#serious-discussion
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oo the symphony chorus i was in sang this
the best seats in the hall are the ones on stage fr
Ty!
ITS SO GOOD
fr
its so good
Ravel is very good
im pretty sure ive sang a piece by him when i was in music school
it feels like a snowy day
Thereβs a sweet spot in my heart for russian composers tho
no same
truuu
stravinsky my goat
i used to be obsessed with oktavists
i'm obsessed with rite of spring
The period of time they wrote in was so awful that words couldnt describe how they felt so they wrote it into music
exactly!!
russian folk choral music in general is so good
yessssssssssss
i remember we got to sing a russian folk piece at all state, and the arranger was also the conductor
she was lecturing us on how basses are the most important, in true russian fashion 
I also like Chopin because his piano pieces were my introduction to romantic era piano music
what instrument do you play anamono
And i think i played his pieces more than any other composer
instrument(s)
oh heck yeah! i'm an oboist, clarinetist and trumpeter mostly :]
pianists ability to sightread everything i give them stupefies me
i know piano but my technique is utter shite
Hell yea
yeyeye :]
no fr
i physically cant sight read atp
i remember i had a piece which was a piano transcription of a cello+organ accompaniment which was kind of busy
but that day the accompanist for the class was like the head of the department or smth. he sightread it perfectly
actually insane
I have some chopin piece printed out but I havent practiced in a while
Cant remember which one
Yeah nocturne op37 no2
i was almost a music major
then i took physics and was like "huh. this is cool"
and then switched to math
eclectic arent u
linguistics, music, physics, math
LINGUISTICS?? fellow linguistics person?????
yes i cannot focus ever
i do the opposite of locking in on one thing
jack of all trades master of none is something im told quite often
is it bad to say?
nah not really i guess
LINGUISTICS MENTIONED?
i was a linguistics minor :]
PFFT
ur cs major?
i knew someone who was double majoring in linguistics + cs
me??
bro has neutral energy
it's not a bad combo, you can go into natural language processing like my sister did in grad school
they get positive energy from linguistics and negative from cs and they both cancel
though now she's sad traditional NLP is dead and everyone just uses LLMs
I think that's relatively common for a double with Ling
yeye and computational linguistics especially
ye i agree
yeah exactly
wtf is computational linguistics
your new thing to hate on
no that sounds actually based
vi knows more abt linguistics than i do
there's something called NACLO which we looked at in class in high school
like seems like the type of shit I did when I was in high school
north american computational linguistics olympiad
agreed
@fringe summit
sigh
sorry fellow italians
sharpie :3c
Speech and Language Processing
now i want detroit style pizza
this is the reason I love cs LMFAO
linguistics is rly fun :]
i miss it
i wish i could minor in it but i gotta graduate next year lmao
WOOOOOO GO TABBY
lowkey wanna learn spanish
idk if im commited enough for german
i kinda dropped it
learn it bc now im expecting u to
Death
bc i'm applying to grad school this year and idk what im gonna do if i don't graduate and get into a program π
chrew
german?
what are u interested in
based
but ik none of it rn
yay :D
i believe in uu
IM like margheritapizza but otherwise mehh
Yes
I honestly should
yeah
u should learn it if u wanna live there
true
Based
sharpie sharp
No
it's getting really hard
And no
UR going so far agead without me
i love pineapple pizza
i love pineapple
U fr dk flavor at all lil boy
not on pizza
it's like little flavor bombs on ur pizza. how can it be bad
no
i just love pineapple
bruh
wtf
AHAHAHAHA
Hate pineapple in general
Fair
I swear im not italian but pineapple pizza sounds awful
I like pineapple tho :3
its so good
im gonna tell the french u dip ur croissants in orange soda
Stinky
STINKY??? WHO??
