#archived-culture-study-visa
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if you apply for a non student research job you would have to change some/a lot of stuff
Well, its an English language university, and posting is in English also
Yeaaah, thats why im hoping to get this one lol, put that off a few years xD
Danke schon :p
One of the benefits of writing your own job description is having HR-approved bs
I am used to put my hobby’s in the cv
Seems like a German thing
🤔
@fair talon hahaha yeah
And you know the best part?
Everything else at that job is behind a 5 year NDA
So theres no way for my bs to be called out on xD
Hahahahaha
Thanks for looking it over though 👍 much appreciated
This job is like, my ideal student job xD basically researching shit and making powerpoint slides from home ("location-independent") for 10E and 10 hours/week
@faint plaza what would you say he'd have to change if it weren't a student job?
Was denkt ihr über die Studentenverbindungen? Ob ein ausländischer Student da mitmachen kann oder lieber nicht?
viele (aber nicht alle) sind eher am rechten Rand einzuordnen. Die die bereit sind einen Ausländer aufzunehmen, sind eher weniger rechts.
Kann sich das negativ auf mein Image auswirken, wenn es sich herausstellt, dass ich im Corps bin?
@tight kelp weil er so krass in die Details geht
In den CV schreibst du nur deine Arbeit Geber
Im Anschreiben was du gelernt hast und so
hm
Meine Meinung
Oh yess i read it on reddit too that studentneverbindunhen are often far right
Yikes
Also, speaking of yikes
Tf YouTube?
Apparently watching history videos at 2pm in Germany means im a collector of Nazi paraphernalia 😅
Could a German illuminate me on what just happened?
I was in a Kaufland (supermarket) and as I passed the bakery, I spotted a Marshmallow, Pecan, Chocolate covered donut, so as an American, I took a picture to show my folks back home.
As soon as I took it though, some lady in a store uniform started talking a million miles an hour about "No fotos!" until I deleted it 😅
I mean, I know pictures of people are super restricted, but food too?
Eh no
Lol
I worked in the Einzelhandel for years
And Never heard of a no Fotos of Food
Lol
its usually verboten to take photos in those huge markets
no idea why
but its the same in poland 🤷
Lol never heard of a picture ban
Thats just weird 😅
i know, i never really understood the reason behind it
Any other photo restrictions I should know about while im asking? 😅
not that im aware of
I know people = no go, I think buildings are no go for commercial shit
I feel like for some reason I should not follow that advice. Can't quite figure out why... 🤔
there usually should be some Schild saying that taking photos is forbidden
Well, I didnt see any 😅 then again, I cant read
Halt die klappe works too
Fr tho, don't do that. Just ask a simple Entschuldigen Sie mich, aber ist es verboten? Then follow with a simple darf ich fragen warum denn? Then wrap it up with an alles klar and pocket your phone without deleting the picture.
Works really well if there are actually no rules in place and people just want to exercise some form of authority
Ok so
No people
No state buildings from the us and other stuff
As far as I know
But pictures that are forbidden in a fucking Kaufland is new to me
You could send an email to the Kaufland HQ tbh @fair talon
Thats way too much effort for a simple photo 😅 I just wont go Kaufland
Lmao
Kaufland is good tho. It's better than Edeka and Rewe in terms of product variety, and offers as well. Imho
I think it's to "protect" themselves from certain apps that ask users to contribute data. For whatever reason.
photo restrictions are usually on the basis that competitor stores could use the information about prices and stock to undercut and outcompete
i believe
Which is dumb, cause like
Youd be writing that shit down anyway 😂
But im assuming its the same folks who thought criminals would use Google Street View to see if you were home or not.
Yah thats a stupid way.... If the konkurrent store was determined its easy to find out prices lol
has anybody registered to the Bundeswehr as an immigrant? if so how did it go?
i don't think you can without german citizenship? 🤔
that is why I mention immigrant, as in people who obtained a german citizenship later on in their life 🙂
I think, I might have switched up the term by accident a little bit, but yeah I guess you can sorta see what I mean
@lunar garden you can if you got the German citizenship
I believe you shouldn’t be to old for it
If you wanna get infos go to a Karriere Berater
From the Bundeswehr
What’s the easiest way to get German citizenship and also can you have dual citizenship with Germany?
I am a US citizen just to clarify (just in case my name didn’t make that obvious enough already)😄
marry
Lol yeah I knew that one already
What’s the second easiest way
I mean actually finding someone you want to marry isn’t an easy task in itself tbh
why do you want citizenship? what about a permanent visa?
I’ve never heard of a permanent visa before
first search result, maybe it helps https://www.expatica.com/de/moving/citizenship/how-to-get-german-citizenship-or-a-permanent-visa-108795/
I just know I want to spend longer amounts of time here (cuz I’m already here right now) without having to deal with a complicated visa process each time, so that’s why I originally wanted citizenship.
Okay, ty, I’ll check that out 👍🏼
Permanent resident sounds like what you're looking for
Einbürgerung is citizenship tho?
isn't it?
anyway, don't you pretty much need to first become a permanent resident in order to get citizenship anyway? even if you get married to a german citizen, it's like a process iirc
Yes it is the citizenship.
And yes you need to for the second thing
Or work for 9 years in Germany and prove it to get the citizenship
Erste Hochrechnung der Nationalratswahl in Österreich
habs schon gsehn
Hat sich mittlerweile ein bisschen verändert, aber nicht wesentlich
fpö - 10 lol
def
Pls no
Tschüss schwammerlpeter lol
kurz is kanzler
Pls no
ich glaub ja türkis grün
is scho ziemlich fix
Kann man Kurz rausschmeißen?
Nein
So per Flugzeug nach Nigeria schicken?
kurz is neuer kaiser von österreich
Es gibt keine realistische mehrheit ohne övp
“Kaiser”
außer grüne und fpö koalieren lel
Eher Behinderung in AT
mit spö

Grüne und FPÖ is des schlecht bei euch?
das kurz gewinnen wird war aber schon vorher klar
Vilimsky sieht die fpö aber in der opposition jetzt
kurz hat einfach alle fpö wähler wieder zurückgeholt
Weit links und weit rechts wird einfach nicht gehen @faint plaza

Dann gibts den Mallorcaskandal
Mit hochroten ohren 
😂
heute war wahltag :d vorgezogene wahlen wegen dem Ibiza skandal
hab heute mal so nen wen-soll-ich-wählen fragebogen gemacht (meinen wahlzettel hab ich schon letztes Wochenende ausgefüllt, weil ich nicht mehr nach Hause gehe bis zu den Wahlen)
laut dem hätte ich für die jungen sozialen stimmen sollen, hab aber für die alten gestimmt ^^
ausser eine von den jungen, weil ich die persönlich kenne und weiss, dass sie halbwegs sinnvolle moralität hat
Wahlkabine.at kannst nicht ernst nehmen
Kannst gleich denken und kommt was ganz anders heraus 
Hey Leute, könnt euch mir helfen. Ist Studium in Uni sehr schwieriger als in FH?
@fleet parrot depends on the subject obviously. And I dont know for sure if its easier or tougher, but read on websites that FH's are easier. uni= theoretical orientated and FH is practical orientated.
@tame forum thank you so much 😬
@fair talon u have a lidl yah?,
If u do we both can get 5 euros
If i put in ur phone number while registering
Does anyone here live in or near Heidelberg? I wanna ask them a couple questions if its fine with them ty
ask here
Is Heidelberg a good place to live in for foreigners? How's the environment, living costs, and openness to strangers? Is it a safe place?
