im not surprised thats a top
#serious-discussion
deep mango
im
not going to be mean
i love leilani, i had a friend in middle school named leilani
but then
when i was an RA in college
timid bronze
leilani is a cute name
deep mango
one of my residents was named leilani and she was in a horrendous roommate conflict
not really her fault but i still hate her
FUCK YOU.
autumn is a good name
timid bronze
so is june
deep mango
jade is great
deep mango
so is june
but not august
timid bronze
winter is so adorable
deep mango
2 good ones
deep mango
ok you had me with juniper and then you got a little silly
raelynn has potential if spelled differently
idk how to spell it though
it just sounds nice
?!?!??!?
no no no no
at least none of these are patricia or w/e
solid snow
omg ryc u were an RA?
deep mango
yes
solid snow
new lore just dropped
latent edge
I'm naming my child legend 
latent edge
166 AHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
latent edge
Jasmine is great
timid bronze
jasmine is so pretty
timid bronze
same with zara
@deep mango
latent edge
All my friends' names that start with J are great
timid bronze
What do u say ab what i wanna name my future kid
deep mango
ok, im done
deep mango
<@533879085542146059>
zaras very nice
latent edge
wait what website btw
timid bronze
So glad ryc doesnt know my name
timid bronze
zaras very nice
Thank you
latent edge
I wanna see how common is my name
timid bronze
ngl i wanna legally change my name bc im tired of ppl mispronouncing it all the time
also bc i just dont find the joy in being called it
deep mango
So glad ryc doesnt know my name
is it "furreigh"
deep mango
alleigh ->
latent edge
https://www.whattoexpect.com/baby-names/list/top-baby-names-for-boys/
it's very common goddammit
latent edge
mine is top 50
timid bronze
still pretty high
urs probs Rick
latent edge
I changed my name and the current one is not even on the list
but my old name is there
rocky shuttle
rychard
velvet dagger
I think my name with its spelling, especially including my middle name, has a very real chance of being unique
timid bronze
dami clearly loves his name
because he doxxes himself all the time
Like shut up
atp ur advertising ur name
velvet dagger
Look the puns are too good
deep mango
here is my name graph, and i was born 1998
latent edge
if my current name is not on the list that means my name is very unique 🗿
timid bronze
Look the puns are too good
ok AI
deep mango
timid bronze
omg wait
deep mango
urs probs Rick
rick plot
rocky shuttle
here is my name graph, and i was born 1998
what happened at the peak
deep mango
lol
latent edge
https://nametrends.net/
my name is not there either
velvet dagger
this is my name
Unique fr
rocky shuttle
https://nametrends.net/
ew, only in the us
latent edge
nope not there either
latent edge
first letter?
velvet dagger
LMAO
timid bronze
first letter?
guess 3 letters
timid bronze
no
latent edge
R
timid bronze
no
timid bronze
no
Ok ur time expired
latent edge
then ur not cool ig /hj
velvet dagger
Brutal
timid bronze
guess 3 letters
Y
timid bronze
V
latent edge
no
timid bronze
H
rocky shuttle
∆
timid bronze
then ur not cool ig (not joking)
latent edge
Brutal
timid bronze
Says U .
rocky shuttle
just D if I get a shot 
latent edge
that's wrong
rocky shuttle
sad
latent edge
too bad
rocky shuttle
I wonder if it's ∆
rocky shuttle
duh
timid bronze
@velvet dagger Can u be my free salon pls and take my tangles out
I dont wanna detangle my hair rn.
velvet dagger
Oooof hahaha
velvet dagger
I won't be thaaaaat bad. Hopefully
timid bronze
I won't be thaaaaat bad. Hopefully
would u trust AI to give u a haircut
velvet dagger
Not in its current form
deep mango
all the time too
im super good at pronouncing names
i can even do the accent
gabrrrrrrreeeellllllaaaaa
solid snow
would u trust AI to give u a haircut
Haircut? One ear cut coming right up!
timid bronze
Haircut? One ear cut coming right up!
LMFAOO
timid bronze
Not in its current form
what ab heart surgery
velvet dagger
Definitely not right now LMAO
timid bronze
i trust ai to give me heart surgery more than u
velvet dagger
You should
velvet dagger
Oh if I was a professional I'd be excellent
But my hands aren't steady
Precludes me from that career LMAO
velvet dagger
LMFAO
timid bronze
LMFAO
no i kid u not that
when im giving tours on campus
i have to walk backwards and
twin flicker
ai should spot me at the gym
timid bronze
w my backpack i feel like im gonna fall OMFG
twin flicker
would be very useful
velvet dagger
Oof do you have a lot of stuff to carry?
timid bronze
yes
timid bronze
ai should spot me at the gym
so true
twin flicker
actually i havent required a spot in a while but it would be cool tbh
lean jackal
ai should spot me at the gym
I'll spot
timid bronze
actually i havent required a spot in a while but it would be cool tbh
imagine ai accidentally makes a mistake
lean jackal
Ignore the people who had barbells fall on them because of me
latent edge
I get a pencil, a pen, a notebook, a chalk and a tablet
velvet dagger
imagine ai accidentally makes a mistake
"Butterfingers 🤖"
twin flicker
i feel like i lose aura every time i ask for spot on bench because i bench less than 2 plates but its ok
latent edge
gym mentioned
timid bronze
what matters is ur safe
lean jackal
I will say most protein power drinks r so nasty.
