#serious-discussion
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i had a rough last yr bc of stress and lack of sleep
Lol as messed up as my sleep is now
and if i culd id want to tell myself to at least stop worrying about losing sleep
It's still a blessing compared to the first 4 years of grad school
Like not even the time amount but the quality of sleep
best sleep r the days u come rifht after class
edcept thay
30 min nap turns into 8 hours
bro but even showers dont wake me up anymore after i come from class
nor does water or food
Like im always tired
after class
i have to drink coffee to help me
Went for a sleep study and the doctor was like "With these oxygen levels how are you able to do math? Or even function?"
@storm sage alright imma type in here cuz other goes way too fast
so what u need is i assume u got the
lsp-mode working
which implements the lsp
Ahhh yeah that's rough
And if it goes too long you'll even build a tolerance to that
can confirm i already did.
Blame school for not letting me get enough sleep
thats why like
a 2 days after a semester ends i just rot in bed fr for those couple days
@storm sage have u got lsp-ui config?
I have this, I'm not sure if that's the same as what you're asking 
Riiiiight
I admit I've slept in the bus/subway far more this year than I ever have before, due to poor sleep
im too scsred to fall asleep in public
I want to try to sleep better next year
Chz the pics they take sometimes
Ah yeah during my sleep apnea days I'd doze off almost whenever I sat down
If I'm not actively talking to someone boom
yeah thats different, one added the server and other implements the requests and stuff to the UI of emacs which is what u want
Ah... Yeah yikes
Ugh im mad i cant dend VMs
i was gonna send a funny one
huh so how do I add the ui then
Riiiip
icl they were never planning to in the first place vrostnikov 🥀
I also have an lsp layer on spacemacs 
Ur going to be a little junior
maybe I need to toggle some of the settings
Except ur not going to be 21 this year
I still think ur 21
even tho u arent
U just give off 21

yeah also u can even add stuff like these which is neat
even though you and I are the same age?
Insulting to u that we r same age
And i act liek this
huhhhh how do I find the setting that does this 😭
What is "tm" about to say
Jere we go WHAT
i can see why u think that, yk who else is gonna be 21 this year?
.
That's what
can u shut ur ass