Is English understood in the city or is German the only language most people are able to comprehend?
Is Heidelberg University really the best university in Germany to study Medicine at an undergraduate level? (State Examination Course)
Are there good language institutes in the area?
If someone can answer these it'd be greatly appreciated ❤
@tame forum wait, just saw the message. Did you do that already?
I want that food money 👀👀👀
Well, if you want to try again now, im down :D
Is Heidelberg University really the best university in Germany to study Medicine at an undergraduate level? (State Examination Course)
I don't know about Heidelberg, but i can tell you one thing - you forget 90% of what you learned in preclinical before you are done with the university anyway, and since staatsexamen are well, "staat", wherever you study and how much you learn is in 90% up to you anyway
also, medical universities have this thing about them, the more prestigious it seems, the more psychopaths it attracts
psychopaths as in "i'm going to make students life hell, because we're so prestigious"
(and Heidelberg Uniklinik has plenty of nasty things going behind the scenes, and it perfectly confirms my point)
no, people working there
Heidelberg hat noch ne richtige shitshow vor sich haha
Wer denen noch vertraut ist jetzt selber schuld
@analog peak
Is Heidelberg a good place to live in for foreigners?
Yes
How's the environment, living costs, and openness to strangers? Is it a safe place?
It‘s a rather beautiful city, with its old town, the center of attraction. Tourists love to come to Heidelberg, which is why quite a lot of foreigners live there. Living costs as in food, is normal. Living costs as in rent, it‘s quite high. Moreover, you‘ll have a HUGE difficulty trying to find an apartment.
Is English understood in the city or is German the only language most people are able to comprehend?
Yes it is, but using German gets you even further
Is Heidelberg University really the best university in Germany to study Medicine at an undergraduate level? (State Examination Course)
As far as I understand from my ex, yes. Although it also depends on what exactly you wanna learn. It seemed that Uni Heidelberg is “the best all rounder” and for example Uni Tübingen is great for emergency medicine.
Are there good language institutes in the area?
Can‘t name em, but yes there are
And in addition to what Vahti said, according to my ex, the more „prestigious“ the school is, the more its students are stuck up and looking down on a lot of people. There‘s also quite a few rich Germans with rich parents or people in the higher echelons of Germany studying using their coattails. No wonder they‘re stuck up.
Source: I lived in Mannheim and had an ex studying in Uni Heidelberg, so I heard stories
there are plenty language schools in both mannheim and heidelberg
so weird question but -- I got a free bottle of Fritz Rhabarberschorle with my takeout due to a mixup and it has this white-grey stuff at the bottom of the bottle. Does anybody know what that is/if it's normal/safe to drink?
Could you send us a pic? @humble bough
I'm attempting to take one but the lighting in my room is Bad
hrm... well........ in trying to get the bottle into a good angle for a picture, the residue got mixed in with the soda so..... hrm
This stuff is normally the stuff that you can drink. You shake it and than just drink it. Fruchtfleisch meistens
I have a question about an email i got:
"Das Zimmer ist jetzt frei und Bezugsfertig.
Sie können die Schlüssel wie folgt abholen;
Terminvergabe zum Einzug in das Wohnheim
Rufen Sie bei Ihrem Eintreffen an.
Die Handy Nr. des zuständigen Hausmeisters (eventuell Vertreter)hängt neben der Eingangstür Ihres Wohnheimes.
Erreichbarkeit: (an Werktagen)
Montag, Dienstag und Donnerstag von 8 Uhr bis 15 Uhr.
Mittwoch von 10 Uhr bis 15 Uhr.
Freitag von 8 Uhr bis 14 Uhr.
Wichtig: Mietvertrag und Ausweis nicht vergessen!!!!
Ich habe bis zu vier Wohnheime (560 Bewohner/innen) zu betreuen.
Es kann zu etwas Wartezeit kommen.
Phone number of the person who sent the email (i think)"
So in this email, is the person telling me to call him when i arrive, or the person, whose number is hanging near the door. He normally never mentions any phone number but mentioned it this time in the email
Btw this is the actual formatting of the email, sorry for the wall of text
it's not really clear, but since the sentences are next to each other i'm guessing you're supposed to call the hausmeister
maybe you'll find that the number in the email is the same as the one on the door and the problem will be solved :P Keep both and when it comes to it, call one and explain the situation, if it's the wrong number you can just call the other one
Yahh. I will prolly do that. Thankx
Yeah, you're supposed to call the janitor
Sorry for seeing the messages late, but thank you so much, @vague brook and @warped atlas
Question: I'm planning to submit two months notice (its in my contract, I know its normally three) to my landlord, and I was wondering which method I should use, given that I live in the same flat as her. I want it written, just to protect myself, but I was wondering if there was anything simpler than walking to the post and mailing it back to my own place 😅
Do they have a mailbox you can put it in yourself?
Why not just have it as printed paper and hand deliver?
Well, I was just trying to figure out what to have on the paper 😅 (first time giving notice like this. For my landlord back in the US I just sent a text)
Ehh...you gotta do it the other way around
as in find a Studium and then find a Nebenjob that can help you pay rent
but more or less, you gotta have some money, or some kind of Scholarship that would be enough for the Sperrkonto
how (little) you spend your Sperrkonto is up to you
If you're not of EU country, but of countries that have international relationship with Germany that includes free visa as a tourist for 3 months or so, then sure, you can come here directly and try to find a job using a tourist visa
if you have a competitive degree in STEM and/or also the work experience to match, you could even be hired quite fast.
I guess what I'm saying is, research first what you can do to enter the country legally to look for a job
some people were able to get local (german) companies to sponsor their work visas
as for them studying, I have not heard it, since it's also quite difficult to do half and half at the same time, nor it is often done here
some do night classes at the local VHS, but that's another thing
there are also those who do remote studying
but that would also take some time
Hmm
in this case, I'd rather summon @tight kelp
Cause I think Berzi's experience would be able to help you more
Some Ausbildungen would pay you good enough to "barely" live
I still don't think you can do it without having your QoL taking a toll
Ausbildungen would need Atleast lvl B2 German Skills
I've never taken an Ausbildung before
and I went straight to Masters in Germany, coming from outside the EU
I did an Ausbildung
From start till end
You speak German on lvl C1 than?
If so just apply for an Ausbildung.
Ausbildung can be applied without care of the background, or? @faint plaza
....how rusty are we talking about here?
What ya mean exactly?
For Ausbildung you need a working permit and visa
Including good German skills
If not don’t even do it
You Need the speaking tho
You don't need a visa if you're from the EU. Which is not quite the same as just any european country. You probably know this but it can't hurt to point it out
Work in a Hotel.
English basic German is good
The more languages you speak the better
Ausbildung are accessible easily enough depending on the field. There is a shortage of people in many of them recently
Berzi für die Ausbildung sollte man schon deutsch sprechen können und das gut
Yes it saitama
He said he has c1
But he said rusty
I meant Ausbildung like....I wanna be an IT technician
or I wanna be a cook
or....I wanna be a Mechaniker at the Werkstatt
or....I wanna be a...nurse? Can you do it with an Ausbildung? 🤔
Yes
To become a nurse it takes 5 years
My buddy is a nurse
5 years of school and hospital
No it depends on the company
Some want a gymnasium degree
Some Hauptschule
And some Realschule
which, for context, are all pre-uni level
Not all lol
Ah I see
Only gymnasium is pre Uni lvl
some are like 1300, but im pretty sure its pretax
and im also not sure how bafög works
Ausbildung works if you have somebody helping you at the side
in this case, your parents or something
by the end you can be an expert and do rake in the "normal" money
i mean you probably can somehow survive with 1k euro
yeah
not in münchen probably
but like I said, your QoL suffers
but QoL is bad
if you are really desperate you could probably manage with a minijob
The studierendenwerk told if theres any damage i should report it, is the grey thing called a carpet?
