#serious-discussion
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sometimes that communication is a little manipulative because sometimes it hurts peoples feelings / isnt productive to be fully direct and honest
and the better path is "i need to learn, so i will learn for them, but for now they dont need to know im learning"
Sure but when you said manipulation i took it seriously and got worried since i wasnt sure if you were joking
bc altho u can communicate, manipulation is no joke
it's a terrible trait to have
but now that i understand your undertone i get where you were going
i dont really think so
a lot of manipulation is about showing compassion and understanding
what is your definiton of manipulation
im referring to guilt tripping, playing the victim, gaslighting, twisting words, etc
being deceptive / dishonest to get someone to think or do what you want
like if someone gets a new haircut and you think its ugly as hell but you want to be a good friend, its manipulative to tell them you love it because youre lying to preserve your friendship
it affects their thoughts and actions in a way that does something you want instead of representing the truth
i dont agree that kind of lie is manipulation in the same way harmful deception is
you are not actively trying to control or exploit the person in question
what youre saying is more of a white lie in my eyes
you are simply being polite
i think you are
politeness is manipulative especially when you want something out of it and arent just doing it cuz its normal
lots of people will tell you they never lie but they lie all the time
by definition, it for sure can be manipulative, but im drawing the line at intention here
and good and bad lies arent a strict dichotomy. every lie has positive and negative effects and spiraling consequences
i'm calling manipulation with the intention to control or exploit terrible
i think politeness is manipulation with the intention to control or exploit
also, i think its worse when you make someone feel bad just for the hell of it instead of having an intention of control
i was next going to say i think that's an interesting take
i don't agree with it though
so i dont really get that either
I feel like "control' is a word that has a tricky connotation here
most people arent trying to control or exploit just by being nice
theyre trying to be considerate or avoid hurting feelings
sure politeness can be manipulative at times but that shouldn't be the default
i would think that masks it as a weapon and i would not like to refer to it as one
Like, officially "Wanting you to feel better" can be referred to as a form of control, but colloquially this is not the same type of thing as when people refer to controlling someone in the sense of, trying to extract concessions
Exactly
Like are you changing the circumstances from "This would be an unpleasant interaction" to "This would be a pleasant interaction", or are you trying to go from "This is the type of thing that the person would not be willing to do" to "This type of person will be doing what you want"
If you're being nice to someone and they're nice back, you're not somehow taking someone who would not otherwise consent to being a nice person and manipulating them into being a nice person
well said
人( ̄ω ̄;)
i guess i agree with that
how was the flight
i will tear your head off
cheers
im ABOUT TO GO ON IT
oh
We got deplaned due to an issue
ah
then bounced around from gate to gate to gate
which airline
american sucks
every airline sucks
delta is nice
i love qatar airways
but pricy
delta is fine
delta is also good
delta has issues
yeah
Delta has always communicated with my family and i
ab anything
what issues does it have..
idk all the airlines seem the same to me, have the same cancelations and changes as with any airline
southwest was useful for 2 free checked bags
yeah
now it is useless
i transported all my shit to and from college by southwest
idk why they are advertising this as a plus
like
literally made ads about it
!?!?!?
As long as i. get the window seat im happy 😌
i have an aisle seat tonight
yeah idrk
next to 2 people i thought were twjns
ryc would u get my luggage for me if i asked u for help
bht then they started kissing
nothings grosser than that
they could still be twins
idk why youd ever date someone who looks exactly like you
Please dont imply..
at least theyre boy and girl
I would
What's wrong with that
As long as they arent actually my sibling
it drives me crazy seeing gay couples that look exactly the same
true thank god they're not gay or anything like that
idk it would just FEEL weird to me
like do it if you want
but for me i need the person to be sufficiently different
Fair but idc as long as theyre attractive XD
physically
i mean i blush every time i look in the mirror
okay well unfortunately im super hot so i need to date down
i wouldnt be able to date someone who does math
i dated one math nerd
because i want my future spouse to make money
because lord knows if i become a mathematician i wont
crazy
okay i didnt mean it like gold digger
anamono has house husband energy
"Future spouse" do I need to call Cheryl?
i'd greet her every day in a damn apron and the house clean and clothes washed and errands ran and food ready
Hi
i'm talking in the past tense yk
i mean yeah but i would still want to do SOMETHING
Ngl id love for someone to cook for me
Idm cleaning
But omg yes cook for me.
ill run my etsy shop and call myself a small business owner
ahhh yes etsy
hi
Work remote
buy something off of shitty chinese amazon and resell for $10
i want to be a personal chef
and call it "handmade"
Wouldn't be too inclined? I feel like I've def centered a lot of my identity on the idea of a career
or ill live on the shore and repair peoples boats
it's a shame garden centers dont hire for the summer because i wanted to work at one as a summer job
Hi
Why
classic chicago
the train i was on smelled like piss all the way from oak park to ohare
did you smoke a blunt before dropping the butt in the cannabis amnesty box
fun
the first blunt was extremely high quality
that was great
the second one was just fine
the first was followed by an incredible meal and then cuddles
i haven't had weed since like last december
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idrk if i miss it or not
holy shit
idgaf about the cuddles part
incredible meal would be awesome
yeah the meal was crazy
my roommates last year were major stoners
so i would smoke like almost every other day with them
last year as in 23-24 school year
and my "meals" were just like a tub of ice cream
i'd sit down on the floor with a spoon and my half gallon of ice cream and just dig in
his snake tattoo 💞
oh well
yeah one time i took a girl out on a date to some fancy place
we got 2 drinks each
similar in nyc these days at a nice place
sad
did your per diem cover it all
idk
we'll see
cest la vie
the burger was the best thing there
that shit was mind blowing
were you inspired by my burger story
middle tacos were also amazing
no.
yeah you were inspired
as i am inspired by your photos
see i wasn't really hungry but now i really want a burger
have a safe flight
safe travels!
Safe travels
fly safe dont fart on the plane
phbbbbt
Yh follow the safety rules
i landed
it was fine
i watched some futurama
and then an episode of Monk
Monk isnt as good as i remember
Who’s ur fav character in futurama
i havent seen that much of it. so hard to say. but probably normie take and say bender