They taste like fucking chalk
velvet dagger
Oh yeah many of them are bad
lean jackal
Who tf approved that shit
lean jackal
exactly
velvet dagger
I think there's one which is decent? I forget offhand the name though
neat lintel
It doesn't seem right to learn math and go to the gym
twin flicker
I will say most protein power drinks r so nasty.
i drink protein powder w water
latent edge
It doesn't seem right to learn math and go to the gym
Lol I do both
velvet dagger
It doesn't seem right to learn math and go to the gym
It does violate Geneva conventions but I won't tell if you don't
timid bronze
"Butterfingers 🤖"
LOLOL
timid bronze
They taste like fucking chalk
real
lean jackal
Lol I do both
Casually doing algebra while squatting 300 lbs
latent edge
hell yeah
twin flicker
Casually doing algebra while squatting 300 lbs
i think i can squat 300 i havent done it in a while tho
timid bronze
It doesn't seem right to learn math and go to the gym
not math major but will say i never understand the ppl who can get 8 hour sof sleep and be so busy
ngl in uni this 2 sem i had an avg of 5-6 hours of sleep
neat lintel
not math major but will say i never understand the ppl who can get 8 hour sof sl...
I was trying to do both but I couldn't since learning math take 8 hour of my time
timid bronze
bc of school + personal care including working out and more on
timid bronze
i drink protein powder w water
Still soooobad
lean jackal
weight = 300
level = 90
if level <= weight:
print("Gym gods have abandoned me, now there is no hope")
print("And so kratos cast himself from the highest mountain of all of athens"
ok back
twin flicker
oh shit i forgot my daily pushups again
bro prolly does 100
timid bronze
i love ternary operator
is this math or cs talk no pls noo
im allergic to math and cs
neat lintel
ngl in uni this 2 sem i had an avg of 5-6 hours of sleep
If you can manage your time, you can do it all. with enough sleep too
twin flicker
is this math or cs talk no pls noo
ternary operator is cs
its just a quick way to write if else statements
basically
latent edge
me when x ? y : z
twin flicker
if a then b else c is the same as a ? b : c
if u write nested ternary u will be killed though
timid bronze
If you can manage your time, you can do it all. with enough sleep too
trying but its quite demanding
latent edge
time to kill all python users then
timid bronze
if u write nested ternary u will be killed though
cs scary
lean jackal
me when group = ["Please", "save", "me"]
x,y,z = group
print(x, y, z)
neat lintel
```
weight = 300
level = 90
if level <= weight:
print("Gym gods have abandoned...
I was considering Cs, but I eventually chose electrical engineering 😔😔
latent edge
I was considering Cs, but I eventually chose electrical engineering 😔😔
based
lean jackal
I was considering Cs, but I eventually chose electrical engineering 😔😔
Im in cybersecurity
shit is pain
latent edge
electrical engineering is goated
timid bronze
whats cc
latent edge
Im in cybersecurity
tell me you have kali linux and metasploit without telling you have kali linux and metasploit
timid bronze
computer computing
lean jackal
tell me you have kali linux and metasploit without telling you have kali linux a...
I have ubuntu but sure
latent edge
I have ubuntu but sure
fake cybersecurity bro /hj
neat lintel
computer computing
Idk
lean jackal
I had a guy on my robotics team doing aerospace engineering, and dude did calculus problems just casually
neat lintel
I Was thinking about cyper security
lean jackal
fake cybersecurity bro /hj <:opencry:586078614865444865>
I tried looking up /hj and it literally came up with the hitler youth group
timid bronze
I had a guy on my robotics team doing aerospace engineering, and dude did calcul...
aerospace engineers r hot
lean jackal
way to go chrome, I might switch to microsoft edge now
lean jackal
aerospace engineers r hot
He was a good looking dude too
velvet dagger
I tried looking up /hj and it literally came up with the hitler youth group
Breh
neat lintel
He was a good looking dude too
What about ele eng
lean jackal
What about ele eng
That idk
neat lintel
I think they are handsome
latent edge
biology majors are handsome in my uni
latent edge
cs, engineering and nursing... all toxic
neat lintel
is that unusual?
Yes
neat lintel
cs, engineering and nursing... all toxic
Bro
timid bronze
I think they are handsome
thats the math and chem tas here
math and chem tas here r so hot
velvet dagger
cs, engineering and nursing... all toxic
Specific types of engineering or in general?
latent edge
just in general
lean jackal
I used to have a coworker that did cyber, and he literally got an internship for being a military contractor
timid bronze
some cs majors r hot some smell bad
neat lintel
just in general
What's your major
lean jackal
some cs majors r hot some smell bad
I will say this now, most of them smell awful
latent edge
math
timid bronze
I will say this now, most of them smell awful
😂
my friend was
complaining ab
how stinky one of her cs classes is
idk if shes
neat lintel
I will say this now, most of them smell awful
I agree
timid bronze
exaggerating or fr
lean jackal
It's like walking into a classroom full of axe spray trying to cover the scent
timid bronze
LMAOOO axe spray
twin flicker
exaggerating or fr
im in cs and i think most ppl look fine and smell fine but some are odd
i think it is a minority in a sense
timid bronze
Oh yes no a lot of cs majors r so fine
latent edge
physics majors are so chill man I love them
lean jackal
im in cs and i think most ppl look fine and smell fine but some are odd
That is accurate, I was lowkey exaggerating about the axe spray
timid bronze
Every major has its fine ppl
twin flicker
do axe bombs count as biohazards
lean jackal
But still a lot of them did smell bad
velvet dagger
The two different meanings of fine 🤣
lean jackal
do axe bombs count as biohazards
What about fork bombs?
timid bronze
The two different meanings of fine 🤣
Bro yk w i mean
timid bronze
I only marry chem majors starting today Fr
velvet dagger
Bro yk w i mean
Oh I know but it was funny because the person before used fine in the "Yeah that's fine" sense
latent edge
the chem department is naturally toxic in my uni but my chem friends are incredibly chill like crazy
velvet dagger
And then you used in the fyne shyt sense right after
timid bronze
Oh I know but it was funny because the person before used fine in the "Yeah that...
bro.
neat lintel
im in cs and i think most ppl look fine and smell fine but some are odd
They will become unemployed, since I have never seen a cs graduate with a job and good looks.
twin flicker
They will become unemployed, since I have never seen a cs graduate with a job an...
i know a few
velvet dagger
So the contrast was 
timid bronze
And then you used in the fyne shyt sense right after
I ONLY USE fine shyt in gartic
twin flicker
looking good also lowk helps w finding a job
lean jackal
They will become unemployed, since I have never seen a cs graduate with a job an...