Lol vahti
Wir schicken in unserem Tauschexperiment Miss Germany auf einen Bauernhof. Wie hart ist es für sie als Bäuerin zu arbeiten? #Bäuerin #Galileo #ProSieben ► Di...
Like i dont wanna write "carpet is cracked and peeling" and they will be wondering wtf i am talkin about
herr meister da gibts keinen boden in meinem zimmer
i guess i will put in the report and try to send the guy in the email some pictures too.
how does bafög work? they calculate your geld per capita in your family and then you get free monies if you are learning/studying?
interesting
i had to take a straight out student credit, but the rates are not that bad since the credit was more like a monthly support
like 70€ or so per month
is what i pay nowadays
i guess the paperwork and constant proving of how poor you are is humiliating
just asking out of curiosity because the term is flying around
doesnt really affect me anymore :p
but I think the Bfög system still needs to be improved
a friend of mine has her parents divorced
but she didn't get any Bafög because the father is a doctor (meaning rolling in cash), even though the mother can't get enough money to sustain all three daughters (all of whom are not with the father)
but apparently system didn't care
how hard is it to get into the max planck/leibniz institutes (as a postdoc)?
what about other postdocs in universities?
Odd, my question gets insta-deleted here when I try to ask it
At least when I copy paste it
it's the spam filter, sorry :c
Sehr geehrte Damen und Herren,hiermit kündige ich den Mietvertrag für mein Zimmer in der Wohnung STREETADDRESS zum (Is this the date im giving notice or the date ill be leaving?). Es handelt sich hierbei um die Wohnung in der _,Anschrift der Wohnung.Etage EG, mit der Wohnungsnummer __Ich bitte um eine schriftliche Kündigungsbestätigung.Ich werde Sie in den nächsten Tagen kontaktieren, Zwecks Besprechung dernächsten Schritte (Übergabetermin, Kautionsrückzahlung,Sonstiges)
hiermit kündige ich den Mietvertrag für mein Zimmer in der Wohnung STREETADDRESS zum 03.10.2019.
Viel Glück bei der Suche nach einem Nachmieter!
So I copy pasted the above form from a template, then tried my best to modify it for my current situation. Anyone mind advising on filling out the rest/if this is sufficient for written notice of terminating my rental contract? (I live in a room of a shared flat that my landlord also resides in, and my contract requires two months notice)
I'm currently in Berlin and want to move somewhere cheap where I can find a room for around 350-400 euroinos. I'm going to come back to Berlin onnthe the 5th. Please help me out here
@fair talon this viel Glück bei der Suche eines Nachmieters 😂
This sounds so evil ahahaha
It doesn’t sound weird but evil tbh Hahahaha
I mean, that wouldnt be that bad to have with this landlord. But ill leave that part out lol
Better do haha
Mostly just confused on the date to put/ which wording to use
on which date to put*
I think these are the only parts I need. Still dont know whether to put the date im giving notice or the date im leaving for the first and second dates though
Im still trying to figure the dates thing out if anyone's reading 😅
Hmmm
I think you’re supposed to give the last day you’re staying
Meaning, let’s say you have a two month’s notice
You give your letter here on 15 Oct
You’d say in the letter, you’re leaving at the end of Dezember
Or if it’s also okay by the landlord November
Thank you. Just was trying to figure out if that was supposed to be the day im giving it or the day im leaving
That should be everything then 👌
Sehr geehrte Damen und Herren,
hiermit kündige ich, (pplease repeat your name and your birth date as well as your current address) meinen Mietvertrag in der Wohnung.... zum... (the date when the cancellation will be in effect like)
The best is to state, when you write your termination and when it should be take effect like:
Sehr geehrte Damen und Herren,
hiermit kündige ich, (name, surname, born on.... currently residing at:...) meinen am.... (date when the contract started to get in effect) geschlossenen Mietevertrag mit Ihnen, (name, surname and residence of the landlord or the company)
Diese Kündigung wird von mir am .... ausgesprochen (which means: this is when I tell about the cancellation) und gilt laut Vertrag zum.... (which means: due to the contract that means that the termination of the contract will get into effect at the following date:...)
Important rule: state as many data as possible in such letters to avoid anything which could be misunderstood. Write your name, your birth date, your current date of residence, as well as the name of the company of your landlord down, write down when you made the contract, when you are writing this, when the termination will be getting into effect etc.
(I am sorry for the lousy English at the moment, I have two bone breaks and take some pain killers but wanted to advise you to never write sloppy cancellation... letters)
How old does one have to be to set up a doctor’s appointment on their own? My mother’s busy so I’d prefer to do it alone.
In Germany of course
I think it should be fine, but you can always just call them and ask if it's fine.
You Are definitely old enough to do it on ya own @fluid moss
Take ya Krankenkassen Karte with you and you are good to go
You can just go, Phae
Or...well, at least 18? 🤔
So they know you’re not skipping school? And parents not being negligent?
You don’t Need to be 18 for that I believe
So they know you’re not skipping school?
why would a doctor care about that, they'll happily schedule stuff in the middle of the school day for you
Yeah, I mean, as long as you're at least a teenager, I don't see any reason they would have an issue with it.
the only issue would be what happens to the bill
Although it's perhaps worth considering they might want to contact your parent to confirm anything important, depending on what happens overall.
cause presumably your parents will get that
(even if it's entirely covered by the krankenkasse they'd get a confirmation of sorts)
Well, I think there can be concerns such as legal right for a child to choose their own medical procedures, right? Or things like prescriptions. I'm not sure what the legal aspects of that are, but perhaps they will need some confirmation in those cases.
But like I said, you can always just call the doctors easily and ask on the phone about it.
but it doesn't sound like you're trying to hide sth from them so that won't be a problem I guess
What I'm not sure is whether Schweigepflicht will apply to talking to your parents
if you're not 18 yet
How old does one have to be to set up a doctor’s appointment on their own? My mother’s busy so I’d prefer to do it alone.
Old enough to be "einsichtsfähig". How old that is - no one has a clue, because no one cared to gesetzlich define it with a number. :') Up to doctor to decide whether you are old enough.
As for Schweigepflicht, it applies to some extent(if you have PKV your parents will get the Rechnung), also no one will cut your tumor out without getting your parents permission because no one wants to be sued afterwards. For routine stuff it applies, depends whether the doctor decides if you are big boi enough to decide about yourself, and if yes, it comes with all the perks.
@fluid moss
law is shitty when it comes to the matter everywhere, because children 14-18 are big enough to decide themselves, on the other hand parents are responsible for them
and its all grey-area of maybe, maybe not
„nach seiner geistigen und sittlichen Reife die Bedeutung und Tragweite des Eingriffs und seiner Gestattung zu ermessen vermag“ is an awesome sentence, very beautiful, and has no fricking Inhalt whatsoever
:D
So kann ein erst 15-jähriger Patient für Routinemaßnahmen und geringfügige Eingriffe, wie zum Beispiel eine Blutabnahme, bereits über die nötige Urteilskraft verfügen. Deutlich höher liegt die Messlatte bei nicht ganz ungefährlichen Behandlungsmaßnahmen, selbst bei „alltäglichen“ Eingriffen, wie einer diagnostischen Laparoskopie. Ist der Arzt unsicher, ob der minderjährige Patient einwilligungsfähig ist oder nicht, muss er die Eltern in die therapeutische Entscheidung einbeziehen.