@velvet dagger @errant zenith @fresh comet astro already knows but i relocated villages and mightve abandoned yall sorry i forgot to bring u with me now idk where u all r and ill have to find u someday..
Got a new cat to keep me company in the mean time
I need a name for it
ill name it suremark
Wow

Bro im sorry
You the one who controls us
No
We followed ur instructions
Well skill issue
Yall r math and physics majors
Use ur brains when im ab to leave the area
xD
🤣
wait where r u rn
jellycat is owning some noob in discussion
at my parents house i got home from my flight
theyre related
Ohh
@velvet dagger r u gonna take that?
Nah disowned
fear or hear
I FEAR
Shut your bitch ass up
not anymore. i respect from a distance these days
it hasnt been the same since the day when esca and i-
?
oh well, i always look ahead
Had to step away for a sec but yeah if this were true that'd be game over for ryc
bros a simp
☠️
Ryc you know u can just confess directly on ur main right?!?!
me and my alt Jellycat were dating, until one day when Jellycat walked in on me feeding Esca grapes from the vine. Jellycat stormed off. I knew I screwed up big time but I was prepared to apologize to my partner. Unfortunately that night, Jellycat collected his belongings and fled into the town without a trace. These days I catch a glimpse of Jellycat from across the town square, walking in and out of the grocery, or even depositing wads of cash at the bank. But not once has Jellycat looked back my way
This shit cracks me up
confess to... myself!?
To dami
Finding Grass (1/69)
Where
Dang u r attracted to urself then
yes, its known in the fanfiction business as selfcest