It just depends
latent edge
looking good also lowk helps w finding a job
yeah having abs is great you can talk about it during interviews
timid bronze
bro as long as ur presentable ull get a job
twin flicker
software engineer recruiting is not that hard
u dont need to skip showers to get a job
lean jackal
looking good also lowk helps w finding a job
You can get away with a lot of shit by looking good
twin flicker
theres a limit, some people assume negative things about you if you are very attractive
lean jackal
and dont listen to the people who say it doesnt
timid bronze
and dont listen to the people who say it doesnt
they clearly never had a glow up before then
only those that had a glow up will understand
twin flicker
well personally i became not fat and i didnt notice any diff
lean jackal
they clearly never had a glow up before then
I was fat as fuck at one point, then I dropped to 150. There is a huge fucking difference
timid bronze
theres a limit, some people assume negative things about you if you are very att...
this is true as well
latent edge
I want to be fat and then get fit at some point in my life
lean jackal
People wanted nothing to do with me back then, and now all of a sudden I cant get away from people's awkward small talk
timid bronze
No one wins in this situation
latent edge
I never was fat before
lean jackal
Even when acting like a tool in public people still want to be around me
it's weird asf
twin flicker
but yeah i lost like 30 pounds and my treatment didnt really change
twin flicker
so i dont really believe it
timid bronze
Even when acting like a tool in public people still want to be around me
ikr itd be cute in a stereotypically attractive person but annoying in a stereotypically ugly person
velvet dagger
Winning is a rare and precious thing fr
latent edge
true I'd always win
neat lintel
bro as long as ur presentable ull get a job
It’s just because majors like CS are developing fields, which means you can't depend only on the univ you also need to take courses outside of it. That takes time, and that's why I said most of them have a messy appearance
lean jackal
ikr itd be cute in a stereotypically attractive person but annoying in a stereot...
Yeah, there was some dude who killed a mom and child in a car crash and people literally said he was too hot to goto jail
twin flicker
lowk this girl called me a butterface on a disocrd server when i posted maybe i am chopped 💔
timid bronze
It’s just because majors like CS are developing fields, which means you can't de...
i saw the waterloo meme of before and after engineering
i burst out laughing
😭
velvet dagger
lowk this girl called me a butterface on a disocrd server when i posted maybe i ...
I have no idea what butter face even means
neat lintel
it is true
😭😭😭😭 fr
timid bronze
Yeah, there was some dude who killed a mom and child in a car crash and people l...
Wtf
lean jackal
i saw the waterloo meme of before and after engineering
I always imagine napoleon on that
deep mango
if you were a rizz god like me it wouldnt matter
timid bronze
Ryc shut up
lean jackal
if you were a rizz god like me it wouldnt matter
Pack it up guys, the rizzinator is here
timid bronze
ngl a lot of the times ppl just take photos at a bad angle lol
angle of the photo matters fr
deep mango
venus vafa lethal facecard
neat lintel
angle of the photo matters fr
It doesn't matter
deep mango
angle of the photo matters fr
dude i see so often ppl taking photos from below its SO FUNNY
why are you doing that shit
lean jackal
venus vafa lethal facecard
Impressive, let's see paul allen's face card
velvet dagger
Yeah, there was some dude who killed a mom and child in a car crash and people l...
What
latent edge
huh
timid bronze
It doesn't matter
it does
neat lintel
I saw a video of girl show that the angle of the picture doesn't make any diff
jaunty ibex
2 blocked messages
timid bronze
dude i see so often ppl taking photos from below its SO FUNNY
fr
latent edge
taking photos from below is ugly
jaunty ibex
2 blocked messages
deep mango
timid bronze
Ok time to wash hair bye
jaunty ibex
1 blocked message
deep mango
ppl whose faces look good from below have an arcane power
twin flicker
ngl a lot of the times ppl just take photos at a bad angle lol
i look decent in a mirror but terrible in a camera
idk why
velvet dagger
Nobody cares Vero
neat lintel
i look decent in a mirror but terrible in a camera
You have to be like ryc so you can be beautiful in both
twin flicker
i think my acne lowk is the only thing nerfing me i just gotta get that right
timid bronze
i look decent in a mirror but terrible in a camera
oh this is like everyone girly
cameras r distorted
deep mango
idk why
cuz ur used to seeing you in a mirror
so in camera its flipped and looks weird to you
timid bronze
some r genuinely photogenic true but
deep mango
everyone else sees you the way you see yourself in a mirror
velvet dagger
For some reason whenever I see myself in a camera it feels lopsided. Even if I reverse it
twin flicker
i wonder if you see yourself as worse if its not how youre used to seeing yourself
velvet dagger
I don't like seeing pictures of myself LMAO it's just disconcerting
latent edge
I rarely have pics of myself
velvet dagger
Eyy
lean jackal
People say I look attractive but I genuinely dont feel like it
I feel like im more average
twin flicker
sometimes i wish there was an easy way to find out how attractive you are
neat lintel
sometimes i wish there was an easy way to find out how attractive you are
Ask your friend
I was confused once, but my friends told me that I'm average
velvet dagger
sometimes i wish there was an easy way to find out how attractive you are
I'll say ignorance is bliss on this point
twin flicker
Ask your friend
my friend told me i have potential idk what that means
foggy meadow
~~I'll say ignorance is bliss on this point~~
Sloth you want to help me with programming today?
