mean our as we humans. Like our first priority should be to bring peace on earth.
Yes
My first priority is to survive
I don't think you should have takeaways from stories about erdos btw
Like he's a folk hero
I've heard that anecdote a bunch but I don't know if it's true
Erdos was a character I'll say that
"Should" is a personal judgement, and doesn't apply to all people
Usually anecdotes about him are pushing a certain narrative about math
Yes agreed. First priority is to end malnutrition on earth. Then provide home. Then love and care.
"Erdős's friends worried about his drug use, and in 1979 Graham bet Erdős $500 that he
couldn't stop taking amphetamines for a month. Erdős accepted, and went cold turkey for
a complete month. Erdős's comment at the end of the month was "You've showed me I'm
not an addict. But I didn't get any work done. I'd get up in the morning and stare at a
blank piece of paper. I'd have no ideas, just like an ordinary person. You've set
mathematics back a month." He then immediately started taking amphetamines again. "
idk erdos is a bit weird
What, that mathematicians are all degenerates? They only need to come to this server to see proof of that.
Lol
Yeah about that sort of thing, and slavish devotion being a good trait I guess
idk I have pretty complicated feelings about erdos's rep
Because a lot of intellectual elitism
I mean he was a man in the 20th century
Should is not always a personal judgement
20th century is not an excuse
I don't really know about him and misogyny tbh, I probably should
Yeah the way people use history as an excuse is weird af
like
No, I was citing it as evidence that he was probably misogynistic
What is misogyny?

sexism against women
Yeah sorry I see how it could come off as excusing it. No, I was just saying that given the era he lived in, I'd think it more likely he'd be problematic than not.
still
Ok. Sorry to hear that. I feel sad when I hear that genius people are doing bad things.
20th century is not that long ago
Yeah it's crazy
I know. It's really super recent
How recent
what do you mean by "genius people" though
My grandparents lived through most of it and some of them are still alive
Like Erdos etc.
I hate that
Oh my god Emma you're from the 20th century, right?


Are you the mole, the infiltrator from the past?
What's wrong with being a 90's kid
Being born in the 20th century
Oh okay
21st century mathematicians rise up
Lol idk
Also all the "only 90s kids will remember" bullshit
I'm so out of it
like I'm just wondering
how are you defining that
Every generation is unique in their own way
Waiting for the "only 10s kids will remember"
damn there're old ppl here?
Today is Friday
kind of an ick ngl
Tomorrow is today for you
totally not bussin
and that's saturday
People who are inspiring lot of scientists but end up doing bad things too
is it based on volume of work, perceived significance of work?
I mean, Today is Friday where I am. Today is Saturday in, like, Singapore.
You'd best be talking about someone else
ryc
do you buss
Do I... what?
discuss?
discussy? 
hmm so guess that's a no
damn ryc rly ain't bussin
I'll be honest I don't know what it means either
@vast surge do you buss
Considerable delay
I'm going to assume that I do, however, if it's the thing the cool kids are doing
Alright let's play 20 questions
And I don't if it's something stupid
Is bussin lewd?
What's buss
no
Bussin
bussin on god frfr
not lewd
buss ong frfr
is it a synonym for grind?
so true
no
Is it a dance move?
hmmm
Ryc get your mind out of the gutter
come on it looks like bussy!
no
not bussin 👎
buss it open
This is #serious-discussion, it's for hornyposting. Apparently.
I bet jesse would know
Is it larger than a breadbox?
i'm in a meeting with someone irl rn so i don't want to use urban dictionary
if ur bussin it down
But you're fine talking about bussy huh
Thank you inasmuch
ask them if they're bussin
Valley do you buss?
"Bussin" is pronounced more like "bus" than like "bussy", if that helps at all. I'm not sure exactly what it means, but it's a verb
I'm not talking about it out loud!
true
Also she definitely would not know what this means either
it's not the most common use
Are you gonna use urban dictionary out loud?
@fervent pebble
Do you buss?
no but the urban dictionary font is bigger
bussin is more like an adjective tbh
^
Is it cool to buss?
hm
no it's a participle
I guess you could consider it a participle yrah
but participles are adjectives
sure
a verb turned into an adjective
ye
sometimes it's cool for something to buss
but practically nobody uses it as a verb
Then I buss.
lots of ppl use it as a verb
in what way
"i'm bussin" etc just said randomly
omg
Oh, yeah, Bussin is a participle- meaning a verb turned into an adjective. It effectively means "to be very good". I'd compare it to being "The shit"
I'm getting semantic satiation
bruhhhh you gave it away >:(
I usually hear it used to describe food like "this sht bussin fr"
like say ur in an italian restaurant for the homies
ryc was guessing
one could even describe it as
"that lasagna bussin frfr ong"
I think it has lewd origins
nope
yeah so it's really only an adjective
I highly doubt this doesn't come from "bust a nut"
I think you have lewd origins ryc
^^^
Is it related to bussing your table, like, at a restaurant or a cafeteria?
No!!!! It's the latter parts of my life that are like this
no, because bussing is miserable
It's also not my fault, it's you people's
this
how to embed 
Bussing is fun
two ppl had sex to make u and u think its not lewd
I love the bus
Yeah i mean i was born 9 months after the wedding so it was def during the honeymoon
Like
sounds pretty lewd to me >.>
Probably very lewd
Far more than two were involved for me. From what I've heard, it was a massive orgy.
I really don't like thinking hard about this
epic gamer moment tbh
Which is crazy given how much I'll think about comfortably
What, about your parents having sex?
I wonder what #serious-discussion is up too
I can think academically about it but once I start moving towards imagery it's like a visceral disgust reponse
Never anything good.