we aren't going to race to the bottom here, okay?
.
I fucking KNEW IT
why this chat got active outnowhere bro lmao
N o ur 21
hi Gary
can u liek mute him
then you are too
so first thing first here
His ego is so ugly big
No
hi!!
true
yeah I have that layer enabled
Need to humble him instead fr
discussion 2 is goaty
exaaaactly we're on the same wavelength vrocal ring
✌️
if i get muted for smth like that then i win
This is what a weak person who couldn’t handle the discussion grind would say
😭
do u have like dotspacemacs-configuration-layers ?
ghibli moment!!
okay u got it
yeah
mofo cant handle posting 15 msgs in a row with zero engagement in discussion followed by one with 6 replies
if you cant handle me at my best you dont deserve me at my worst 💔
fuck off
icl ryc def stands in the corner at parties 🥀
Bro this is the biggest self-glaze attempt I've seen from you in a hot minute
go back to your cave
What does icl mean
"I can't lie"
this is my cave now
i get cornered by hot guys
and they aint lookin at u :rofl
Ts pmo me off
is chmonkey losing
"Pmo me off" is crazy and I might start using it
Do ppl be saying I can’t lie enough for it to get shortened
I think it's replacing "ngl" somewhat
that is EXACTLY what i'd say
ts further corroborating my theory
ts shit dont make sense
pmo me off was a thing in like december gng
if u were in highschool ud get pushed into the locker
☠️ CALM DOWN GANG ☠️
Is it? You'd probably have used lowercase
Who
okay from what i see is that dotspacemacs-configuration-layers '(python) alone should be able to make python work out of box according to the docs
can u try
Because you're not a capitalist
who other than our overexcited BOY chipotle
wait so I delete the line with :variables and see what happens?
hes the greg from wimpy kid of this chat
real af broviet union
we will slowly get there but for now just do that yeah and see if it works
we gonna add more
on top
I still don't see any errors pop up
blos stuck in anime high school tropes while were out here rushing frats
im the girl he likes but is too cool to tell her he likes her.
did u like reloaded the configuration?
icl you'd get into the locker willingly out of learned helplessness 🥀
yeah
alright
damn
i drank too much wine
what r u all yapping about
I dont feel good
the world hates me.. but i love the world
yooo don't self doz
what r u feeling
Bro is a 40yo mom
I don’t yap
u always are drunk when ure in this server
drink a lot of water
Ally do u think I yap?
my heads all woozy
yap? hardly
and
yes
im dictating
my tummy
whaaat
hurts. a little.
drink water
"omg i'm soooooooo drunkkkkk guysss 😂✌️"
💧
@storm sage (python :variables python-backend 'lsp python-lsp-server 'pyright) add this as another entry in that configuration
im not that drunk when im more drunk i typo a lot
Suspicious…
die.
pmo successful - returning to base
and can u show it when its added how did u put it
wait like this?
TEQUILA!!!! WOOO!!!! - ryc on an avg friday night
exactly
bro drinks bacardo
To quote one of my best friends: "Do you enjoy having a head?"
SPC f e R, to reload
actual frat kid but in his mid 20s
sorry unc how abt u go n drink some prosecco :rofl
I got some warnings 
i'm using all the restraint i can muster rn man.
f
i drink casamigos or a small batch mezcal 👌
I'm still not getting a typecheck warning though
nvm idk how to u do the reload may be u got different binding
but do the reload
not yet
yeah I did the reload
pip install python-lsp-server,
You have restraint?
now
oh there's more steps
thats needed
bruv im lit drinking a locally grown red, dry with tart berry notes
it's already installed
reading off the label of the bottles on the tables uhuh
u aint classy mate
yes, for a counterexample cf. ryc
u aint deliberate
"wow, it really does taste like melon rind!" - man who is not good at pretending he knows wine
alright so remove this python
the best way to pretend to know wine is to take a sip and frown
wait isn't that just what I originally had
cause god "knowing about food" is a curse that makes u the most miserable bastard ever
im getting... hang on... *waves hand and sniffs audibly*
is that... elm wood
nah thats different way of writing it
im dying to use the word "floral density" one of these days
OH wait wait
yay it's working now!!!
you're awesome LOL
was it seriously that one parenthesis that was messing it up 😭
🥶
indeed
insane
who asked for this sideplot-
gary
i suggest also get a formatter for code and make it do it on save
wdym
oh I think I have a formatter
how do I make it do it on save
rn I have it set to , =
hm i like the name gary
(setq-default dotspacemacs-configuration-layers '(
(python :variables python-formatter 'black)))
thats to install one
(setq-default dotspacemacs-configuration-layers '(
(python :variables python-format-on-save t)))```
this will make it do it
on save

np!
now time to learn how to use python typing 
sick this is gonna come in so useful
yes indeed
im always too lazy
type hinting
i like it
I used to program in haskell so I missed typing so much
hm do you know if there's a shortcut to jump to the next error
u can make one
ty for the help! saved me some sanity