velvet dagger
Not right now sadly. Tbh I'll be somewhat busy for the near future. On my way to fly soon + have a conference next week + will be packing my apartment
velvet dagger
That's true yeah
velvet dagger
~~I'll say ignorance is bliss on this point~~
Oh wait for reference I wasn't taking a dig at you Vereity, in hindsight it sounds like I was saying ignorance is bliss for you
I meant more that I don't wanna know
quick mantle
sometimes i wish there was an easy way to find out how attractive you are
OMD SO REALL
quick mantle
I was confused once, but my friends told me that I'm average
buuut since they know u they might think ur more than u are
mint canopy
sometimes i wish there was an easy way to find out how attractive you are
As someone who had similar confidence issues, I have some things to say.
I don't know you, but you are probably attractive. Yes, really. This isn't just feelgood bullshit platitudes. I really mean it. As long as you don't constantly lick your eyeballs and, idk, you wash from time to time, you are attractive. I realise it's hard to see this from your own perspective -- especially when you're feeling unhappy about yourself -- but it's true. Some people (not everyone!) will like you just the way you are. And if you groom well and take care of your general wellbeing then you might start to see it yourself from time to time.
I constantly just walk down the street and am amazed by all the attractive people. It's wild to me. Pretty much everyone I see is beautiful to me. I'm really not exaggerating
neat lintel
buuut since they know u they might think ur more than u are
Bro
Believe me I'm the most average looking in the world
neat lintel
All my family and my friend said the same thing
velvet dagger
I feel like going to someone random and being like "Hmm have you considered the possibility that if your friends call you average, they overestimate you?" is questionable
neat lintel
I feel like going to someone random and being like "Hmm have you considered the ...
That hurt tbh
velvet dagger
Like technically anything is possible for anyone
quick mantle
but like do u rlly think ppl who know u are gonna be like bro u look trash
neat lintel
It's like saying I'm ugly or not
quick mantle
the lowest they would say is average
velvet dagger
but like do u rlly think ppl who know u are gonna be like bro u look trash
They definitely have but also even if that were true, why is that something you felt the need to share?
quick mantle
or like even if they are being truthful, they can be used to the way u look just cuz they have seen
velvet dagger
Like what good did you do by telling someone whose situation you know nothing about "Ah but what if you're actually ugly?"
quick mantle
They definitely have but also even if that were true, why is that something you ...
OKAY IM NOT TRYNA SAY ANYONE IS LOOKING BAD
all im saying is that if u want a true like non biased opinon
then asking ppl u know wont help
quick mantle
what i mean is strictly looks base without adding personality to it
velvet dagger
Like there are little who many agree are attractive and many agree aren't
quick mantle
cuz u can even find someone less or more attractive based on the way they behave
velvet dagger
But people have different types, and so on and so forth. Plus your implication was that the opinion was far more likely to go down than up
quick mantle
i didnt mean to imply that its just easier to explain
plus i dont think anyone is rlly ugly
velvet dagger
i didnt mean to imply that its just easier to explain
Your words very directly implied that
neat lintel
then asking ppl u know wont help
I asked my gay friend from the both perspective ( gay and as friend) and he told me that I look average
velvet dagger
For all you know the people around this guy look at everyone who they're not personally romantically interested in as average because they don't care about the looks, etc
quick mantle
Your words very directly implied that
no cuz its an example i didnt say its facts 💀
velvet dagger
no cuz its an example i didnt say its facts 💀
Yeah that example was uncalled for. Communicate better or frankly just keep these sorts of opinions to yourself
Sharing was not caring here
mint canopy
Some of the best advice I ever heard was "If you can't say something nice, don't say nothing at all"
quick mantle
Buut I really wasn’t trying to be mean or anything, I just meant that sometimes people’s opinions about looks can be a bit biased, and it’s hard to find a totally fair one. Maybe my example wasn’t the best, but I was just trying to explain my point gently. sorry if u were offended fr
velvet dagger
Thing is, you didn't start by saying "To be fair the people around you might not be a representative sample"
You specifically highlighted the possibility that they overestimate the person and said nothing about the other possibility
quick mantle
but i did i said their opinon might be biase
velvet dagger
You started by saying biased in the negative direction and didn't address positive. So the insinuation is that it's more likely negative
And either way that observation, regardless of truth, adds no value
quick mantle
it kinda does tho cuz the point was seeing how attractive u are but if its biased then its not the true representation
velvet dagger
There's no objective measure of attraction
quick mantle
maybe i didnt express it right at first but i ssaid i didnt mean it
like in that way multiple times
so
quick mantle
There's no objective measure of attraction
well no but if u can remove variables like ur personality then it would be based on solely looks
velvet dagger
Thing is it's almost hard to believe you weren't backtracking after you realized you were rude because this is borderline implausibly bad phrasing.
And regardless it shouldn't have been said in the first place. You don't know anything about the situation, don't just muse randomly about people you don't know
velvet dagger
well no but if u can remove variables like ur personality then it would be based...
Looks have no objective measure
quick mantle
no objective measure but u can control other variables
velvet dagger
That means nothing. You can control variables and then get a random number. You can also not control and get a random number
Either way it's a random number
quick mantle
but the first number would be for ur looks
the other would be other traits too
still random but more based on what ur tryna measure
if u want the closest answer
thats how u get it
velvet dagger
But my overarching point is
quick mantle
Thing is it's almost hard to believe you weren't backtracking after you realized...