@vague brook @faint plaza I was just by the doctors and they didn‘t ask me for anything to do with my parents, they just asked me whether I go to school or not, even though I wrote down my birthdate
So it worked
yea with a flu or whatever there should be no problem
I got some antibiotics for my throat
yes
although i have to wait cus the pharmacy didnt have it in stock
so i gotta return at 3
take em like a good boy, dont stop after you feel better
Mhm. If you take them for less, any that survived would be those resistant to antibiotics, meaning it'd take even longer the next go around
Hallo! Im just wanting to know from the native germans or people who have gone thru marriage process with a german about the differences of engagement rings between us/de cultures and marriage in general. Thanks 😉
I do not not know where you are but it would be helpful to know.
I do not want to squeeze out your personal data or so, but I do not really know what you want to know. So maybe you could just ask direct questions.
she said US
but it's true that to answer that question as it is, one would have to know what the customs in the USA are, which is not something I'd just assume Europeans to know :P
I mean, if someone started posting about European customs, I could make comparisons to the American ones 🤷🏻♂️
Well, it’s also a thing to have engagement rings as far as I have seen it in my own past relationship
But as for pricing, like, 200-300, and after that, just a wedding band
It was treated like a formality.
Which I like, but it depends on the person, I guess
Well, 2-300 is a lot less than what marketing and Hallmark encourages Americans to spend on it 😅
Most expect to spend somewhere between $1000-5000 on the ring, with the average being ~$6000 (the rule of thumb being "two months salary" thanks to DeBeers marketing)
Lol i thougjt it was 3 months
what the fuck
How about $300 ring + $5000 cash instead.
@tame forum Two to three months lol, hence the range. Most sensible people go with two though 😅
(Vs three. Sensible sensible people just go with a ~$300 wedding band :p )
Honestly if my partner spent 2-3 months salary on a ring I'd reconsider marrying them
Vahtis got the right idea at least you can eat the bubblegum ring
Even if it was a beauty like this?
(The price is just whats expected here now, especially by the family of the person getting engaged. My mom's also gotten an even bigger one for every 10 year anniversary of her marraige 😅)
Actually kind of refreshing to learn that its different in Germany 😅
turns out the reasons for the 99% remaining the 99% are different than we thought, at least in the usa
Honestly if my partner spent 2-3 months salary on a ring I'd reconsider marrying them
why not take a loan for it @fleet pelican

just so everyone can see how rich you are

See after 10 years I can understand investing a bit more but my god
Imagine spending that much then divorcing within a year
:D
im 30
ah
almost
whens your birthday
i assume you dont celebrate your birthday anymore
i do but i always ask for 18 on the cake

its just that years are melding together, i wrote 2017 on some document i had to sign a few days back :D
that makes sense
yea when you get no schedule on your life(like xth year of school, or whatever) you dont even realize how quick time flies
sad life
especially if your life feels overall like a murmeltiertag
re: engagement rings, it's worth noting that afaik which hand the ring is worn on is different between US and Germany? I don't have personal experience there but I've heard that. also fwiw I think pricing of the ring is something a couple should discuss between themselves once they're at that place in a relationship, regardless of whether they're from the same country or not; even in the US, not every woman is gonna want you to waste gigantic sums of money on an expensive ring, for instance, and if you're like gonna get married y'all should probably like communicate that shit.
a german told me the left hand is for the engagement ring and right hand for the wedding one. Others though told me the wedding ring can be worn on the left hand by protestants
being neither of those i considered one particular other option but it wouldn't have been visible enough to flaunt it
in the US in my experience both the wedding band and the engagement ring are worn on the left hand
wut i didn't know the wedding ring was on the left
it's on the right pretty much everywhere in europe
oh no, you'll have to get married again 
afaik it's the left in the UK too but yeah, you def wear them together on the left in the US
But I'm sure there are many variations once you get to that point.
@tight kelp dont you wear wedding ring on the left hand in italy
and pretty much half of europe
:')
internet lies then, because every source says you wear it on the left there
half of europe wears on the left, half on the right
That damn "evil hand" @tight kelp :p
it's worn on the left in Germany
tbh just wear it on a necklace
i've thought of that but it can get in the way, it's easier to lose and i don't like taking it off
I should get me a necklace tho I always wore one as a kid and honestly I still feel kinda weird without one many years later
i have a thor's hammer, it's pretty nice
But are you worthy
yes, i paid for it
It doesnt get uncomfortable while sleeping? I camt imagine wearing a pretty bulky thor hammer and sleeping with it. Feels like it would be uncomfortable
I bought a marriage dress for 30 Euro and the ring was 100 Euro for us both.
There is no "Germans expect..." or "Italians expect..." that is why I was asking for detailed questions.
I do not wear the ring at night while asleep, others always wear the ring and expect that the husband in spe would pay for the dress or the ring etc. etc.
I do not think there is a general rule at all.
i never said i sleep with it on lol
i do sleep with the ring on tho
but my husband doesn't
M bad at assuming
guys, I need help
my current german course will persumably end at the end of this winter semester
but I don't want my studium to start at sommer semester, is there any way to not do anything for a semester so that I can start my bachelor at winter semester?
you could always work, do an internship in your respective field
there are some charity/event organizations where you can go to support their cause temporarily
this can be anything from kid camps to going to help build houses
ideally though since I'm guessing you don't want your german to deteriorate I'd suggest staying in a dach country
Berlin
I'm going to Berlin with couple of friends and currently we are looking for a hotel to stay. Could somebody tell me where it is better to stay? Since I don't know anything about districts, near what U Bahn stations?
What are places to avoid?
@glad whale Definitely inside the ring
Yes, mostly sightseeing + some shopping and some cafés
And I hope to practice IRL
berlin's pretty safe in the grand scheme of things, so i wouldn't be too worried even if you're out late
can't help with hotels tho, never came up for me
idk anything about hotels in berlin because i live in berlin
gotta ask someone whos travelled there
How rude is it considered if somebody where to say something in German that you do not understand or it's about a subject you're not familiar with and you asked if they know it in English?
I personally am patient with people who are native Spanish speakers who are learning English, but I don't know a lot of Spanish myself so it is frustrating in the event that I can't help them more
in most contexts it isn't considered rude. It's happened to me in the past that I asked people to explain in english if they could (for important stuff). There are some cases where it's not ideal but overall it's ok
How many Germans actually speak English as a secondary language?
Germans/Austrians, etc.
Not sure where you're from
many. As for how many speak it well, it's debatable, but unless they're old you can expect them to explain stuff
i live in germany
no i'm european, i don't need a visa
Like I'm wondering how difficult it is for an American to move there
I read that B1+ proficiency is expected, among other things
i know of many americans who live here. I knew one personally who managed to even get double citizenship
Okay thank you
@sturdy shore Depends on how you move here too. I'm here for a Masters program taught in English, and my A1 (albeit getting better with time) German has been enough to survive here 😅
Coming here for work or studying in German would be much trickier without good German skills
But cities like Berlin and Hamburg are fairly English-friendly when it comes to day-to-day living. A bit less so in the countryside 😅
(American here btw🇺🇸)
I'm also an American here doing a master's program taught in English; A2 is more than enough to get by for day-to-day things
obviously more German more better but I have former classmates who have started working in Germany with about the same level of German as me
yeah cities are generally easy to navigate with minimal german, and germany is one of those countries with many big cities, which makes many of them rather cheap in relation to the convenience they offer
Question for those that live in Germany. Who is the best mobile provider to use when visiting germany? I am visiting in december for two weeks and I am not sure who to sign up to. I will be visiting other countries in Europe as well so I want something that I can use other places.
im still using my polish mobile despite being in germany for 2 years lol
4x cheaper and reception in germany is laughable in many, many places
and mobile internet is way overpriced
Is there any way to withdraw money from German bank accounts when I am in other parts of Europe? If it is possible, which bank has the most ATMs/affiliated ATMs in Europe?