Like type checking stuff?
because it’s risky
Whats worst thing about indian education system
You have to spend 6-7 hrs for 4-5 days a week , in a place where learning is 0 , then u need to study in home from youtube ,
can agree i spend so much money on uni tuition only to be referring to youtube for my lessons most of the time
yea
Have you heard of ty?
Honestly it feels hit or miss sometimes
Some classes I feel like I learn from the professor in a way I could've never on my own
And sometimes it's what u say
Good professors teach well who would've thunk it 
LMAO never heard this ohrase
no, what's that
This developer team made so many neat python toolchains
like uv, it's a package manager + project manager that replaces pip, pipx, and other tools
@deep mango you’ll never believe it
or ruff, It's an extremely fast linter
I am about to enter the city (town?) of yakumo
You're supposed to be the native!!!
(I think)
Tf pipx
pipx makes running python applications and installing them in isolated environments easier
less difficult
pip is pretty simple and i think pipx is at same
ah i didn't read the context
pip is for libraries, pipx is mostly for CLI tools
pipx automatically adds a CLI tool to PATH, and the tool also doesn't pollute the main environment
PATH?
is this windows we talking
well pip also adds to PATH automatically
Nah
Path just env variable
are u sayign that to the pip don't add to PATH?
IITs are cracked tho
Very much si
There should be first the math introduced with logic than numerical i think not in kinder garden but to high schoolers rather putting numbs and trying to make out formulas and learn them
Thing is
It's abstract
And you need some working foundations in symbolic stuff in my opinion
I think they should integrate it, but I think most systems are looking at general knowledge and mathematical logic is really mostly for people interested in that area of study
but you could give it the argument of that type of thinking is very helpful elsewhere.
First order logic should be a part of gened
True Arki red fox
i mean even for class 5th - 6th kids , if our school not there , only tutuion and schools for exams , then our time and money could be saved and in that time we could learn new skills , study , and play , and have fun , they ruin our childhood with tons of homeworks, alwys writtien and to be copied from internet or other notebook
Just see , in summer vacation , if u r discipline u r cover tons of syllbus way faster than school days
i think next gen ( kids of late gen z ( who r 14 in 2025) ,, there will be all online , much better
At least we have Ai tools , to faster work , i do all my homework in my custom font ( same as my handwrittin) with a writting machine of 7,000rs .. soo much time save
IM JUST FRUSTRATED
@velvet dagger Hello.
Hey!
Thank you for choosing not to say "yes."
Learned my lesson from last time
Hey
Yes
Thank you
wait do u like this pfp or my previous one better
before the dog
Lesson didn't stick, I fear
Punishment time I guess
Yes Both good but I think this one?
..
WHY DID YOU CROSS YES
YOURE SO MEAN
IT'S NOT MEAN I GAVE AN ACTUAL ANSWER
NO UR MEANER
@pure hollow how's ca
it's going well (ig?) it took way too long to prove basic stuff though
It's okay
I'm still at the first chapter
What book are you using?
Stien
Goated book
it's the book my uni will be using for my CA course
Rudin
Rudin is uhhh... different I suppose
It's hard lol
it was papa rudin right were you able to read it?
Yeah papa rudin was the one I used
I don't think I can read Rudin for a while
I would use CA probably idk
Well depends on what you're trying to do
some of my engineering courses have ca has their requirements
Ohh yeah
Circuit shenanigans
yeah
we also have a signal analysis later on so I would require CA for that too
You'll like SA
Signal anal is fun
Yep
what do we do in SA like an example?
yeah we have a course on transforms completely 
RAHHHH
I LOVE TRANSFORMS
don't we all
I love transforming from one space to another
what engineering btw
ok so we do CS engineering+ applied math
our engineering course is more applied math course but it's under the engineering department
thus the reason we overlap with other courses
Oh okay
it's a bit new ig?
Yeah
not so much with cs
it is
U should do math only fr
one can only hope I'm way too deep into this program 
how many years in?
1 year
Ehhh
That's not too far in
Considering ur doing math as well
Idk tho it's up to u
I'm riding on that scholarship for this program,so it would be difficult to change majors
Ohh I see
what is it about?
Algebra

I'll be doing algebra this July
arithmetic geometry vero arc when?
I'm afraid I'm not that good
Arithmetic geometry doesn't interest me that much eithee
what algebra does interest you?
Number fields
ah number theory pilled
Yep
I'll have a number theory course in my third year
Had to switch advisors
ahaha
I'm honored but I don't think I'll ever get as good as deltoid
Thanks for encouragement
Idk sometimes I tend to compare myself
I know it's bad to do so but i can't help it
it's not bad
the part where you go wrong imo is comparing yourself to others
compare yourself to yourself
Yeah comparing myself to others
This is bad
Also I'm kinda burnt out from math
My previous advisor has been such an asshole
im glad i changed advisors
you're in grad school?
Yea
It's okay I like it
Definitely better than working in industry stuff
Idk just wanted to refresh my mind lol
hm
how does grad school differ from ug or masters though?
like what are your experiences
oh
I'm still iffy about phd
still grad school :3
:3
Well in grad school
You don't have to worry about doing well in classes that much?
And it's more about you doing research
Which is what I like the most
research scary
i am especially scared of having to organize myself
like i fear misplacing notes etc and not finding them again or something like that
people in adv alg, nG, deltoid, sharpie and others kinda are helping me with my research problem
idk sometimes i just dont feel like i produced my own work
:3
Feels like I'm a fraud or something
well there's nothing wrong with collab, no?
like as long as you try
you're on a good way
atleast that's the way i see it
you can't solve every problem, since you're not perfect. no one is
that's my 2c
Ig so
research is rough
deltoid :3
oof
hi foxy :3
dw he didn't mean it in a rude way
I love waking up every morning reading a lot of stuff for research
The research I'm doing is the kind I'm not familiar with that much but I really like the experience
what's your day-to-day experience in research though? i can't really imagine how research is on a daily basis.
Expressions ranging from
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it's a sine wave of both getting very confused and super excited
I don't work in the weekends
The way my prof goes about it is kinda like "yeah just figure it out"
sometimes they give books to read
but yeah that has been the mood
glad to hear I'm not the only person confused
in ur case its kinda better
at least ur doing something ur very familiar with
im not doing that lol
yes
hm
i always thought research is more on the side of "thinking"
starting at a piece of paper
until you get it
i mean u think while u read
tbh im mostly just reading what other people have done
tweaking some stuff
getting stuck
repeat
hm
i ask my advisor a lot since they are more expert on the topic and have the "good" way to think about stuff
instead of wasting a lot of time
what if you don't find anything related to your problem that you can read though?