hi cleoo
hi ally


How ru
This is why men can't practice self-love in this society
one day, i was fetching cookies from the bakery when i passed cleo and ally looking at fresh sourdough loaves. "have either of you seen jellycat?" i asked. "wait, arent you jellycat?" cleo asked. "well, no, jellycat is his alt, so they're the same but also different" explained ally
Ok but he has an alt he says is his bf
This is not self love this is Crazy
im okay! a bit sleepy
ryc fanfic era
Sleep nowwww
in the end, they directed ryc to jellycat. ryc brought jellycat a chocolate chip cookie from the bakery but jellycat crumbled it into pieces and then dropped it on the ground. ryc cried, slapped jellycat, and ran out of the bakery plotting his revenge
im still settling after a nightmare 
Bro is infatuated with jellycat
awe im sorry :(
whats jellycat?
its fine cause its me
ryc's alt
it's okay ^^ it happens
oic
i woke up confused and thought i was covered in beetles
which now that im more awake i feel grateful that i am in fact not covered in beetles

rip
to those left behind
nightmares can be so scaryy sometimes 😭
cute buggos
she babbyyyyy 🥺
yepp
im sure one day i'll eventually stop having them
like i feel like i have a lot of time left and i probably wont have them the entire rest of my life
that makes sense to me 
oop
dami i heard order matters for those 
jk 
LMAO this is high contrast mode
im not sure what that means 
Orange = right letter in the right spot
Yeah this was just evil because of how many words share that ending
||Could've been eater and I would've been toast||
Good night!
wait
is this the wordle
noo
ALLY NO
Hopefully you forget by the time you do it
Should work i have small brain of memory anyway
Gn!!
||Pater gater fater water jater hater I hate it I hate it ||
I’m crying
I tried a filler word
Now I either lose
Or get it
I learned my lesson
Didnt lose tho it was close
Wordle 1495 6/6
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:O
peak flip
im literally dying from doing all this fucking corpo BS

I learned today (not really) that a field called arithmetic statistics exist
corpo BS?
hm?
what type of corpo
its my courses
hm
arithmetic statistics
looks inside
we use tools from analytic number theory
present a canva of a finance dashboard with its KPI's for a tech product
:3
fucking braindead shit
The only difference is arithmetic statistics is more broad
Instead of sticking to prime distributions like a maniac you can talk about other things
:3
Anything that you interested in?
I'm interested in all

What makes them more special?
Uniformly distributed?
The what now 
its oke me explain :3
So you know how in the integers you can factor integers into primes?
Like 4 =2^2
oke
So you can play similar story for higher integers
By higher integers I mean Z[alpha] for an algebraic integer alpha
For example Z[i] ={a+ib| a,b in Z}
Z[sqrt(2)]
etc
so far so good?
So basically a set of translation?
You can think of it as copying Z in some way yeah
Mhm.
Are you familiar with field extensions?
I think I get the idea.
Great
Yeah so in the classical case we have Q as a field
And the integers in Q are Z
We do the same task in Q(i) and it turns out the integers are Z[i]
But it's worth noting it's not always Q(alpha) => Z[alpha]
We take the maximal such set of "integers"
I am not sure what you mean by this
Z[alpha] might not be the whole integers
They are the same set?
No we are just trying to make sense of integers in general
So the integers in Q[i] are the same as in Z[i]?
The "integers" in Q(i) is the whole set Z[i]
yeah but note that it's not always true
so finding the whole set of integers inside a field extension requires a bit more work
Mhm
Okay let's make stuff more precise
These Q(alpha)'s are called number fields
Just a finite field extension of the rationals
so far so good? :3
Mhm
Okay and corresponding to any number field K we have the ring of integers O_K
And these come from some monic polynomial of integer coefficients
So all in all we have a ring O_K. It's a dedekind domain (it behaves similar to Z as in it has prime elements and so on)
But the catch is we don't always have unique factorization
Okay o.O
yeah and that's where class number (ideal class group) business come from
it's a group that measures how bad is O_K from unique factorization
so now this naturally makes you question how often do you get UFD for some field extension
now this becomes statistical