I get that it might’ve come across badly, but I wasn’t trying to backtrack, I just didn’t phrase it right in the moment. I really didn’t mean to sound rude or personal. I was just sharing a general point, not trying to make assumptions about anyone. But yeah, I see how it didn’t land well and im sorry for that
velvet dagger
Next time you decide you wanna weigh in on someone you don't know
Reconsider that decision
And if you're actually honest that you weren't suggesting there was a better chance of friends suggesting average => "actually ugly"
Then learn to communicate because your words could only be interpreted as meaning that
quick mantle
I understand that my wording wasn’t perfect, and I’ve already said I could’ve explained it better. But jumping to the worst interpretation of what I said and assuming I meant to insult someone isn’t fair either. I wasn’t making it personal, and it wasn’t about the guy specifically—it was a general point about how friends might not always be the most objective. That’s all.
timid bronze
There's no objective measure of attraction
exactly
velvet dagger
I understand that my wording wasn’t perfect, and I’ve already said I could’ve ex...
This wasn't multiple interpretations, the wording basically had only one viable interpretation
Anyway I tire somewhat of this back and forth. Just think before you speak in the future. That'll be all
quick mantle
You keep saying ‘think before you speak’ like I didn’t have a point, when I did. Just because you interpreted it one way doesn’t mean that’s the only valid reading. I was making a general observation about how familiarity can bias perception, and I explained that multiple times.
I’ll admit my phrasing wasn’t the clearest at first, but that doesn’t mean the point behind it was wrong or malicious. If anything, it feels like you were more focused on shutting me down than understanding what I was actually trying to say.
If you're tired then don't reply and leave it
velvet dagger
The reason I'm continuing to reply is that I do not want to have to deal with this kind of thing in the future. When you continue to defend this fact, that makes me think there's a chance this will repeat
If you want a different directive, here's one: next time you wanna comment on this, don't
Now
Moving on
quick mantle
maybe dont take everything in a negative lens
and if u dont want multiple perspectives then u can dm ur convo
timid bronze
but i did i said their opinon might be biase
but thats just installing unnecessary fear in people and finding more ways to believe theyre ugly
im sure people are aware that a persons lying if that person has a history of lying
just bc u think a persons ugly doesnt mean theyre ugly to one another
icy heron
Damn, why is this person getting so much hate for something they've repeatedly apologized for 💀
velvet dagger
It's a defensive apology
timid bronze
Damn, why is this person getting so much hate for something they've repeatedly a...
since when was disagreeing hating
if youre going to say something you know is going to upset a lot of people you need to prepare for the reactions
but even then no one is hating
velvet dagger
Like it's one thing to give ambiguous wording but "Hmm but what if they overestimate you" is not ambiguous in what it's suggesting. And then the followup was "Why'd you go to the bad interpretation? Plus the underlying message is valid"
icy heron
I'm not sure I agree, it's clear that they genuinely didn't mean to offend. I'm not saying the initial comment wasn't in bad taste
velvet dagger
Like it's one thing to give ambiguous wording but "Hmm but what if they overesti...
When you defend it like that you're still kinda shirking responsibility
timid bronze
i respect that you disagree though you need to realize people will not feel the same because i dont and the tone doesnt help
dami i think it might be time to move on though
velvet dagger
I'm down to move on. I tried to shut this down a little while ago but she had to get in the last word
deep mango
and we all know dami needs the last word
velvet dagger
and we all know dami needs the last word
Ryc not now. Read the context and you'll get it
fresh comet
buuut since they know u they might think ur more than u are
I wonder if the stick of bias is burned on both ends 
on the one hand, one's friends might think of them very highly because they're close and share hobbies, experiences, ideas, qualities, etc; but on the other hand, it's also likely the case that strangers consistenly underrate each other due to the lack of familiarity 
I should say, I'm not necessarily talking about appearance anymore, I just wanted to say something that was on my mind
quick mantle
I wonder if the stick of bias is burned on both ends <:giggle:131787099099863859...
yeaa thats exactly what i was tryna say
fresh comet
I wonder if the stick of bias is burned on both ends <:giggle:131787099099863859...
a quite insidious instance of the strangers unfamilarity thing is like
any form of discrimination like racism
quick mantle
or like even if they are being truthful, they can be used to the way u look just...
and here i didnt finish but i was gonna say they may even rate u lower bc they are familiar with how they view you but others may view u as more unique at first glance
fresh comet
I think a stranger not knowing you has at least as much of an effect in poor evaluations of yourself as a friend's familarity with you has on positive evaluations of you
or maybe I'm totally wrong and I'm just yapping
timid bronze
higher dms
fresh comet
sure thing 
quick mantle
It's a defensive apology
Saying my apology was just me being defensive feels a bit rude, because I was genuinely sincere. I wasn’t trying to be defensive, I really meant it
fresh comet
@neat lintel I forgot to say, welcome to the mathcord! 
icy heron
Tbh I think this is the kind of convo that is best done with friends and not online. A statement that is offensive in one setting could be perfectly acceptable in another, and I think people here might not be quite on the same wavelength (not trying to be disrespectful here!)
velvet dagger
Saying my apology was just me being defensive feels a bit rude, because I was ge...
When someone apologizes but tries to justify it that comes off defensive. Like, if you had said "Whoops, I realize that I accidentally was insulting by jumping to the negative situation. I'm sorry and that won't happen again" that would've felt sincere
neat lintel
<@456226577798135808> I forgot to say, welcome to the mathcord! <a:nachoWaves:10...