Pineapple
i get sad when pineapple is added to salsa especially
sharp if u think this is stinky
i love salsa and pineapple but not together
oh i hate that
try mustard and watermelon (Ally likes it)
me not a sweet foodd person
i hate it sm
ur favorite
no
u do
dont lie
no u
i do too
mustard and watermelon sounds psychopathic
like i love coffee BUT HATE vlack coffee
real
i respect black coffee. i feel connected to the earth when i drink it
i like caramel shots in my lattes too
Death
I love black coffee
black coffee is nasty
i was there crawling over it fr
it's like dark chocolate. it's intense, bitter, flavorful
i love dark chocolate but not the same as black coffee
i hate dark chocolate
i should drink coffee
i hate any chocolate unless its kitkats
Bruh how
no not at this time
Bruhhhhh
i don't know!!
i mean kit kats are good but. dang
blocking u
dubai chocolate has been hyped up so much that i kind of expect it to be just ok
I never went to dubai
Shut up
wait what r u allergic to
rip
why did Dubai chocolates become more a trend in the last month
wasn't it a trend like a few years ago
last several months
dm me
its good
suremark have u tried the feta pasta
feta pasta? no
it being good or not has nothing to do with being a trend again
like viral feta pasta
Its good
So its popular
End of story
Hehe
π
r u a hater of it
I just said being good or not has nothing to do with itπ¬
looks tasty and simple, idk why its viral tho
Yes it does!
breh
Hater
maybe try it
and ull see
why am i a hater
dubai chocolate at least looks viral
like it's got the filling. good for social media
i guess you've got the big ol block of feta cheese here
this is kinda the level of conversation I should expect from a 1D super fan in 2025
hey 1D is good and ill forever be loyal
Good music and those boys made my childhood
Best birthday gifts ive gotten from friends r one direction ones
:3
thought > price
Real
When birthday
pfft
all good xD
What are your pronouns
any i just dont like being called man xD
hi
xD person
absolutely βΌοΈ
Hmm...is algebraic combinatorics a popular/large field? I am trying to narrow my research interests a little for grad apps sake (knowing they may change in the future)
viral feta pasta!?
There's definitely some stuff going on there. I do what could be called algebraic combinatorics, though it's a different vibe from what most people mean when they say that
28 this month
u try it before?
ur 28?
Lmao
Nah she means July 28th
its good if u season it
salt and pepper is what they normally put on it and its mid that way imo
but good with seasonings
its JULY!?
feta and tomatos have sharp tastes
what seasoning would you use
whats wrong w feta cheese
id use a bit of my georgian blend and maybe some oregano or something
Tomatoes used to be considered poison
I heard a good recap of that history just tonight
nothing its delicious
wow older than me by a few days 
many id have to look back at a dish i made but think of classics like oregano + parsley + garlic powder + onion powder
as opposed to real onions and real garlic... ok
anyway, now that i know that what you mean by seasoning is "midwestern umami bombing" im not surprised
i prefer my food a little spicy
Same
Weird
garlic and garlic powder are used for different things
same with onion and onion powder
π€¦ββοΈ
when r u going to get it
no but i dont add onions to it
@velvet dagger we have a GP on the loose
pushpek sweep him up
I never used garlic powder
i fear i am disappointed
ofc you'd say that
Oh no
Why can't I react to Deltoid's messages?
you're probably blocked
hellloooo
Iβm glad to keep you all literate~
do you no longer go by Pseudonium? :o
me literally every single time "is it psuedo or pseudo"
pseud
I took inspiration from their name
π₯
I do
yβknow pseudo is also, like, an actual word lol
I know but is psuedo a word?
idkkkk
I love this gif
same
:D
I love it too
@proven veldt weclome to the mathcord 
the admission committee begs to not send them screenshots of the motivational letter
which is the most affordable European country where you can get a house and other essential things much cheaper?
That's just the EU though
Switzerland looks the most expensive?
with higher GDP per capita, does it mean that you'll have better house and other essential things or does it mean that you'll still end up with a smaller house and very less retirement savings even though the country has highest gdp per capita?
because even though Switzerland has highest gdp per capita but I have seen that even after paying ton of money you get a small house to live and to buy a big house you need to be a millionaire or something
HI
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Will a professor hate me because I messed up presentation of a work
If they are a bad prof yes, if not then no
Ah damn, maybe I got to a bad prof
I'm sorry to hear that
Thanks, hopefully I can get through this
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I hate you
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I went for ||RUNIC|| before the actual answer
It was consistent with the first two, so it was basically 50/50
I messed up hard mode by repeating a letter in guess#2 though
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But I guess its not against the rules since the app didnt stop me
If itβs hard mode itβll have the * next to it
Oh, I didn't even know there was a hardmode.