That‘s usually not recommended, since you have to pay extra fees for it
You‘d have better chance if you go for some online banks
They‘re DKB, Comdirect, N26
ING-Diba should also be okay (not German, but still)
Otherwise, the bigger international banks like Commerzbank and Deutsche Bank would be your best bet
Not easy to find branches still, though
Okay I'm actually asking because I would have to open a blocked account and I am finding a way to do so where I can still access the money from other parts of Europe as I travel
Is there any advice for my situation?
If this website I'm looking at is accurate, I basically only have four options - Coracle, DB, Expatrio and Fintiba
No, I'm actually from Asia 😂
I was going to say ask the American dudes
Otherwise, if you have your own HSBC account from Asia, that might work
Okay so you'd recommend opening a blocked account as well as an account with DKB/Comdirect/N26?
I have no idea whether they offer that service or not
Ahhhh okay
I personally had two accounts when I was studying
One the blocked account, the other for travelling
I see
Source: am also Asian
I actually do have a couple of multicurrency accounts (Transferwise and Revolut), do you think those would work
Wtf
Use Transferwise already
Lol
Jeez
That‘s already everything
Hahahahaha
I never used Revolut...what‘s the advantage?
Transferwise actually still has a fee when it comes to converting currency while Revolut does not
@glad whale I see. Thank you!
Sounds a bit too good to be true
Even TW sounded too good to be true as well, but it‘s pretty low exchange rate fees
So still believeable
They do offer slightly worse rates off the ones from what I Googled, but it's only a marginal difference (around a couple of Euros per thousand exchanged)
Thank you!! Thats really helpful
Was reading that
Yeah, maybe bias and convenience, but I‘m keeping my TW account
Lol
Hmm, perhaps I would still try it though
The 0 fees seems a bit to juicy not to use
(On weekdays)
And Revolut is also recognized by Apple Pay
TW doesn‘t 😦
Oh right I forgot about the weekend fees for Revolut
Those are pretty darn annoying
I'll just bring both anyway since there are limits as to how much money you can withdraw without fees from ATM
Cant say anything about Revolut, but I've had a wonderful time with TW's customer service
I do think that I would use TW to transfer money into the blocked account though
Even with the service fee factored in they seem to have the best rates
Hey people
So I've got a question
I've been wrestling with the Krankenversicherung companies for the last 2 weeks
So my father is German, and he is insured at AOK
He keeps telling me that there's no need for me to go to AOK and insure myself again, his insurance counts for me too
But the AOK wont give "Krankenversicherungsnachweis", which i need for my immatriculation at my Uni
I finally got them to give the file, they said they need a vollmacht from my father
However, he is insured at AOK Hessen and I will be attending the Uni in BaWü
Is there any differences between AOK Hessen and AOK BaWü?
Also, if i go to a AOK in BaWü can they also give me the 'nachweis' since he is insured at Hessen?
@hardy wren Well it might seem like im asking the obvious but I mean it
idk tbh
Sounds like a question for AOK tbh. They have the specifics of the account details
IMO from that story, you need to ask AOK Hessen to provide the Krankenversicherungsnachweis that is from your father
The Uni shouldn‘t care because you‘re in BaWü but insured in Hessen
Well, „shouldn‘t“
But I‘ve never heard anyone having a problem of living in adifferent Bundesland and using a different insurance
Anyway, ask AOK directly
Random question: What kind of place would offer event light rentals in Germany?
My classmates are idiots and I'm getting delegated more and more shit 😅
Searching in English only pulls up a few English wedding and catering companies in the city
Nvm, Licht Vermietung brought up what I needed.
Hahaha
I swear to god theyre doing this intentionally
@young iron if it comes to the health insurance, the place of living of the insurance owner is the thing that counts.
Example: Alfred has a health insurance and marries Bettina. Alfread is living in Hamburg and his insurance company regarding health things is the "AOK Hamburg", Bettina is included in his insurance. Bettina decided to live in Bavaria. Then the insurance company which is responsible for her problems is still the "AOK Hamburg" (an example) because the one who is insured as "main insurance holder" (in this case the husband Alfread) has his residence in Hamburg.
Of course this can get complicated when you are in different countries or when Alfred is moving himself but for your "problem" I think this explaination should be enough. ((((I changed the sentence "Bettina is not included..." into "Bettina is included..." because that was misleading. Of couse, in this scenario, Bettina is included from the moment they are married...)
@heady crane Thank you! That was really helpful
@young iron I am glad I could help.
But I now need help filling my Immatriculation form in 😶
So this is the form.
On the first page, there is a part which goes "Ich beantrage die Einschreibung zum SoS/WS .../..., in das .... Hochschulsemester" as you can see
I filled out the first part, as WS 2019/20
But I don't know what to write on the second part
Write it 1. Hochschulsemester @young iron
If it is your first semester
My guess is, you have to do this every time 🤔 hence why you have to fill in which semester you‘re doing
Has anyone here applied in Goethe University, Frankfurt or currently studying there?
Guys do I have to pass an entrance test to study in a studienkolleg
if so, what is the recommended level of language?? And what subjects are in the test ?? (I want to apply for a T-kurs)
Well recommended is B2
Subjects for t-kurs are usually chemistry, maths, physics and german
@gritty wasp
Hallöchen, ich habe gerade einen Bafög-Bescheid bekommen und in dem Bescheid steht einmal ein Gesamtrückforderung in Höhe B und ein Rückforderungsrestbestrag in Höhe X.
Ich soll X innerhalb eines Monats bezahlen, aber X ist viel kleiner als B. Also muss ich jetzt jeden Monat X zurückbezahlen oder kommt da noch ein neuer Bescheid wie mit dem restlichen Betrag von B umgegangen werden soll?
Also eigentlich Höhe x zahlen pro Monat. B ist dann glaube ich bei dir, die komplette Menge die insgesamt über den Zeitraum gezahlt wird. Aber frag mal beim bafög Amt nach @surreal ermine
@surreal ermine hast du denn bereits etwas zurückgezahlt? Ansonsten: immer dort anrufen oder am besten auch parallel schreiben damit du etwas vorzuweien hast.
@faint plaza @heady crane Dangeschöön für die Antworten.
Also den Betrag X muss ich bald bezahlen, deshalb mache ich erstmal das, danach schreibe ich eine Email wie das dann die nächstes Monate aussieht. Aber bezahlt hab ich bisher noch nix.
Hm hört sich nach einem Plan an
@surreal ermine in solchen Fällen immer dort anrufen, nachfragen und am besten verlangen, dass das Ergebnis des Telefonates dir schriftlich mitgeteilt wird. Meine Standardfloskel "Könnten Sie mir das schriftlich geben, ich habe schön öfter ein Missverständnis gehabt..."