it's these kind of questions that make research scary for me
like theoretically you could waste your time
and not even notice
most of the time the stuff you are researching, someone has done something with it
yeah that is unfortunately unavoidable
You have to think about asking the right questions
And going the "right" directions
i still find it interesting that you use reading as way to get away from the problem
it makes sense
i just wonder why i haven't thought about such an approach
i would have just put the problem away and be mad at myself 
and yk sometimes I just give up for the day and read something else
Funny enough the research im doing is about unitary representations (combinatorial). When I get bored of it I say "okay im done with unitary reps im gonna do something else" then go and study unitary representations (Langlands) 
ah yes take a break from unitary rep to study unitary rep
real
I proved a little proposition that I was proud of last 2 weeks or so since my prof was struggling to get the proof work in general. They were happy with the solution but the next day they found someone that already proved the result
So in that sense I got owned LMFAO
we did a little giggle about it and moved on 🗿
Imposter symdrome alert.
Return to teenage
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Why do mathematicians hate 0/0
0/0 sucks
what is that even supposed to mean
0 divided by 0
Sotrue
$$ \frac{0}{0} = 4 \iff 4 \cdot 0 = 0 $$
emilia
ok i get it.. so thats why they hate it
but 4*0 is 0...
it is
but so is 3•0...
So guys
If 9^(x-1) is converted into 3 as base, would the index be 2x-2 or x-1+1
Or it'll be other
(I forgot the basic)
9 is 3^2. what happens when you have (a^b)^c?
It become b×c?
yes
how to find mean from stem and leaf diagram
Yall, i found this random problem on tiktok of some chinese girl and a barber. I have an answer but the comments say otherwise
The girl gets a haircut but forgets her wallet, so she asks the barber for 100 (chinese money) and said she'll pay the barber back later. She payed 30 for the haircut and pocketed the 70. She returned the 100 after a while but the man said that she still hadnt paid for the haircut. They get into an arguement and the woman walks out angrily. Who's on the correct side?
that sounds so stupid but I'd say the chinese girl is correct
It does
I just dont think i can sleep without a proper conclusion to the problem
just ignore it
Idk, its just my habit. But I'll try
The girl is correct, she effectively loaned 70 and paid back 100, equaling 30 which was the cost of the haircut
Or to put it another way, the barber gives away 100 in total, while the girl gives away 130
should i go with khanacademy or ***mathacademy ***to restart my math journey
like which is more effective
if i wanna learn math up to college level from middle school level within 12 months
I don’t have experience with mathacademy. But I can vouch khanacademy is quite good. I was able to use it to self study in under a year from zero to 5’ing the AP Calculus BC exam.
Guys I want one good inequality question.
How to fix income inequality
here's some from old course notes I have, pick your poison I guess
Na bro these one are for kids give me a bit more harder..
I told a bit
Bro you took it too far
These are not questions these are theorems and lemmas
Analysis in Banach Spaces _ Volume I_ Martingales and -- Tuomas Hytönen, Jan van Neerven, Mark Veraar, Lutz Weis -- Ergebnisse der Mathematik und -- 9783031465970
ah
thanks
It is an exercise: prove them 
That is, that the inequality holds, as stated