I'm the hellish product of hundreds of people merging as one in the middle of nowhere. When the bell tolls, I'll be there
no need to wonder anymore my good cube
I can give you specifics if you want; because I banged ur mum
If namington chews me out for this I'm blaming Valley and Zorn

I'm proud to say that I know little enough that I cannot refute your claim.
i didnt do anything
this is
uhhh
libel
You tried to get me to guess what buss meant
ryc was the one insisting on it being lewd
It was all valley
Where else am I supposed to go
And ryc
TRAITOR
You're talking to the gay. Of course my mind goes to bussy
nothing to see here

Bussy is kinda bussin tho
I guess so
Never tried it. Not interested in trying it, though, admittedly
My mind also went to bussy
You said Namington's done worse before you edited that
TRAITOR
I was thinking about busses but that might be because I'm at a greyhound station right now
You're at the bussy station
It's a busy bussy station
bussy station? 
Did you all see the Easter Bussy meme
I did not.
no
Damn the Easter Bussy is affordable and reliable for all nice
This is why companies should either not use the internet or should hire queer teenagers as consultants
I guess the issue then is having a facebook presence
Actually wait I think if I was the consultant I would have tried to make it even worse/better
Hire someone who's not a troll
abelian grapes is a queer teenager, confirmed?? 
Well not anymore, I was a few years ago
... the queer part or the teenager part??
Care to guess?
i'm hoping it's the teenager part
I am currently 22 years old.
Math makes you queer btw
I traded teenager for queer in the last few years
Damn we're the same age
what does queer mean exactly?
Uhhh
I thought it was just a gender thing
it's really hard to define
Either not straight or not cisgender.
LGBTQ+
Anything out of the cisheteronormative norm.
or not allo
There are a lot of people who just don't want to be called queer at all
Cause the word used to be a derogatory term
and some people still use it as such
Yeah, I keep forgetting that straight asexuals are a thing. (I was lumping them under "not straight")
I mean, LGBTQ+ is LGBT + Q + "+"
and then within the LGBTQ+ community, a lot of people in every group will call themselves queer
that is true. recursive definition 😳
or like
straight demisexuals
wait
time out
i was under the impression that asexuals were not sexually attracted to anyone
They can be romantic
heteromantic demisexuals?

I typically use ace as an umbrella term to refer to demis, grey aces, aces, etc. I'm under the impression that it's commonly used as such within the community
ah
straight has nothing to do w/ romantic taste, no? it's meant to refer to sexual orientation
i could be wrong here tho >.>
it's ambiguous
Typically someone who is "straight" will be both heterosexual and heteroromantic.
(Or, depending on who you ask, "straight man" means hypersexual heterosexual aromantic and "straight woman" means extremely demisexual heterosexual heteroromantic, but like there are some weird gender norms)
I just thought of heterosexual homoromantic
might be hard to reconcile
In high school / early undergrad i was worried I was heteroromantic homosexual
but it turns out I just hadn't met guys that I was into romantically yet
I'm thinking of those guys who say "you should have sex with every woman you can, and love is a bullshit excuse to get into her pants" and the women who say "you should not have sex with people you don't love because gender norms you're a slut otherwise", but I think this is sort of falling out of fashion.
I would agree that that is falling out of fashion
hard to reconcile was definitely my experience with this 😵💫