Thanks 😊 ❤️❤️
velvet dagger
But when you try to backdoor an interpretation which doesn't correspond to the words you said and also say "But I'm still making a point!" it doesn't work
Anyway enough of this
New topic, no more talk about the old topic after this line
velvet dagger
So it seems
coarse bridge
Sup Dami
velvet dagger
How you doing Chip
coarse bridge
Pretty good wbu
velvet dagger
Doing good, thanks. Waiting at my gate to fly
velvet dagger
I said no more of the old topic
quick mantle
ok and
velvet dagger
And you continued
coarse bridge
we got a sassy one 😭
velvet dagger
Have a safe flight
Thanks fam
I've been on planes so many times the last couple of years lmao
timid bronze
Doing good, thanks. Waiting at my gate to fly
fly safe
velvet dagger
I'll try!
fresh comet
Doing good, thanks. Waiting at my gate to fly
have a safe flight 
velvet dagger
Thank you!
velvet dagger
I wish you all the best on your journey shiru
ocean robin
I wish you all the best on your journey shiru
yes!
ocean robin
what a beautiful creature
elfin smelt
i believe in you tabby.. u will get the cat one day
limber thunder
i also want cats one day, rn i live in an apt so we kinda can't have cats
elfin smelt
the people who had my cat before us declawed him and he has a lot of issues from it now
limber thunder
but there's two strays that visit the building like every day and chill lol
ocean robin
the people who had my cat before us declawed him and he has a lot of issues from...
poor baby
elfin smelt
but there's two strays that visit the building like every day and chill lol
lmao nice neighborhood cats
yeah D:
limber thunder
lmao nice neighborhood cats
yep
ocean robin
awwwwwww
limber thunder
<:glarbie:1317407647460364349>
the bogos have been binted
elfin smelt
the funny thing is we could let him outside since he wont destroy the local bird population, but he also cant defend himself
elfin smelt
the bogos have been binted
bogos binted 
ocean robin
the funny thing is we could let him outside since he wont destroy the local bird...
pfft 😭
elfin smelt
yeah 😭
velvet dagger
Just in life and in finding someone
dreamy ore
Just in life and in finding someone
ah
thanks
timid bronze
I love
coarse bridge
chipotle
limber thunder
sauce
ocean robin
and
velvet dagger
Derivada saved us fr
ocean robin
one day i'll be able to send images here and will be able to send cat pictures
timid bronze
sauce
thank you ily i just wanted to create a story using 1-2 words and seeing what ppl add and this mf has to ruin it
limber thunder
one day,
timid bronze
i hope
ocean robin
i can
velvet dagger
finally witness
timid bronze
dami ending
velvet dagger
the saga
timid bronze
between him
coarse bridge
and
timid bronze
chipotle
velvet dagger
his foe
wide niche
they
timid bronze
kissed
wide niche
and
coarse bridge
ally woke up
velvet dagger
Ally woke
coarse bridge
KMFAOOOO
velvet dagger
latent edge
I taught my chem friend number fields. They enjoyed it 
timid bronze
Ally saw
wide niche
That everyone
timid bronze
Thought Dami was
velvet dagger
The coolest guy
coarse bridge
that is NOT fair lil bro
fresh comet
thank you ily i just wanted to create a story using 1-2 words and seeing what pp...
I did this with a friend once
coarse bridge
???
warm umbra
lmao
velvet dagger
@wide niche learn to not be weird
fresh comet
usually it ended up being either really funny or really tragic
timid bronze
dami delete that PLEASE
velvet dagger
Take a day
coarse bridge
Lmfaooooo
velvet dagger
I timed him out first
timid bronze
it was meant to be captivating speaker
coarse bridge
Bro wanted to do damage control
timid bronze
he did well in his conference
coarse bridge
I’m dead
timid bronze
😭
velvet dagger
Tyty I figured you were getting at that <3
timid bronze
usually it ended up being either really funny or really tragic
ppl say im weird w it
cuz im so random
LMAo
fresh comet
I think being random is part of the fun
velvet dagger
Exactly!
timid bronze
dreamy ore
scary
timid bronze
Omg does that mean im majestic
timid bronze
aura
velvet dagger
Not the um
deep mango
Omg does that mean im majestic
hahahahahahaaHAHAHAHAHAHA
timid bronze
Ryc r u back from drinking ur beer cereal
deep mango
and said "ryc to be honest, you intimidate me"
dreamy ore
honestly ive never heard that i was scary
deep mango
i was like what!?!?!?
timid bronze
honestly ive never heard that i was scary
me neither
dreamy ore
honestly ive never heard that i was scary
except this 1 guy that i got mad at
dreamy ore
and u know i never lie 
fresh comet
Im scary?! <:opencry:586078614865444865>
dreamy ore
fresh comet
timid bronze
Esp when ur mad
dreamy ore
Why am i scary
ur like 17 ft tall
velvet dagger
Oh
timid bronze
No cuz im exact opposite.
dreamy ore
it wasnt to mock u
dreamy ore
idk how tall u are
dreamy ore
timid bronze
im 4’11
fathom swallowBOT
timid bronze
look at your eyes <:catthink:526983414226747393>
U know what i look like?!
fresh comet
you look ready to cut my head off
velvet dagger
Also the three word story game stuff got me looking back though that old FB group
velvet dagger
Those were the days
timid bronze
you look ready to cut my head off
ok let me change my profile so ur not scared
velvet dagger
Those were the days
fresh comet
it was in jest
deep mango
looked up "scary furry awoo" to send something and say it was ally, am now scarred for life
dreamy ore
,av
fathom swallowBOT
timid bronze
I was ab to say shiru i recorded myself earlier struggling to get on my bed
Cuz its a bit tall.
timid bronze
.
velvet dagger
it was in jest
What were you trying to in jest?
dreamy ore
sorry~
timid bronze
WOW OK IF I FALL BACK WILL U LAUGH
dreamy ore
WOW OK IF I FALL BACK WILL U LAUGH
um maybe
probably not
timid bronze
looked up "scary furry awoo" to send something and say it was ally, am now scarr...