Yeah it is
I see it specifically counters the meta strategy of starting with the same two words every time (which I admit to doing)
But also leaves you without recourse in scenarios like this:
I'm just wondering why its allowed to guess a word which you know will have a yellow letter
lmao
Yall are comparing wordles
Lemme do it
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hello there
Holy owl hi outsider
@neat lintel 1) pls don't DM me
2) I'm stating facts about Switzerland: you might recall how I gave 2 positives and 2 negatives also
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Lemme show my try 
!show
Show your work, and if possible, explain where you are stuck.
I love abusing commands hehe
Guhhhh, I'm at 4 and I only have 3 clues...

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@tender heron felt.
LMAO
I love how much wordle messes with your spelling
wait how so
Like
I don't use American spelling
I'm not american
But
It's like you have a few letters, and ur trying to figure how they're supposed to sound together
Then you just forget how to pronounce
Nvm
I meant pronounce not spell
I'm stupid
Problem: Given x, y > 0 such that x+y=1, and n is a positive integer satisfying n >= 2, prove the following inequality:
x^n/(x+y^3)+y^n/(y+x^3)>=2^(4-n)/5
Do you guys know how to solve this?
!help
To ask for mathematics help on this server, please open your own help channel or help thread. See #βhow-to-get-help for instructions.
What's the best number in terms of the properties it has in your opinion?
4
why
@neon garnet This is why i love sabrina
hey, I love the game Rocksmith, which is like a Guitar Hero with a real guitar
I'm studying ideas for developing a way of detecting not only individual guitar notes, but also guitar chords...
Here is what I have so far:
- I'm able to roughly detect individual notes using YIN algorithm
- I'm trying to detect chords looking at the Fourier transform of what is played and comparing the vector to a target fourier transform (a recording of a D minor)
The chord detection part is the hardest, so I'm looking for ideas before trying machine learning
I would show a video but I think I can't send it
nice
I really have no expertise at all in that area so I donβt have anything to offer, but I suspect that would be very difficult because of quite how many different way there are to play any chord, especially on guitar. Best of luck though that sounds like a fun project
yep, that's true... for making it less harder, i wanted to match the chord with a specific way of playing it, ignore variations, other positions and so on
i believe rocksmith does something like that... comparing what is being played by the player with a clean recording of what he should be playing, so if the player plays in another octave or something it should detect as wrong
actually I'm mixing two different things:
- match what was played with a target sound
- detect what multiple notes being played
the two solutions are valid but different
Ye
preferably go to #prealg-and-algebra (I have a problem for ye)
Yeah I would presume the former is much easier than the latter, but it sounds tough in any case. But I know so little about all that that I really couldnβt say
My introduction to blogging came in 1993 when I started an online column called βThis Weekβs Finds in Mathematical Physicsβ. The idea was to write summaries of papers Iβd read and explain interesting ideas. I soon discovered that, when I made mistakes, readers would kindly correct themβand when I admitted I didnβt understand things, experts would appear from nowhere and help me out. Other math bloggers report similar results.
baez
i love the mental image of "experts would appear from nowhere and help me out"
hiii
lmaoooo
manchildddddd π΅
trig sub is frying me rn
what the fuck? @steel vessel @jagged forge @solar hawk @velvet dagger
WHAT
well its not in usd let me see in usd
11 euros ig
LMFAO
THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING.
i think i need therapy bc of this
disgusting
11 dollars for this.. AND ITS 31% OFF π
i don't care if kids decorate their avatar with skibidi toilet
but why are they charging eleven whole dollars for this 
Because children will pay it
@craggy parcel
REAL

im definitely NOT going to buy this
ok the fact u had to even say that makes u sus
r u trying to convince urself of this factβ¦
This is cooked
worth every penny
unhinged
:/
its because im broke and need to budget
This implies you want to buy it?
if i won the lottery i wouldnt tell anyone, but there would be signs
i feel like ripping my hair out
Banish to #discussion
ts good af
Worth it
why
It's good wdym
upset
Sorry Ally, I hope you feel better soon
No
no we arent
no and this discussion was already had like yesterday
Then esca and Ally?

M why are you insisting that people are dating people
You seem friendly
Is the idea of platonic friendship just that foreign to you?