Yeah
Every romantic-sexual combination is a thing
The real question: if you want to kiss someone, is it romantic attraction or sexual attraction?
romantic
Really
Depends where you're kissing 
Maybe depends on type of kiss?
depends on context
that's a good grey area
Like making out I would say is probably sexual
What about cuddling?
ye
making out is not always sexual though
I think making out is not necessarily sexual if it doesn't go further.
I've cuddled friends
Every romantic interaction can be made sexual with enough skill

with enough *communication
and with consent...
Yeah don't do anything without everyone involved giving affirmative consent
Well, unconsensual sexual acts is still sexual, its just also deserving of a sledgehammer to the head
True
Alcohol usually revokes consent
unless you're both equally as drunk
It depends on the volume of the alcohol, and whether there's a disparity. I don't think half a glass of wine is necessarily enough to render one unable to consent; that said, there is definitely a volume at which people can't give informed consent.
/high on another drug
If two people get so drunk that they consent to having sex while drunk, but then after being sober they realize they don't like each other and would never consent to sex normally... are they both mutual victims of rape?
I would say there's an exception to that exception, if someone is maliciously trying to get both of them drunk with the intention of making a move.
This is also kind of confusing cause people respond differently to alcohol so like
how do you even quantify this
Yeah some people remember everything, some people remember nothing, others some things
I would probably always err on the side of avoiding sexual encounters while more than just a little drunk
And by "i would probably" i mean I DEFINITELY WOULD and other people probably should too
yeah
although i know that this is not as easy as it is to say sometimes 
It's not just memory loss, but impaired judgement. There are some people who impulsively buy a bunch of shoes when they're drunk, some people just lose their balance a bit and that's the only effect noticed between drinks 3 and 12.
Yeah, especially if both parties have been drinking heavily
be the nice sober friend who stops you from choking
12 
i've found that i need to like, give myself a mental checklist of reminders for when i'm drunk, stuff like "drink water, stop listening to the little voice that doesn't want you to drink water" and absolutely "do not try to make a move on someone"
drinking too much makes me sad
btw water doesn't do anything other than being a replacement for alcohol
and that checklist works super well at least for me, since when i'm drunk i'm a lot more liable to just follow sober me's suggestions
it doesn't like dilute it
Okay so here's the strategy. Sober you tells drunk you to write your thesis, then you drink.
I thought water was for preventing dehydration
yeah
Genius
oh
Dehydration causes hangovers
nvm
I've never had a hangover 
Water is for absorbing the powers of the sea 
somehow i don't think my thesis would be very good
Some people write better drunk
Look that's how I did all my real analysis homework and I was top of the class by a significant margin
oh so all through undergrad i didn't drink (until i was a few months before 21) and people would always joke about how they bet when i'm drunk i'm like, super good at math
You're hiding all your spiciest math revelations behind a wall of sobriety.
and then i got really drunk and was incapable of thinking about math 
which is kind of nice
Oof, maybe you shouldn't drink then.
There's bound to be a better substance for you out there
Have you considered heroin?
Being drunk makes me too pissy to do much
Been there, done that. Mid
(no i have not tried heroin)
Speedball?
Actually I do like playing music buzzed a little bit
Oh, you should try meth!
I'm not better at it though.
I will not be utilizing any hard drugs
what class of drugs is alcohol in
Uhh
I'm too dumb to know these things.
I forget all this stuff from 10th grade health class
there are stimulants, antidepressants
It can actually fuck people up quite badly even without excessive use so I wouldn't say it's the same as like weed is. I've heard some people argue the only reason it's not considered a hard drug is that it's accepted by society.
Yeah it's so interesting, like
I very recently tried weed for the first time via edibles
Weed is way nicer than booze
and it's just so much better in every conceivable way
Edibles are nice
wow
Getting a tummy ache is the worst though
I tried via a vape and it was kind of a trainwreck
I've never had edibles though.
while also being way less dangerous (if you're into your early 20s)
yeah ok I'm not doing alcohol
i'm not really interested in smoking
i will like
Have you ever drank at all ally?
uh
But I think it was the people I was with weren't people I trusted and I did way too much (I didn't know it was about how long you inhaled it for, I thought it was about the number of hits)
my family have given me small amounts
and i once drank a juice box that had been in a hot car
It's only good in small amounts imo
I was also drunk actually. Don't mix drugs.
for god knows how long
Like, certain kinds of booze with certain kinds of food can be good.
Sometimes a light buzz is nice
look if alcohol is like a hard drug I don't really want it
But outside of that alcohol is not that fun
Steak and red wine if you're fancy.
Yeah I almost did it for the first time at a party with a bunch of wall street finance assholes who were egging me on to do it
I mean like beer and some kind of heavy meat lmao
I am not fancy
I'm vegetarian
i think if id actually done it it would have been a horrible reaction
Mine was just four random straight people I was living with over the summer break who resed matched me up with
I see
Well, like meatier saltier stuff?
alright
umami?
There's a reason most bars have salty snacks
Yes umami is a good word for flavors that go good with booze imo
Have a nice sleep DarQ
dried squid goes well with a good beer ya
I doubt I'd like squid but that sounds gud
I'd rather have a different drink
I stand by it
Squid is so good
What I'll often get at a bar I go to is a nice whiskey or whiskey-based cocktail and some pretzel sticks.
that doesn't destroy your liver
They do these pretzel sticks with a cheese dip and it's amazing
anyway idk
Pretzel sticks my beloved
How can one person be so based and so cringe
whiskey >>>>
pretzels <<<<