Ja anrufen ist aus Japan immer ein bisschen schwierig, vielleicht schreibe ich auf einfach direkt eine E-Mail, die Frau antwortet eigentlich immer ziemlich schnell
@surreal ermine sorry. Dann die Email natürlich und auch trotzdem ruhig einen schriftlichen Beleg einfordern.
how much would an unemployed person be charged for public health insurance. when I leave Germany I kind of want to keep my health insurance since otherwise I'll have none, but I'll be unemployed so depending on how expensive it is it might not be worth it. for reference I'm with TK
there's also the possibility I'll move back to Germany a year after the move so keeping it would also be good for that reason
iirc it costs about 180€ per month so it might not be worth it without a job. I also don't know to what extent you'd be able to make use of it abroad
also iirc, they can cover your expenses up to a certain period while you're abroad. You should ask them about it, since this most likely varies from one Krankenkasse to another
i definitely won't be able to use it in Russia while there unless I also get travel insurance which isn't really worth it. that being said during said move I would still have to periodically leave and reenter so if I needed more non immediate things (new glasses, dental care, casual doctor checkup) I could time those with my return
€180 isn't that bad though so I'll message TK to confirm and also ask a Russian discord what their health care and costs are like to compare
thanks tho
@glass trench ^lol
braucht man English in deutschland?
Man darf Englisch in Deutschland verwenden
Soll aber nicht
Actually that's a joke stuck in my head from some radio ad. English is a + in Germany if it's needed otherwise German can get you everything you need.
Unless you're an English teacher and speak German too.
idk about A+ tbh. after moving here. i realised even young poeple arent that familiar with English. i mean i guess they can understand it, but far from fluent. even though they are in pretty big cities [i guess 500000 is considered big].
and idk man it wud be an overall shitty experience coming to germany without knowing atleast some german. all road sign, shop signs, transport signs. every thing is in german
the question isn't about being able to get around Germany without German, but about getting around Germany without English though?
also I'm pretty sure "a +" meant "a plus" not "A+"
Don't expect Germans speaking English with you :D, especially from the older generation.
you might be lucky if you hang around with university students
it's def v dependent on location
well Germans can speak English in a basic level but still you are better off by speaking German obviously.
we are not like the Scandinavians lol
it's definitely unlikely you'll come across anywhere where you can't get by speaking German for sure lol
Many people in Germany can speak English. And if not, many people are polite and try to talk to you via hands. 🙂 Basic German language should be available by you and if this is the case, most people will think that you try to adapt and welcome you not only via language.
I found reports of Germans' English both under and overexaggerated tbh
but I'm in Berlin so I had everyone being like "THEY WILL NEVER SPEAK GERMAN" lmao
ive spoken to so many people in germany who came here from Syria, Afghanistan, Iran, etc and tried to speak English with the Germans before they learned German, and they told me people just looked at them like they were crazy, not understanding a single word
germans also kinda have their own opinion on how english should be pronounced so that might have been a factor
their own opinion how so? @tight kelp
if you don't say app like äpp they might not understand right away if they have a very one-sided or limited knowledge of how english works
british accents might be misunderstood, especially the lesser known ones. Nowadays most of the english germans hear is american
yeah idk it's odd, one of my former German teachers used to teach English at the VHS and she would attempt to translate things or concepts into English and it would be completely false
the Germans I know who speak English well are all gamers lol
they get good exposure to the language and to different accents as well :P
every native in here speaks like perfect english and so i thought every german too lol.
selection bias :P
If I do 1 cefr level of German a year in the local Goethe institute I can probably almost reach b2 by the time I graduate in 4 years
That way I can probably have a better time finding a job and naturalise in 6 years
and what's your question? 😅
Well, will b2 be good enough to handle living long term and making friends?
absolutely, yes
but once you live here if you keep being interested in the language and do stuff in it, you will eventually progress
also you can reach b2 in less than 4 years. The step that will take the most time will be b1 -> b2, although the one that will take the most effort will probably be a2 -> b1 according to my experience
So I should probably skip some a1 and a2 courses?
Nvm the a level courses only have 4 courses
Like a11 a12 a13 a14
While the b level ones have 5 for each level
So I should be able to do it in less than 4 years
it depends entirely on what they teach. Cefr levels are conventional names for a vague set of linguistic abilities, they aren't strictly defined so everyone kinda gives its own definition of what an a1 must learn to become a2
Goethe should be pretty standard right?
Their certificates should be accepted by most places I believe
i learned everything by myself so i can't tell you too much about the course way. I teach one language course though and what i can tell you is that they have some important advantages over self-learning but also important disadvantages, chief among which the fact that they take a lot of time to teach you stuff you could learn more quickly alone
yes, goethe is a good certificate
I see
Thanks
i'd say depending on your willingness and resourcefulness to organise and study by yourself, previous experience in learning languages, and the immediate need for certificates, you could skip at least the a1 level
but depending on the quality of the course, a1 is the stage at which you'll learn some things that the layman had better learn in a group rather than alone, such as pronunciation. And self-learners tend to skip important stuff that seems laborious to learn or that requires collaboration with other people, and then end up being bad at conversational skills even though they're fine when reading and writing
Yeah that's what I was afraid might happen
My personal recommendation is to self-learn at least A1 and A2, probably B1 too, using this server as a way to help you keep on track (e.g. asking when you're confused, getting corrections, taking advice on your progress). Of course you don't need any classes to learn a language, necessarily, but you may want to take one before you go to an exam (if you plan to take an exam), to make sure you know all the "technical" stuff.
one thing you can do if you're willing to explore is take a course at your level, see how it's structured, how the book presents the information and all, and when you're done attempt the next level by following those strategies by yourself, integrating them with your own ones.
As i said before, you'll have to find ways to integrate conversational activities into it, which are not automatic when self-learning compared to a course (but definitely doable), and you'll have to force yourself to speak aloud and get your pronunciation evaluated by someone
And for speaking: consider seeking out a language exchange group in your area, if it's available.
oh also, if your end goal is or includes certificates, plan ahead the ones you want to get because many can be obtained by just sitting the exams, but some require that you follow their course first and you don't want to do that for stuff you already know. All of them though have their own quirks, so regardless of your knowledge, you will need to prepare a bit for the individual exam in any case
(which is the reason even natives don't always get full marks at some exams. The way they test for stuff can be weird and let's just say, language proficiency isn't always all they're testing for)
Yeah. But that all said, if you want to do classes and don't mind the time and money involved, there's nothing wrong with it. 😄
But without a class and with some effort, you can get to B1 in a few months to a year.
So don't feel like you have to be limited by that longer 4 year goal.
I mean, after all, better to do 1 year to B1 and then 3 years on B2+ if you can do that. 😄
yeah just be aware that most courses are not usually enough to learn a language "efficiently", in the sense that in the same amount of time, you could reach a much higher level by integrating your own practice than by just attending the course and doing nothing inbetween lessons
Well, will b2 be good enough to handle living long term and making friends?
As a non-EU dude who has been living here in Germany for nearly 4 years, I‘d say yes and no.
Yes, you can definitely communicate with them and have a casual talk or talk about work stuff or study stuff, and you can definitely live long term.
No, you can‘t quickly understand the dialects of different Germans and also make deep friendship with them right on the spot, because of the different background (how did Abi go? How was the Ausbildung and Praktikum like? How’s the weekend or summer with parents hiking somewhere in Europe?) and misunderstood nuances („hey digga!“) more often than not, it would take A LOT of time to get into the friendship circles with local Germans. You‘d be faster integrating with other immigrants who are having the same issues as well, make friends and speak German with them
that bit about dialect varies enormously from where in germany you go to live. Dialect is basically nonexistent where I live unless you interact with very specific minorities (by which I don't necessarily mean ethnicity)
and the other bit is entirely cultural, so it's not strictly language-dependent. Can you bond with people from your own country who are several generations older or younger than you? Yes, but to a limited degree, and the same applies to people with very different backgrounds as you, such as people from a country you moved in.