It is yeah
Well, news flash: it's normal
And to be insinuating that any two people who are friendly with each other must be romantically involved is strange in a bad way
It's normal for my standards
yeah dami and i fr r dating i call him honey booboo sugar uwu bear
WHAT
Seek therapy
My mood is so bad today for some reason
You're finally awake lazy
Look at us flirt
Ig im dating with all of mathcord
I flirt with esca too
sees woman online
perplexed that she has an identity outside of her relationship to a man
aw dangit nvm ive been caught red handed i flirt with the entirety of discord
hey guys does anybody know a 6 week calc 1 course?
For context this means 0.003% of my messages are βi love youβ
Ok thats enough
Hey ive been on discord since 2018 π
and i
talk like
this
a lot
do i need to prove suremark and i flirt too
oh so you talk like amukh
i think i hardly used discord at all before mathcord
i used discord a lot before mathcord
during the pandemic
id just yap in political servers
I mean in light of M's suggestions, mathcord has now updated patch notes
Everyone is now dating everyone else
Handles the confusion fr
how do you search all messages
yea mathcord men r so fine esp the topological pdes number theory la la la communicative algebra group theory representation theory comb algebraic geometry guys
SO FINE!
IF I TALK TO U THAT MEANS I LIKE U!
i guess i'm not liked then :(((
Talking about math with someone, or even greeting them really, is basically a marriage proposal
yea like if i add u that means i wanna kiss u
that also means i want us to cuddle and make out
so real
!!!! i want to see how many messages i have
does it count messages in servers im banned from
ah
:((( it only shows 1000+
@velvet dagger OMG YK WHATS THE BIGGEST SIGN OF THEM ALL
IF I VC U THAT MEANS I FIND UR VOICE SO HOT ..! and therefore attracted
FACTS IT'S AN EXCUSE TO SWOON
when did I become a little chicken 
oh i found it
oki i was ab to send pic
hei hei is bwaby chicken

14k messages
Hei hei
and i've been on discord longer than ally 
yes i just changed your name to soyjak
too much algebra yuck
i talk in dms a lot more than servers
oh btw that i means if i dm them i want us to have kids @velvet dagger
fr
Mathcord men SOOO HOT!
and now u win all arguments
and yet again the prophecy holds. every server and gc i join eventually becomes a dating server
I wanted to add your iconic emoji as your nickname π

Blame M
Yessss
Oh God
Ok. but wait
Why did it go from Dami -> Esca
Am i being shipped with every guy atp fr
first it was higher then dami now esca
smh i have to pretend like i didnt read that now
sigh
Ngl, I read smh as somehow
yeah i'm shipping you with harry styles
anyways M i hope that tangent makes u happy
ive already blocked that guy and moved on
that works too
one thing I really don't like is being shipped 
same its so weird
and i find it uncomfortable im getting shipped with so many ppl here
Yeahhhhhh that person really wanted you to be dating SOMEONE
Sometimes i wonder if M is an alt doing a quick check π Reveal who u are possible mathcord regular
Can promise u esca and dami r free
Uh I am not free for whoever M is an alt of
they would not stop complimenting me at the expense of others a month ago
that's something I did not like
rejected before they could make a move :(((
who knows what if its a mathcord regular u like but they wanted to do a check
Who is M?
Idk either a fr person or alt
So I'm in another server where people ship, but there it's kinda... The dynamic between everyone is such that it's more okay if that makes sense? Like it's all joke ship
Anyway one person got shipped with another who is a... CHARACTER. And I think the person who started the shipping was that character
oh, of someone? Because ur saying they're in Mathcord but I don't see an M. Or I'm blind
A mathcord regular I like? 
omg i want that joe emoji

@wicked mirage
Oh no that ping is gonna bring them back
O
What've you done
its ok gotta let them know Nope im not taken by mathcord users
In Fact my Status is Single. So fr. Not taken by a mathcord user
Except i am laying my eyes on modmail
He's so fine
@polar panther @blissful sparrow @native seal @quasi jetty @fathom swallow are the best 
LMFAO
Oh these bots 
ModMail officially has the she/her pronoun role now though 
im so tired
Can I ship you with tatsu?