.
dreamy ore
id probably ask if ur okay first
timid bronze
Bro says probably not
dreamy ore
then id laugh
fresh comet
What were you trying to in jest?
indicate that ally is scary
dreamy ore
:)
timid bronze
.
fresh comet
she's fortunately not very scary
fathom swallowBOT
velvet dagger
indicate that ally is scary
That's not a food type though how can you ingest it?
coarse bridge
wtf
dreamy ore
quite short
timid bronze
i hope im less scary to higher now
coarse bridge
who is 4'11 here tf
dreamy ore
i hope im less scary to higher now
omg uve become 3x as scary
timid bronze
chipotle stop acting oblivious MF
fresh comet
That's not a food type though how can you ingest it?
haven't you heard, old man? everything is edible if you're brave enough 
coarse bridge
fresh comet
okay wait I feel bad for calling you an old man 
dreamy ore
,w 177cm to ft and inches
fathom swallowBOT
dreamy ore
im that tall
timid bronze
im convinced chipotle is like obsessed with me
timid bronze
im that tall
Tall
coarse bridge
im convinced chipotle is like obsessed with me
ur the only one who's convinced of ts
dreamy ore
ur the only one who's convinced of ts
ngl it seems to me that way too
timid bronze
ur the only one who's convinced of ts
No u like keep coming in to insert urself in sum sentence
Like stay out
coarse bridge
this is a public channel gng
velvet dagger
Do I look like suremark to you?
timid bronze
this is a public channel gng
Ok still egotistical
bro i wish suremark was chipotles father
humble chipotle fast
coarse bridge
wtf
velvet dagger
Do I look like suremark to you?
Re higher saying old man
coarse bridge
Ok still egotistical
i prefer to call ts realistic
dreamy ore
oh yeah guys im on vacation
velvet dagger
bro i wish suremark was chipotles father
Wishing that Chip gets mogged by his own dad is cruel
coarse bridge
LMFAO
timid bronze
EGO
jagged forge
Do I look like suremark to you?
hi
timid bronze
Wishing that Chip gets mogged by his own dad is cruel
humbled*
coarse bridge
why's she so mad bruh
jagged forge
Re higher saying old man
smh
coarse bridge
😭
timid bronze
the way matt reacts to chipotle is so funny
timid bronze
military
dreamy ore
indeed
deep mango
im convinced chipotle is like obsessed with me
he thinks everyones obsessed with him and so he thinks he needs someone to obsess over to humble himself
its very manipulative so beware
deep mango
well
dreamy ore
ur obsessed with ur crush
timid bronze
I dont have a Crush
deep mango
ur obsessed with ur crush
someone on math discord!?
dreamy ore
I dont have a Crush
yes u do its obviously @polar panther
timid bronze
true modmail bot and i flirt
fresh comet
Do I look like suremark to you?
dreamy ore
yeah u message modmail every day
timid bronze
i do
dreamy ore
ok im sorry im just bored
timid bronze
modmail bot and i r going on a date on wednesday
timid bronze
iceskating
velvet dagger
true modmail bot and i flirt
Yeah we know
velvet dagger
We're still trying to find out what in its programming is causing it to flirt back
timid bronze
Yes
dreamy ore
i forgot its june now
deep mango
Modmail knows so much math
so that narrows down which mod it is controlling it...
dreamy ore
-# so when do i get to go on a date with modmail
timid bronze
-# ~~so when do i get to go on a date with modmail~~
Modmail and i broke up
dreamy ore
Modmail and i broke up
wtf why
deep mango
modmail bodypillows are in production
dreamy ore
modmail is a bad kisser
PFFFFFF
timid bronze
Not it
dreamy ore
velvet dagger
LMAO
velvet dagger
modmail is a bad kisser
Brutal
dreamy ore
gah damn
dreamy ore
modmail bodypillows are in production
nah dont want bodypillows of a bad kisser
velvet dagger
modmail bodypillows are in production
Horrible
dreamy ore
sorry
velvet dagger
Just let it practice fr
dreamy ore
not on me bruh
velvet dagger
Someone who misses? Idk
velvet dagger
Yeah I was saying that as a joke
timid bronze
i dont really understand what a bad kisser is
i was jk i dont get it either
deep mango
kissing is about having the right rhythm and motions for each other
velvet dagger
Like imagine you go for a kiss and just completely get the wrong angle and trip and fall or smth
dreamy ore
ok ive never had a bad experience kissing but ive heard a story from a friend where someone kissed her but like
tried to put both of her lips in his mouth
deep mango
you cant be bad at it i think, i think you can just not match someone else
dreamy ore
ok ive never had a bad experience kissing but ive heard a story from a friend wh...
now thats a bad kiss
deep mango
i guess you could be bad in the sense that you arent flexible
deep mango
ok ive never had a bad experience kissing but ive heard a story from a friend wh...
LOL
i mean
depends
idk how you do that
you gotta push
velvet dagger
ok ive never had a bad experience kissing but ive heard a story from a friend wh...
"I love y- c h o m p"
timid bronze
i mean never happened to me
deep mango
oh i see, he tried to go around
dreamy ore
"I love y- *c h o m p*"
😭 😭 😭 😭
deep mango
thats weird
ive definitely had situations where someone like
tries to get the tongue involved and im like this is NOT what's going on here
dreamy ore
lmaoo
deep mango
but thats not bad that's just overzealous i guess
dreamy ore
i mean i imagine if someone tries to like.. solve a rubiks cube with their tongue in my mouth
that would be a bad kiss
deep mango
its a little too messy and disorganized for me to really discern good from bad. ive had some great kisses but im not sure yet what made them better
dreamy ore
like why is ur tongue doing all that
velvet dagger
i mean i imagine if someone tries to like.. solve a rubiks cube with their tongu...