That's normal, and it's not an unsurmountable hurdle: you can bond on stuff that's different from your childhood, if you and the other person are deep enough individuals to find what's common between yourselves as humans, rather than emanations of your respective cultures
Hello everyone
Is anyone living in Germany or from Germany at the moment?
I have a question about phone numbers
just ask your question
@exotic barn wow how'd you know? Do you work at the phone company?
nah I looked it up :^))
And self-learners tend to skip important stuff that seems laborious to learn or that requires collaboration with other people, and then end up being bad at conversational skills even though they're fine when reading and writing
damn man I'm not even a self-learner and I do this
dat Sozialangst hits me hard
Im bad at conversational skills even without being a self-learner
So, there's this show I want to go to and it's in March. But it's already booked or something. It says on the website zurzeit nicht verfügbar. Does that mean it's over?
Hmmm I hope
That means there are no cards left. @tropic edge
Or they don’t have online sell open yet
It said sold out on the YouTube video, but I was really hoping to get a ticket
Because they said they changed the venue
If they say it’s sold out it is sold out
hi! what are some items that you would find in an apothoke? I'm making a flyer for an apothoke for our german project, and I need 9 more items that can be found there. ty! : )
pretty much everything online Apotheken sell is also sold in a normal Apotheke https://www.docmorris.de/
Oh god I spelt it wrong I’m sorry !! Tysm for the website link!!
Ricola!
(DRINGEND): ich bin in Vietnam und eine Freundin hat mein C1 Zertifikat in Bremen für mich abgeholt. Wie sollte sie es mir am besten schicken? Wäre Deutsche Post mit Einschreiben ok? Die VN-Post ist aus meiner Erfahrung manchmal unzuverlässig und ich mache mir deswegen Sorge
warum schickt die es dir nicht per Email?
Ein physisches Zertifikat per Email schicken? 🤔
Manchmal ist eine Kopie reichend - je nach Organisation
ja, wenn eine Kopie reicht ist es am sichersten nur das digital zu schicken und das Original nächstes Mal abholen, wann du in Deutschland bist. Ansonsten gibt es viele Möglichkeiten und ich glaube, die sicherste Alternative ist die Einschreiben-Eigenhändig, aber ich weiß nicht ob das international gilt oder wie es funktioniert
eingeschrieben sollte international gehen, könnte aber teuer werden
und dauert super lange
eine Cousine von Deutschland wollte auch was geschickt haben aus Vietnam
hat über ein Monat gedauert
naja, mit genug geld lässt sich das problem schon lösen
@spring veldt wohin soll denn das Zertifikat dann gehen bzw. wofür benötigst du es?
@heady crane das brauch ich nächstes Jahr bei der Bewerbung an deutschen Unis
Ich hab schon eine gescannte Version
Ich werde mich von Vn aus bewerben
@spring veldt wenn es so heikel ist, würde ich von deiner Freundin ein paar beglaubigte Kopien anfertigen lassen. Sicher ist sicher. Vielleicht kann sie ja auch die Kopien dann an die Unis direkt schicken.
Is there anywhere in the renter law, that the landlord may not enter the WG unless it has been spoken about with the renters?
I know that the landlord is not allowed to enter out private space (rooms) without asking, but I can’t remember about the public area, e.g. kitchen, living room, balcony
BG: landlord is pissing us off for asking impossible standards of cleanliness that has to be fulfilled in a few days
@warped atlas the so called "Besichtigungsrecht des Vermieters" does not only refer to the private spaces like bed rooms, it refers to the whole rented space. The renter has to allow the landlord to come in if
- he wants to sell the space
- he wants to control the condition of the space
- there are danger to the health imminent or to be feared to happen in the future
Control of the immobile´s condition is only allowed about to happen every 1-2 years (!)
The landlord has to inform the renting party when the control will be taking place two weeks before the control takes place, the control has to take place during normal hours.
The landlord is allowed to enter private spaces when there are damages to the immobile´s condition to be feared to happen in the future or if they are already happening.
(for example photos of mould in the sleeping room)
Make sure there are 1-2 witnesses there and write down a protocoll.
Thanks for the info @heady crane
I’m guessing he’s abusing the right on the second part.... “damages to the real estate condition to be feared to happen in the future”
Although... how do we as renter assure the landlord there’s no mould?
Like periodical photos?
Yes, that would be an idea. I mean, you could just send him a letter, stating that the object´s condition is alright, send him a few photos of the recent condition every 6 months or so and state, that you will inform him of any mould etc. immediately. If you send this, undersigned by all of you and via "Einschreiben mit Rückschein" you should be on the safe side.
In Addition: there are test kits, which are not that expensive and should be a relief for both you and the landlord.
hello can i get some help on applying to universities in germany munich
see what I wrote in #questions , but this channel fits the topic better
I feel like no matter where you go it's sort of a "taboo" topic, but I was sorta wondering how a person in rehab/recovery or going through a relapse would be viewed in generalized German culture? Like just sorta reflecting on my own situation it feels like (here in America) there's a lot of judgment
But I heard from someone that European culture is more progressive in that sense?
So I was curious
for drugs or alcohol you mean?
there’s definitely stigma against alcoholics and the likes, but if someone is actively trying to get better I’d say that’s generally seen in a good light
like “good for them that they’re trying to get out of it”
In my case drugs but both are pretty judged against here
Ohh that's fair
I just thought maybe talking about it in an educational sense could help me come to terms with it ig? Like learn something new
I do think the rehabilitation mindset is a bit stronger in Germany (and most of Europe) than back in America. Definitely with regard to the criminal side of things at least (In the US, theres a tendency to view it as a fault of character that someone has trouble stopping, rather than an illness or medical related reason)
I can't say I know how the Germans 'feel' about it, but the structural side is definitely more forgiving/supportive
Ohhh, that's an interesting take. Here there's definitely a mindset of "your addiction is your own fault" which to a degree I agree, but it's a trap that's really hard to get out of
Like you want to change but no one thinks you can because it's your own fault and so you just don't
seems to be a pattern in some cultures
like how you can't really rehabilitate if you've been in prison before because you will hardly be able to be hired for good jobs if you've been in prison
Especially considering you can hardly get a good job if you never been to prison. 😔
yeah that wasn't my point at all 👀
i'm referring to systems where you are obliged to state that you've been in prison, and that can and will be used to discriminate against you getting the job, so you're de facto forced into keeping a bad standard of living that may bring you back into crime by necessity
I guess no matter where you go it tends to be rough
I feel like no matter where you go it's sort of a "taboo" topic, but I was sorta wondering how a person in rehab/recovery or going through a relapse would be viewed in generalized German culture? Like just sorta reflecting on my own situation it feels like (here in America) there's a lot of judgment
@exotic barn funfact: https://transformdrugs.org/heroin-assisted-treatment-in-switzerland-successfully-regulating-the-supply-and-use-of-a-high-risk-injectable-drug/
but yes, the stigma is still there
@vague brook I would only mention it among friends. Rehab, illnesses and especially addictions are hardly ever mentioned outside of friendships, except from people who want to raise awareness for this topic in the media.
well tbf it's a rather heavy topic, you wouldn't mention it without a reason anyway
that is why the original question was a bit strange for me anyway 🙂
Sorry since it is a bit of a heavy thing. I just wanted to see if I could get something positive to the topic hahah. But the study is interesting compared to the American approach
Sollen die Studenten zusätzlich zum Krankenversichering auch Pflegeversicherung zahlen?