thanks

they are frens
with all due respect, please try to be kinder to others
stfu i like deltoid
Conjecture disproven
me too
me three
only 2 days remaining till season 4 of peak airs
Me four
Uhhh, uhuh, agree, yes, I know exactly which series
i have 2 days to rewatch first 3 seasons a few times
to not miss out on the sublime plot developments
what series
Are we talking about scooby doo mystery Inc? I didn't know it already had a third seasonβΌοΈ
Nope I haven't even watched the first season
I only watched bits and pieces with my fam
I don't recommend
Not interested
the peak the cinema
rent a girlfriend
This anime at the very beginning be like
"I got a gf. I repeat again. I got a gf"
The blonde girl: sorry im breaking up with u
Silly anime
o god
Lmaooo
i have not watched it and i will never watch it
Same
hearing people crash out over it is really funny tho
There are some funny moments but yeah
it's not about the story it's about the suffering
Chizuru is a nice character tho
animeβs greatest tragic tales:
berserk
vinland saga
rent-a-girlfriend
Berserk is god tier
there's something beautiful in reading 400 chapters of unfiltered cringe
this man really distilled cringe into its essence and preserved it for eternity huh
wtf deltoid was rude to M?
i don't like deltoid anymore
well, your experience isnβt the same as everybody elseβs
it being the case for you doesnβt make it the case for everybody else
I doubt it tbh
Sure that's fair though if ur genuinely curious if im dating someone i could always be asked via dms. im someone who doesnt mind sharing
Okay to be serious for a moment, that's a bad impression to have and commenting that way on random people in public is disrespectful
but at the same time
some dont disclose it and keep it private
just respect that please
I like deltoid
Me too, It was a joke
Also i hate it because there's been times where i had a crush but they didnt ask me out because they thought i was taken π PLS STOP ASSUMING!!!!
What.
Yeah you're right, hadn't even considered it
So like, either you make that comment and it's wrong and then you've made it weird (and risk spreading rumors), or you're right and maybe they're keeping it under wraps and now it's awkward.
Either don't speculate at all, just live and let live, or if your curiosity is insatiable ask in DMs, and ask whether that's public knowledge/okay to talk about out loud. And if they choose to not comment or to confirm/deny but ask you not to babble, respect that
If you feel you've been wronged by so many people, maybe take it to modmail instead of airing your dirty laundry in discussion
Learning that somebody you like is taken is a bit painful though
So I'd personally assume everyone is taken
Noo u could miss out on the love of ur life
Unless u do realize theyre taken then back off
but dont just assume
Omg I love automorphic forms
They are taken
What is taken? Like taken hostage?
By Galois representations
Ive been wronged by the π’ ers so i had to prove to discussy that Yes, I do flirt with these men in DMs.
0 results of "I love you" in DMs. Or 12 out of 33k.
Conjecturally at least
Taken means in a relationship
Ahahaha
Ooo
Anyways In case the shippers r considering
Seems like I came in the wrong time
Oh hn ts pmo!!! uhh crocodino?
We're talking about Langlands and it's the wrong time?
No you guys are talking about relationships
oh yea dont like math
So i can really eliminate everyone here 
I just came in and was like "I love automorphic forms"
its not much of a deep convo
70% me silly tangent the rest correcting M
In my case the risk reward is heavily unfavourable
Also I'm just saying that I can see why somebody would like to assume everyone is taken unless proven otherwise
ur free to talk ab what u please Sir automorphic
This M guy again 
You guys? I'm talking about Langlands fr
Based
And yeah the relationship talk was started by M trying to ship people lol
i see
i think its worth risking a friendship if u like the person if thats what ur implying
if u both r good friends ull understand this is a normal thing
and move on
find somebody else
I'm taken by automorphic forms
Until proven true automorphic forms are mine
friendships r gonna end at some point anyway
and ur life is short
just shoot ur shot friend or ur gonna regret for a very long time asking urself "What if"
What if
I'm taken by my future wife 
Yeah it's unfortunate that there's never a risk free way of going about these things
Not just in relationships but in general really
Nah I mean that it's very unlikely I would be happy in any relationship
So personally I'd just avoid them altogether
oh fair
A lot of moves in life are extremely high risk high reward
Noooo
u should be able to be happy on ur own in fact
i regretted mine for a few years but honestly thats also fine because now im glad i didnt go for it. i was too immature for a relationship then and i would have messed up in a way that hurt us both
My way of going about this is I establish a good friendship with them and ask them out. That way if they say no we are still friends anyway :3
Unless they have a policy of not talking to whoever proposes to them

Have any of yall rejected someone out of curiosity
once for me
i said yes to the other two
hehe
yes ive rejected twice
In my life time?