the details are trivial, left to the grader
anyone else on mac in terminal see the command line is now "usr@mac" not like "usr@usr-macbook-pro" or whatever
No mine is still usr@usr-macbook-pro
What book would give you the ability to solve "Prove that any n-polygon ( for n greater than 3 ) can be cut into n-2 triangles?
lol
General->Sharing->Local hostname
you can prove this by induction. hint: ||take every two sides and connect them with a line. if there are an odd number of sides, connect as many as you can. what is the resulting polygon from those lines?||
can anyone can teach me how to use @fathom swallow
,help
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Please use ,list to see a list of all my commands, and ,help cmd to get detailed help on a command!
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thanks
I was about to say this
I was thinking something like that but I want a more foolproof solution and something apart of abook
did anyone else know that the Constitution of Japan was written by /checks notes/ Americans? 
real lol
okinawa still kinda is right?
Nah
There’s still a military base there and there’s stuff from that
But this was a big part of Japanese politics in the 70s
yes, there are multiple military bases
if you look at the road architecture and the barely functioning public transport system, you'll see the US influence
Yeah it was part of a devious plot to get anime imported to the states
We barely have food here dafuq
hello! my day is going alright 
how about yours? 
Yipee
Im good im good thanks for asking
So, if I had a question/needed advice on a coding theory, does anyone know where I could go to?
sick, thanks dude!

What's up with the food situation where you are
@fresh comet you there homie

Severe weather advisory for damaging wind here
stay safe 
welcome to the server @neat lintel
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag
Drifting in the wind, ready to start again?
do you ever feel, feel so paper thin?
like a house of cards, one blow from caving in?
Lmaooooo you get it
Okay so you do know the 2010s goodies
You know the song
Even if that means searching up the lyrics

I guess I really wanted to ask
How's life after finals?
why r u anxious
Playing hide and seek!
From who? U have a new discord crush?
"New" is diabolical LMAO
Tbh I mostly just think that cat is really cute
U need to have the confidence to confess ur feelings to ur discord crush too
Truuuuuu
but i never knew she was in this server
Heavens no
You have the right to whack me upside the head if I get a crush on here
what even r ur red flags in a partner
The one that immediately jumps to mind is anger issues
i mean some ppl r couples here n they met here so…
Dont shame them
If someone can't control temper then I immediately want nothing to do with them. Whether as a partner or in any other capacity
this is so real
i told u ab my ex-friend punching a hole in his door right
Tru I guess we never know what can happen
i dont even know what he was mad about
but he yelled at me in vc before and started cussing randomly when i did nothing
he has majorr anger issues
Yeah that's just not someone you wanna deal with
frightening too
what r they going to do to me in person
True the punching the hole through the wall means there's risk of violence
Hey there Vero!

what others
i think one of my biggest red flags in a partner is like
ugh im bad thinking on the spot but
Ou
if hes careless.
Yeah there's a lot of generic stuff but it's tricky to enumerate them
Yeah that's a good point. He needs to be able to handle things
also not a red flag but like
I mean these are fairly generic
i should write a list of like 50 things i want in a partner and tell nobody
Dude my list isnt even diabolical
basically just have respect for urself and everyone around u and i think Ur good
i want my partner to look good in a beanie but not THAT good so that they end up only wearing a beanie
oh and inconsistent communication fr.
excepting me to reply fast but then takes like 9 years to get to me
Yeah I'd say the principal thing I'm looking for is someone who's a good person and who I get along with. We should have trust, communication, healthy way of resolving conflict, that kinda thing
yea but u do realise like 90% of these things are "be a decent person"
Which is fairly generic I guess, basically gets summed up as "morality and emotional intelligence"
yea but people will agree/disagree and im just listing most generic ones bc thats what shows on top of my head
i want my partner to be a painter. i think painters are like really cool for some reason
Yeah I think what happens on the basic stuff is that people emphasize things to different degrees
also i feel like ppl should no longer be questioning if someone likes them or not
if they like you YOU will know
but the thing is! this could also mean that i just want to be a painter myself but dont have the initiative
So maybe one person is more willing to tolerate X but is hypersensitive to Y
what mixed signal type shit is social media trying to pull off as hot 😭
the only time i get it is like if the person is shy and u just genuinely dk
but if they arent a shy person and r like showing mixed signals.. movenon fr
Oh right yeah the whole, hard to get shit
woah
It's a mess on multiple fronts
no its so stupid i think

hi hei hei
Like if you're trying to play hard to get and give mixed signals, it starts to question the authenticity of your interest. Do you just want the attention and not care for the person? Eventually you're just toying with someone and they should (often will) move on
On the flip side, I feel like some people definitely take this and say hmm if she says no that really just means she's playing hard to get
And that's an entirely new can of worms
Since it turns into not respecting boundaries of people for whom no actually means no