Fun fact: for imaginary quadratic extensions you have finitely many. There are 9 exactly
But for real quadratic case it's open

But conjecturally there are infinitely many
?
9 =/= infty

Wait
Mksread
Lmao
multitasking be like
Fr though
But does that mean that in this way C is possibly "worse"
The whole C?
Well you want to look at the closure of the rationals right
that's the "big boy"

Now wr go down the algebra root
Spoilers: even the Galois group is hard to think about

So instead of take representations of this big group
Maps from this Galois group to GL(n)
At least we know the n=1 case
So... ermm... what was a Galois group again 
Me not know algebra ._.
Aside from abit od group stuff from linear algebrs
It has info regarding automorphisms of your field extension
Ah
For example
Q(sqrt(2))
How many automorphims do you have up to isomorphism
Well you have the identity map that sends sqrt(2) -> sqrt(2)
then you have one that sends sqrt(2) -> - sqrt(2)
so in total you have 2 elements

The automorphisms I just described
We have
- Identity i: sqrt(2) -> sqrt(2)
- tau: sqrt(2) -> - sqrt(2)
yeah a lot

uh
remember tau is a homomorphism :3
so one time you do it you land at - sqrt(2)
You do it again and you pick up another sign
they both cancel and now it's positive
so this has the same effect of taking the identity map i
tau^2= i
so the galois group is cyclic of order 2 :3
i wish i knew what this means
Do you know group theory?
Complex analysis
Oh I thought chartered accountant
You doing real analysis?
What now then
The analysis I touch nowadays is harmonic
Oh
i'm just starting in abstract and linear alg
i'm admittedly not very much familiar with most terms in those fields, sorry
Well roughly speaking what I said is "symmetries in Q(sqrt(2))" and "cycles of order 2" are the same thing
as a group
Admittedly this makes no sense if you haven't seen what's the point of algebra
that's a fair point. i'm trying to get there
probably too early to be going there, but i'll try to get there anyway
There was someone called deltoid in server
One common question to ask is if you are working with an algebraic object, can you relate to other familiar objects?
i don't think i am deep enough into abstract algebra to be able to confidently and accurately answer this question yet
so no would be the answer
this question depending on what math you do can either be really easy or open problem
i have an idea of the general concept and a bit of the calculations
but i won't claim to know every last detail
yeah this should be enough to get my point across
take mod 2
so you only have the numbers {0,1}
Because everything else will collapse to these two guys right
3 mod 2 = 1 etc
yup
okay let's take + to be our operation
by any chance, is this what i heard called a Galois field?
yes
i see. sorry to interrupt, please continue
alright
so in the integers with + we have the element 0 that satisfies a+0 = 0+a = a for all a in the integers
This 0 is called the identity element
it's the thing that you do stuff with it and has no effect on the result whatsoever
so the additive identity
yep
Now similarly the additive identity in integers modulo 2 is 0 as well
you still get a+0=0+a=a right
yup
Alright cool
okay the elements are {0,1} as we said
what happens when you add 0 twice?
you mean 0+0?
Yes
that would be 0, i suppose?
also 0
yep
So somehow the elements have the property that if you add them twice you get the identity element back
that's why it's cyclic, correct?
Yeah that's why they are cyclic
i see
Same thing goes for modulo in general
it's going to be cyclic of order n
order here means you spam the element n times and you get the identity element back
and the term isomorphism is because we are adding the same elements, not different ones, i am guessing?
isomorphism here means if we have two groups A and B and if we say A is isomorphic to B then we mean they have the same structure
Just like how integers modulo 2 vs cyclic group order 2 are the same thing
isomorphism!
good job!
thanks for the super deep explanation (and your time and effort)!
also hiiii delteto
i actually wasn't expecting to get an explanation after i said i was just starting abstract alg
I like to think of cyclic as having an n gon and you rotate it
So for cyclic of order 4 you have a square. Fix a vertex a. Now rotating 90 degrees 4 times will land you on the same vertex
understood! maybe i'll get around to trying to understand it algebraically by proving
not sure what this high schooling brain can achieve, but i'll give it a shot
yeah and the thingy I was talking about
Namely the galois group
for the case Q(sqrt(2))
It happens to be cyclic of order 2
which is also isomorphic to integers modulo 2