yes
"Oh you ugly anyway"
I did reject a few people, but idk what "out of curiosity" would mean
She's the curious one
im the curi-
I only rejected once but I also said yes to the same person 
Rather than the rejection being "rejection due to curiosity"
Thx dami the cheerio boo boo bear
Ahhh I see
My yes is higher than no
Oof u were like COME BACKKKK
grabbing their feet before they could leave the door
They asked again and I realized I'm an idiot for rejecting
Idiot?
I've rejected one person who was just asking me out to mess with me, and then one actual rejection to someone who was interested
i mean imn ot gonna say yes if i dont feel mutual
Idk if ur the same but i wouldnt call that being an idiot
Y'all have people that are interested in you? 
Somehow both online and IRL
Unfortunately
Wauw, people magnets
U barely know me online how u already liking me
Or have a single idea of what i look like..
Idk I felt bad for rejecting that person but they came back somehow
Online relationships take a while

You are short
I was jk ab the irl u gotta be confident man yes there will be ppl who like u for u
dont always say tho
irl I make my friends through other people or through a weird coincidence
still there might be someone who likes u
but doesnt say
I think my crew of people definitely end up gravitating toward each other
Sure
yeah but not every "I love you" even has that connotation
Oh yeah she was trolling
if i repeatedly say it in a persons DMs i would say it kinda does
and plus
whenever I say "I love you" it's always platonic 
i personally keep that for my partner if i were to be taken but i dont project that onto others
i say like
"i love u" or "ily" to guy friends
icic 
You're dumping me

if I ever say it, the assumption I want others to make is that it's platonic
Id be disappointed in a future bf if they said this to me smh
ITS LIKE K'ing u
is "i love u" different from "i love you"
For me yes
i see
hmm
Okay I just realized the spelling difference
I was legitimately confused for several seconds
I don't like abbreviating "you" to "u"
Like wait a second you said the same thing twice
i personally feel like if u really do love me u should take the effort to write it all out
but I also don't want people to misinterpret my messages
like love me as a partner
what's the way to go about this? 
not everyone is the same
and knowing who u r
i know ur always platonic
even if u repeatedly tell me i love you
if it were to be like others id be like hmm could they like me?
say platonically the first time and then its established
Start saying "I hate you" instead
well it's less about me, and more about the people I'm saying it to 
Yeah there's no system. You just have to make sure that by the time you're saying that to people directly they know that about you
depends
some dont even like it at all
I SAW THAT
fair enough
not the message edit 
and to people who are comfortable with it nonetheless
mhm!
Yeah that too
discord is so scuffed
I don't just say it to people I've barely met
but yea i wouldnt LOVE a discord person unless i have a good idea of who they r, personality, and what they look like
maybe i could start crushing based off personality
but not love
both r different
yeah i'm not saying you do that. just that some people might not feel comfortable with those words even from friends
i have thoughts on this but people wont like them
ally u will pay for this
(I used to be one of those people :p)
I think I've mellowed out on it though
Lol I'm generally skeptical of the idea of meeting people through discord tbh. Not for others but specifically for myself
I won't say it won't happen but I don't see it being very likely
like meeting potential partners?
Yea
you're showing your age old man
i would also say i'm skeptical of it for myself specifically
Go take your arthritis medication
this is what they call a war on two fronts
actions and responsibility are what form long lasting mutual trust. helping someone out in their time of need, being physically present when theyre suffering, these things build trust that lasts even after the rose tinted lens are off. the amount of trust is therefore proportional to the amount of responsibility you can take, but online that responsibility is limited and hence so is your relationship.
i am both a pregnant furry and an ancient bag of bones
this is what they call losing a war on both fronts
i'll fight the whole world till my death if i have to
Show me your fursona?
