Unselect SelectMenu option on ephemeral message when Modal is cancelled

[red plank]

I have a command that when used sends an ephemeral message, that message has a SelectMenu and when an option is selected, a modal is shown. I am using the ModalSubmit#update to reset the SelectMenu, however, if the user chooses to cancel, I don't know a way to reset the menu.

I can't use SelectMenu#update because I need to show the modal using SelectMenu#showModal.
And I can't use ModalSubmit#message#edit because the message is ephemeral.

Is there anyway to reset the menu in my situation?

[rigid flint]

Only if you have the SelectMenuInteraction still around and can use editReply