i will say i understand currently at a moderate level
but i will study this more later
meow
though school is already calling me crazy for studying all this at my age so hahah
keep it up! youre doing great
Relatable lmao
dont overwork yourself but you have the freedom to learn and study whatever you want
My prof told me I should just do my phd at this point
you know, same!
i got told to just go uni at this point
see if u can do that lol
i'm technically 2.5 years away from uni
why bother
ask ur school
so u can uni earlier
I would stay in school
plus, i prefer studying alone tbh
Not because of learning or anything
and i also have teachers to help understand uni material

It's helpful staying in school to establish friendship or whatever
social, basically
Yeah you get better socially
that's true as well
Also you don't have responsibilities
I wonder who is this person
but tau o tau (sqrt(2)) = tau (- sqrt(2)) which is only defined for the inverse function? Am I missing something
pick an element a+sqrt(2)b. Apply tau twice
but tau:{sqrt(2)} -> {-sqrt(2)}, no?
me really getting confus now
you can't apply tau on a+sqrt(2)b
huh
Wait when you say {sqrt(2)} do you mean this as a set?
tau just looks at a+sqrt(2) b and changes the sign
tau(a+ sqrt(2) b) = tau(a) + b tau(sqrt(2)) = a - sqrt(2) b
@solid yarrow
Hope this helps
tau here is a field automorphism

abandoned…
tikz-cd my beloved
Oh, thank you so much for clearing everything 
dw btw, ally and I are good friends 
wait so probably actually think im srs
Bruh ;-;
hiii 
yo
I didn’t!
I know you’re just messing around 
hi Bushy!
hi Tabby!
ello!
Hi tabs
Well ik u didnt
hi higher
I just had pho 
but some r taking it so serious ;-;
looks yum
Hello higher!
Makes think ppl think of me low
If someone genuineky hated me im not making them my profile thats like the definition of harassment
So good
some people don’t know 
Reminds me I should do that again
hey Pseudo!
I did eat chicken pho once
Ya but if u think of someone more highly u wouldnt think :p
Ima take it down anyway
tfw i went to a restaurant near my uni and i saw my prof
how are we al today :3
We both ate together :3
i LOVE pho
Just came back from the store
and its raining sm
So glad we got bakc before it started raining hard
well i'm glad you got home before it rained hard :D
thats so fair
one time on campus i was exiting a building w a friend while it was raining hard and
there were also sprinklers that were nearly hitting us
oop
Its ok i was smelling like @deep mango that time aka a cockroaches ass after a long day so idm the shower
PFFT
I think it’s just that some people aren’t familiar with our dynamic, and I want to avoid giving the implication that we’re mortal enemies 
either way, I’ll say that I personally found it pretty funny
genuinely amazing food
We r enemies

right!!
i need to eat pho again
food
pho = rice soup?
also nice bowl
looks pretty fancy
:3
rice noodle soup!
rice noddle soup?
yea they use rice noodles :]