i mean i do kinda think your relationship online is limited, although then again, people take some online games pretty seriously lol
the question is can such a relationship start online
or rather how likely is it
I think the amount of responsibility you take by default online is definitely a fair bit less (not even relationship context but just friends), but the amount you in principle can take could go fairly high. Things probably shouldn't be online forever ofc but some amount of long distance can still involve the trust building given the right commitment
actually i mean im pretty sure a lot of relationships have started online
for me personally, i'm skeptical that that would happen
die
Do you not have one?
no
i feel like i put on a persona online that will crumble if i met any of you irl. like youd find out im a bum loser and hate my guts lol. i think the same goes for most people online in the sense that expectations and reality might differ so drastically that it ruins any chance
I had my longest relationship start with Roblox. We knew each other for one year and we decided to meet each other IRL and it worked out until something bad happened 
ive seen long distance relationships that work out, but they all started out irl
I don't think we'd hate you, but it is true that online vs irl can definitely have a lot of variance. In my case there's basically no variance though
Dami VC vs chat is basically the same
LMFAO
How long did it take for something bad to happen?
4 years?
That's way long, like that went weeellll.
Lol it was going well until bad RNG struck
For I didn't even get offline before something bad happen with my long term online friend group.
damn well i'm sorry you feel that way, i mean i'm sure we all come across somewhat differently irl and online, but i think we'd all recognize the part of you we already know and appreciate
That's just normal sounding.
Yeah the cancer stuff was very bad RNG
That's uhhh, less normal sounding.
for dating on the other hand, the question of expectations vs reality when it comes to irl vs online is pretty relevant, particularly in terms of physical attractiveness but esca has no problems with that fr fr
aw thanks
Depressing stuff
yeah
Okay that's it
thanks dami
i feel a little depressed every time the conversation moves to dating ngl, just reminds me how bleak my romantic life is 
M is gone
thank god
Vaguely annoying was one thing but calling cancer karma will not fly
i had them ignored and i had no clue a conversation was going on
Wait, did something happen
Guess dami was so fast
fastest handsbans in the west
i mean
u dont need ripped abs big chest whatever to be attractive
just be urself
before i crushed on someone with acne
:3
beauty is eye of beholder
yeah i mean personality absolutely plays a big role and can transform the way you see someone
yeah also why i dislike when friends are judgmental of who you date
for looks, that is
like on a looks basis? yea thats kinda messed up
like seriously shut up
real or maybe u just do find em attractive lolol
sometimes friends can see thins you cant, like red flags
im ngl
Yeah that sounds good
5'6. red flag
The more I grow up the more I like personality more than anything
But often what is visible is just the looks
Looks definitely matter we cant lie but
that shouldnt be like
the real driver lol
tfw my friend dated... nvm
my phone isnt charging anymore 
Android?
iphone
L
i just blew $80 on a monitor
Dang
so true besties
im not super concerned i can do a payment plan ill need my moms credit though
uh oh
truee
I'm a Capricorn, when do I get smarts?
Just buy a funny Nokia. My friend does this, it works
I think people's preferences as far as looks go can be influenced somewhat strongly by how much they like the personality
i agree
Like, a cheap phone with WhatsApp works good enough
if someone laughs and smiles a lot theyre already 10x more attractive in my eyes
I liked a girl once cuz of her looks but later on I kinda stopped cuz she was toxic
This is re this bit btw
What if personality and looks are both dumpster fire

What am I saying, smh. Sorry
Do you guys think crushing is the same as loving
become a billionaire
well the good news is neither is set in stone. looks are somewhat less malleable but theres a lot you can achieve in that respect
M ideal
Like unless the person just has such a specific physical type that they basically want an AI generated person, there's a range they find attractive and a range they find acceptable. And how much they're into you can change by quite a lot within those categories based on non-visual factors
It's just like job applications
Well, I mean personality as in e.g. autism cannot be changed
Hard to answer in the abstract. Looks are kinda nebulous, people have very different things they like, and I definitely can't comment on it personally since I just don't pay enough attention to pop culture to know what's considered typically attractive
oh well i mean, if ultra is to be believed, autism rizz is a thing
a powerful thing in fact
Autism rizz? What the
Well, then I just do not have the rizz I guess
Autism rizz is my favorite
u just gotta foster it fr fr
I had a crush on someone in mathcord cuz of it