i will be playing hard to get for some other things like for example only doing certain things in a marriage Lol.
but anything else like
wtf is this shit
so dumb
I don't see any actual benefit. People who are into it talk about as like, oh enjoying the hunt. But finding a romantic partner shouldn't be described as a hunt
ngl i think having a crush can be fun
like that stage but
playing hard to get im leaving bro
wait, maybe I'm a bit ignorant on these things, but what makes it fun?
Oh yeah that I don't consider playing hard to get so much as ordinary boundaries :P I'm thinking more oh feigning interest to hook someone in but kinda rejecting advances and expecting them to push
because it's not like the two people are together yet, right?
so they aren't sharing experiences and such yet
a rush, excitement, butterflies
yes but thats like
ur starting to realize ur into them
and ur basically like
in worry of them actually liking u back too
having your brain be flooded with chemicals is pretty fun 
that sounds anxiety inducing 
fr
not very fun
You can think of it as being analogous to the general anticipation of something exciting
also anxiety inducing yes 
i have so much fun in crush and talking stage
thats like peak
and beginning of relationship

the honeymoon phase wares out eventually
but like
u still love each other obviously
my longest talking stage was 2 months
also higher its just
Yeah like you sorta get excited to see the person, you talk a lot, you start to think they like you back maybe, you're letting the excitement and confidence build until one of you makes the move
like the best feeling ever if someone u like admits they like u too
idk how to explain
how do you know if you want to be somebody's partner or just their friend? 
if ur drawn to them and have the chemistry
its a feeling like
theres many guys i love as a friend but would never date
simply because i dont have the chemistry w them
doesnt mean i dont love them any less though
u can love many people equally but differently
I see 
Broguys act too nonchalant
🙄
I am very obvious if i like someone.
Yeah the partition of what people look for in a relationship vs friendship depends on the person
But on the level of feelings, there's definitely more of a rush if it's a crush instead of a budding friendship
oh and compatibility pls so important
if u go into a relationship just for the romance
its not gonna last lol
yeah i mean. it is pretty unmistakeable
Yeah it's way too easy to get swept away in feelings and that's just a recipe for disaster later on
ngl
ik a conrent creator who
broke up w her ex bf cuz they realized they werent truly into each other
kissing felt awkward they mentioned
bc they dont have the chemistry theybrealized
but now theyre super happy as bffs
and have their own romantic partners
Hmm... That's an interesting situation
It happens
Probably the most amicable breakup possible
If u just truly dont have the chemistry
it wont hurt really
ull be happy actually id think
because its less awkward
One thing which seems to happen sometimes is liking the idea of someone more than the actual person
just to clarify, it seems like you are talking about someone else you know right
say this louder for the back..
a content creator who shared her experience yes
oops
i said im
Yeah she meant to write "ik"
M and k are close
I JUST REALIZED
ok go away
ur not welcome in this convo
i want a deep convo rn And ur judt here to ruin it
Yes ur welcome
bro is assuming things before i even said a word 🥀
Extrapolating off previous data
Idk how to dedcirbe it in a few words LOL id say scroll up a little bit
nah
when have u ever had a deep convo
i got an exam in 25 mins 
fr
tbh i feel like this is more or less what a crush is anyways, what matters is how you handle it
icba
lock in
liking the idea of someone is only going to disappoint u in the end
Hmm it could be. Probably depends a bit on how instant the crush is
be so fr
from my experience its liking the memory for who they used to be
Ok join us then if uw ant and contribute meaningfully.
good luck 
That's if it comes later
Dami should chipotle be allowed in our philosophical convos too
depends if you get to know the person better and it turns into an actual relationship
everyone has an idea of someone else in the beginning
Sometimes it's early on and less memories than preconceived notions
yea but i mean totally just fantasizing them into someone theyre not
With an abundance of caution if anything LMAO
fr
sure, like someone who has a crush on a celebrity
and then finds out the celebrity in question is a horrible person
Ok r u calling me out
girl be so fr you talking about your celeb crushes is not a philosophical convo 🪫
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no i'm just giving a hypothetical 
where tf did i ever mention celebrity crushes
Its not like its an actual crush
and even if
Abel tesfaye cane to me rn
i aint dating him
😂
She means Chip
Uncomfortable truth is that people have stereotype of another person; more so like expectation or assumption of that person. That's normal. How would you react with it is another story. Some, you fantasize, some... well you probably know. But I think it is same mechanism really
ah
In her diatribe at least
i'm the celebrity crush??
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Oh my God
dami
i mean makes sense ig
fuck you
yooooo
this is ur fault
u didn't mean that it was my fault
got it
Sup guys
Now you're just misreading
Actually wait
Yeah given the message I replied to
He can't even pull that out logically
yeah this is pretty much my take i guess