Especially if they don't solve it successfully
deep mango
i mean i imagine if someone tries to like.. solve a rubiks cube with their tongu...
well people always say that the best kissers can tie a cherry stem in their mouth
i thought that wasnt real
dreamy ore
lmao
deep mango
but then d3 said it was and that if i couldnt do it that meant i was a bad kisser
dreamy ore
Especially if they don't solve it successfully
😭
deep mango
and that i should practice doing that
coarse bridge
did you ever try it
coarse bridge
LMFAO
deep mango
obviously not
that sounds disgusting
and the idea that kissing is about fine tune tongue control is nuts
dreamy ore
wonder if people who split their tongue are better at kissing or worse
deep mango
and the idea that kissing is about fine tune tongue control is nuts
dude has a "figure out how to do weird thing no one cares about and then pretend its super important and impressive" complex
dreamy ore
tbh its been way too long since i kissed someone this is getting depressing
i think the last time was in like.. december
deep mango
thats not that long...
dreamy ore
bleh
deep mango
many people here havent had a damn kiss that wasnt from their grandma
velvet dagger
It's been some time since I've had a kiss
dreamy ore
yeah but half the people here are like 14
coarse bridge
It's been some time since I've had a kiss
"i prefer toblerones" ahh joke coming up next
velvet dagger
It's been some time since I've had a kiss
But that doesn't particularly bother me
deep mango
"i prefer toblerones" ahh joke coming up next
oh hell no
coarse bridge
LMFAO
dreamy ore
i do prefer kisses to toblerones
velvet dagger
"i prefer toblerones" ahh joke coming up next
Ehhhhh Reese's
dreamy ore
thats not that long...
actually depends on what were calling a kiss
if a peck on the mouth counts as a kiss my last kiss was in april
dreamy ore
it does have a slight hint of vomit
deep mango
i made out with someone in the middle of a crosswalk like 2 weeks ago and someone biking by shouted "get a room" at us
dreamy ore
but i dont really mind it
deep mango
that was my last one
jagged forge
thats not that long...
fr
dreamy ore
i made out with someone in the middle of a crosswalk like 2 weeks ago and someon...
booooooo 👎 👎
dislike!!!
()
wah
deep mango
i once got some really bad kissing advice
"think of your tongue like its inside a washing machine"
this is not correct
dreamy ore
this is not correct
nuh uh
timid bronze
havent kissed someone on the lips since 10th grade
dreamy ore
you know the last stage in the washing machine
when it goes at like
1000 rpm
to squeeze the water out
u gotta do that
for the optimal kiss
dreamy ore
havent kissed someone on the lips since 10th grade
😢
timid bronze
Not smth i get upset over though
dreamy ore
i mean fair
i also only think about stuff like that when i get sad about being lonely in the army
velvet dagger
Ah yeah I can imagine that being tough for sure
Tbh yeah if I had mandatory military service I'd be less than fond. Unless I could do the whole civilian option
velvet dagger
One of my friends was basically doing a bunch of machine learning for the service, 3 years
dreamy ore
One of my friends was basically doing a bunch of machine learning for the servic...
i just do manual labor lol
velvet dagger
Idr the details of how that option worked but yeah that would be my preference. But in reality I'm grateful I don't have to do it at all. Beyond the age for selective service in America, and since I live abroad I'm exempt from Morocco
timid bronze
i broke up with my last partner in the army too 🤩
sorry to hear
timid bronze
i also only think about stuff like that when i get sad about being lonely in the...
yeah understandable
dreamy ore
Idr the details of how that option worked but yeah that would be my preference. ...
wah i cry
velvet dagger
No worries yeah
jagged forge
i also have not kissed someone on the lips since 10th grade
except that was 12 years ago for me 
coarse bridge
no
velvet dagger
No just the passage of time
timid bronze
Oh
velvet dagger
LMAO
coarse bridge
LMAO when ally started typing i knew she was gonna say that
timid bronze
except that was 12 years ago for me <:clopencry:1127339423764328458>
Ur rly old omg
ocean robin
😭😭
jagged forge
thanx ally 
coarse bridge
leans in to the right gang
velvet dagger
Tbf my wording was a bit ambiguous
timid bronze
U were 10th grade 2013 that’s crazy
coarse bridge
LMFAOO
velvet dagger
I knew you'd say that
jagged forge
u…..
jagged forge
u are the devil
timid bronze
Oh wait nvm ur 27
jagged forge
suremark arent u 28 now
no…
velvet dagger
u are the devil
timid bronze
Dami is near his 30s thags crazy
coarse bridge
LMFAO
ocean robin
canonically 😭
timid bronze
i still cant believe ur 8 years plder than me.
coarse bridge
i still feel like 18
coarse bridge
lmfaooo
velvet dagger
i still feel like 18
We still feel like you're 14
ocean robin
i still feel like 18
i do too
timid bronze
LMFAo
jagged forge
i feel…. yup 27 feels about right
coarse bridge
We still feel like you're 14
i hope not all of us.
velvet dagger
i still cant believe ur 8 years plder than me.
Yeah it's crazy
jagged forge
my friend started experiencing burnout at the same age actually
velvet dagger
i hope not all of us.
Oh ffs
coarse bridge
i'm right tho LMFAOOO
velvet dagger
I'm so upset I clocked that
ocean robin
i love burnout
fresh comet
I feel like I've been... 16 or 17 for 5 years now
ocean robin
I feel like I've been... 16 or 17 for 5 years now <:PaimonThink:1218193640191430...
REAL
jagged forge
i love burnout
so true