gonna fall into food coma afterwards
as long as its yummy
fair
might even try supplementing it with something a little more "fatty"
then the energy levels might not drop to harshly
Chicken pho is great
fairrrrrr
i like beef pho 
now i wanna eat pho too :(
someone need to gib me good recipe
you should try it if you can :]
is it expenso to make?
Deru tetotetotetoris
i love adding an absurd amount of jalepeños to mine
to make, yes from what i remember
mhm
i have never made it tho
yea :(
i thought it was some low-pricey food that just tastes good
but pricey = bad
:(
now me sad
time to lay down on my bed
and
stare at the wall
By identity principle you and me are basically the same :3
:3
ratataaltata
that’s what I just had 
hi guys
hello
hello battery 
gib me pho recipe :(
hi foxy and higher!
hello!!
pho is very yummy i highly recommend
hiya!
Kinda unrelated but shit got expensive here I decided to plant my vegetables instead of buying
And it works
ayyy
crazy
i don't have the room for it tbh
could probably hold basil or something similar though
basil .
basil is nice
does this work for weed too? asking for a friend ._.
mhm
basil yummy
idk vro 💔🥀 i think yes
hm
onions!! my beloved
strawberry
i never really liked tomato raw. though i like it when used in other dishes, i.e. soup or sauce
cucumber is okie
yes the texture when it’s raw is just…. bad
i love cucumber 🚨
ayy wild cucumber
it’s wild cucumber i think
show picture of cucumber growth place :3
same
one of my least favorite things ever
how to get perms for uploading photos 😥
get the active role!
Old photo
🤝
you have an actual garden :O
h o w
Yeah
just be active?
meanwhile me rotting away in my one-room apartement ._.
you talk a lot basically, you gain more experience in the math channels i heard
The transition from mathematician to farmer in my 40s is going to be crazy
same!!
🤝 ^2
ahhh
you'll be fine

but thankfully i dont have anything else to do today after that
what's your fav tea?
maths
Matcha
oolong milk tea is the best tea imo :3c
yes!!!
chai straight from the motherlands
Maths and chill
need to study more topology and abs alg
you also have one of those fancy drinking glasses with the metal straw?
Chai is also great
metal straw LOL
with matcha
yeah i think u did
._.
i love chai my parents 5 servings of it everyday!
sorry
i rarely drink mate
i only drink the glass drink thingy
though i always wanted to try it
but me don't have that drinking apparatus
so i can't try :(
average south asian household vro 🥀💔
as of now rooibos-vanille is my fav

from teekanne
what does matcha taste like?
haha
The more matcha you drink the more girlboss you are
i personally dont like it
diva alert 🚨
And the more your japanese sounds like ojousama
unfortunately
btw deltoid do you know anyone in mathcord that is in-to-deep in complex analysis? i am looking for a textbook rec for ug->masters
Yes
PFFT
Me
hi ryc
am i missing out ive never had chai
low as Higher when hes lower
SOO SOO GOOD
i need to learn more complex analysis
i thought you were da number theory expert?
it was so fun
YES
Shut your bitch ass up
Today was the last lecture of the course
I need advanced complex analysis
:3
upcoming wednesday exam
yes! chai just refers to tea, so it’s just normal tea ingreadients cooked in the traditional way!
same
youre always sticking your nose up roach butts no one else knows wtf that smells like
Ya im aware
i just meant like
i was oogling at conway
but vol. 1 seems like ug
though we couldn't cover everything
Kindaa depends what flavor you want
true
ally you changed ur name back lmaoo
I wanted more contour integration
i haven't really thought too much about that ._.
with the masala flavor
nothing makes me more pmo than "chai is just tea!!!!"
obv anyone means masala chai with the standard spicing
Yea pinging me with arabic is hard
same. though tea can be great sometimes
There's a flavor of it that goes deep into complex geometry. Idk that stuff well
oh nice your aware 😮💨 good because some people think it’s some whole ass diffent concuction
for the taste
its like if youre like "hand me a tissue" and the person goes "um these are puffs"
coffee meetup :3
Omg no im not uncultured
What kind of coffee
ayyy
yeah... i am not really sure how to find my direction though ._:
just try i guess?
ally where r u from? if ur comfortable sharing ofc
theres this good coffee shop on my campus that mskes it fresh
But itsj so expensive
no ba
*d
you need to eep later
Me bornand raised in the US