i mean i agree u never rly know what a person is like ESPECIALLY not until u move in with them
but like..
if u picture them as a
completely different person
ur js going to get diff results
they say u cant change anybody for a reason
you could fall in love with someone for a number of reasons that just boil down to a (strong) initial impression, and many long relationships start that way
not to say people don't fall in love with long-time friends
Best one.
Yeah I feel like a lot of relationships struggle when people don't get along as roommates
And on a deeper level you get to know more about how they operate when you see them as much as people see each other when living together
im ok w risking friendships for that reason
many ppl say they wouldnt and i respect but
im not letting go an opportunity that can be beautiful
I remember saying to my mom once that I think people should not have kids until after they've been married for some amount of time
ight
what are we talking about?
Chipotle ur gonna make me kms rn.
It is easy to get sway by what you think about a person, but once you observe the truth, that is the point where successful relationship start (if at all success)
bro failed the test
All hope of meaningful contributions just went out the window
csn chipotle liek be muted
Go there chip fr
Thx
Why am i being witch hunted.
Omg relationship discussy?
Nobody's hunting you bro
yay
discord when chipotle starts talking:
vro
did discord send you that after your comment about committing sudoku
NO
LMFAOOOO
i was gonna say that would have been crazy 
someone sent that earlier but i wouldbe died
vro is overwhelmed by me 😭
Yeah I realized this was too close to your name
ok can we get back on topic.
I would be a terrible roommate, for real
chipotle stfU GOF FAMN
Omg each time I open cry someone then realize I'm blocked. It ruins the mood 
can we please keep the conversation serious?
ally the strat for dealing with chipotle is to ignore him
but instead, she sends me a friend req.
can say from personal experience, works great 👍
We includes you
So no
that or apparently be me and take a shot at him
what makes you say that?
but dami an ex partner u likeeealized u had no chemistry with
a breakup wouldnt really hurt
I'm like, not super organized and really clumsy
Yeah that's probably the smoothest one tbh
and I feel like I'd get in the way of my roommates a lot
ah, real
Esp if both sides realize the lack of chemistry
It's like oh hmm we jumped the gun. But you're chill tho
i don't think it's a problem as long as you keep the clutter to your room
I do clean up after myself though
Better than breakups because of fighting or broken trust or smth
I was raised to despise dirty spaces
im actually someone who doesnt mind if i get broken up with over text
I'm just the kind of person to break things every other day for no reason
some people hate that but
i dont mind it
just please communicate to me one way or another
Mood
being incompetent is the first step to learning to adult
higher is incompetent? i must be brainless then
But yeah regarding a relationship with a longtime friend: I haven't given much thought to it. The nice thing is that, you definitely enjoy each other's company/relationships should have a foundation of friendship (among many other things)
As for the risk of ruining the friendship, it is indeed scary
as in, if I don't know how to do something, I will continue to not be able to figure it out for way too long
yeah
ok uhhhh can you give an example
like, I couldn't figure out how to open a can of spam for 15 minutes
but i think its worth the risk
oh
nah bro that's just part of life
literally just a skill issue on my end
an understanding friend will move on from it truly
That's common
struggling with annoying crap
I can't open it either
then you tell your friends how stupid spam cans are
I feel you
but there's like a bajillion instances of issues like this
good. u have more funny anecdotes
higher i struggle with knowing basic things sometimes and feel like i always need help with the smallest things
ur not alone
I couldn't find the bag of shrimp that I put in the freezer for 10 minutes
I think if you're considering with a friend, the best thing is to get all of the "This could be a problem" questions out of the way before you even make the plunge
Like hopefully trust is somewhat given, and hopefully you guys know each other's ways of communicating and resolving conflict
and there was an instance where I couldn't figure out where the broom was
despite it being where it always was
ignoring the red flags at the beginning will be the reasons for your guys breakup at the end 💯
idk this just sounds like normal life to me 
So that you're less likely to have a breakup due to cheating or really nasty fights that kinda poison the original friendship
idk