I believe it is required, if I recall the AOK guy discussing it with me.
Same, mine is AOK too. But the whole thing is a bit weird, I always heard of spending 80 euro on this stuff and not 100+
Well, its cheaper if you're under the 23 years old/(number I forgot) number of semesters.
I think the long term care is considered a fee tho, so its not always included in the "insurance" price 🤷
yah and plus they also hiked up the fees this year from total 90 euros to 103 euros
per month
@exotic barn I started with €83 as a 27 yo at the time, and it became as high as €92 before I left as a student 2 years later (was with TK)
I recall that the KV and PV are inclusive in that fee
The ratio, I‘m not sure
So I'm looking to buy some Vans. How, when and where should I shop?
I don't want to pay full retail price as well
ebay? 🤷
Question for the chefs of the group: Im looking for recipes to try/make to impress a German lady-friend of mine. Any recommendations?
>sub food to meet le chefs
No no no, I need the cooks, not the boss 👀
Oh I meant the cooks. I can invite you to a cooking discord if you like 🙂
I figured so, was just making a cheesy language joke :p
I don't think Im interested enough for a whole discord. Just looking for dishes to try, don't even need recipes (I got google after all lol)
So hopefully I'm starting university next April in German. How can I give myself an advantage when it comes to studying?
I'll be doing Maschinenbau.
I was considering getting Abitur books for subjects like physics and maths, but I'm not sure if that will really translate well for university.
Any advice?
Ja, wäre super! Oder vielleicht einfach einen Ratschlag brauche ich.
@tropic edge Modulhandbuch lesen, da gibt es normalerweise empfolenen Literatur für jeden Fach
@fair talon it depends what your cooking experiences are and what the old lady likes. I mean, there is no use in doing "Heaven and Earth" if she does not like potatoe mash 😉
But for easier stuff with beef:
Rouladen mit Rotweinsauce und Preiselbeeren
Kartoffeln, in Butter geschwenkt, mit Petersilie
as a starter:
Blattsalat mit gebratener Entenbrust und Joghurtdressing mit einem Hauch Vanille
Dessert:
Bratapfel mit Vanilleeis und Rumrosinen
in Butter geschwenkt*
geschenkt hätt ich sie aber auch gern
😋
@pale saddle aehem, wie peinlich, Ich habe es verbessert, danke für den Hinweis.
Not an old lady lol, shes like 20 something 😅 @heady crane
But much appreciated 👍 I'll give those a look
@fair talon okay, if you tell me more about what she likes to eat I can come up with something more appropriate for a younger woman 🙂
(I am hobby cook and doing fruit carving as a hobby)
@fair talon in addition: if you want to impress her, I can give you a receipe for a Greek salad, which looks, well, I think, better than the usual one, and is easy to be made.
Here is the picture:
Sorry, I thought he wanted to impress someone.
Exactly
🤪
Seriously though, if you could make a mean Käsespätzle with geröstete Zwiebeln, I‘ll love you already
That is why I asked for the taste of the lady-friend. I mean, there is no use in doing Käsespätzle, when she hates them or (epic fail) doing a Northern Eintopf when she is vegetarian.
@tropic edge basically what 1111 said above. if for some reason u cant find the modulhandbuch. heres one from DUE. jus click on the course, and u will get a list of all the books that the professors recommend
Alrighty that will be pretty good reading till university starts
@fair talon Regarding the fact that your friend is younger, I changed the menu a bit:
Starter: Greek Salad as shown
Fisch:
Forelle, im Backofen gegart, mit Dillsauce und Meerettichsahne
In Butter geschwenkte Kartoffeln mit Petersilie
Fleisch: depends on whether you want to have something with chicken, beef or pig
Vegetarisch:
"Himmel und Erde" though it is very basic
Dessert:
Verschleiertes Bauernmädchen
https://www.pflanzenlust.de/das-verschleierte-bauernmadchen/
Kochen mit Brot, das ist eine nahrhafte Sache. Aber es muss auch schmecken. Hier ein Beispiel vom gestrigen Küchen-Rendezvous "Brot trifft Klee". Zum Dessert gab es eine traditionelle Speise aus dem Norden. Nennt sich Verschleiertes Bauernmädchen. Warum? Vielleicht, weil ob...
Aight, thats a lot of reccomendations 😅 I'll start with the Käsespätzle and work my way down lol
Thanks a bunch!
(Also, unrelated question: Will Lidl be closed for All Saints Day tomorrow? I dont have class that day and I'm not sure if its because its a holiday)
@tropic edge yep. u will find most, if not all books on either libgen, bookfi
and if both dont work, then try doing a google search
Yeah, I'll definitely be able to find course material if I look long enough online
Thanks Monk
@jaunty oasis is usually the one who orchestrates that. He really enjoys it and I play whenever I could, while he's on.
@fair talon normally Lidl should not be closed. But you can surely find it out on lidl.de when you search for "meine Filiale".
Ugh, Lidl and Edeka are both closed 😭
what, it's not even 18:00
isnt NRW protestant?
eher nich
it has a rather high concentration of catholics afaik
Try finding a cinema with original audio viewings lol, that's a bigger nightmare
I find german a beautiful language. Except when its dubbed over English. Instant cringe
Thankfully, Hamburg has at least one good original audio theater (Savoy is best-voy)
Everywhere else is a nightmare of horribly outdated websites and design 😂
do german kids translate "trick or treat?" or do they say it in english?
also they rang a few minutes ago but i couldn't answer i feel so bad 😩
"süßes oder saures"
haha nice
You can also say "Süßes sonst gibt's Saures" which ig was the original phrase
note: here in switzerland they actually say it in standard german
for whatever reason
just goes to show how imported the whole thing is I guess
it's imported in germany too, as well as in italy. It's just that there it has been translated ¯_(ツ)_/¯
The "ween" in "halloween" was oroginally "wien". Which suggests that halloween originated in Austria.
that's bs 👀
Of course. Everyone knows the "ween" came from "Wienerschnitzel". As in "Hallo Wienerschnitzel c:"
Has anyone here lived in Freiburg?
which one? (in my case the answer is no but there’s at least one in germany and one in switzerland)
hello can anyone walk me through to help me find some unis in graz in österreich please ?
for germany i can do that easily with a website that can show me everything
why is that not possible for Austria?
last time i checked, unis in austria had webpages
but there's no one website that shows you all the unis in austria
or if there is one, they don't know it
https://www.studium.at/hochschulen/universitaeten/graz
in that case:
@warm flume
for germany, i could use a website that shows me the requirements and everything i needed
oh thanks
this is jus a list of the universities in Graz
the requirements u shud find on the unis page?
if u havnt done ur education in a European country, i dont think that stuff will mean a lot to u tho
no i'm from morocco, so far only have the B1 certificat
u shud look at the equivalent of ur studies in the austrian study system. and that only a government website can give
i guess u were asking for a DAAD equivalent of austria
like how daad shows the requirements for foreign students
i have a bachelor, and i plan to head for a master
i guess it's the same as in germany
for a master’s it’s usually easier to get in as an international student than for a bachelor’s because they usually no longer have as strict requirements on language and previous schooling, you just need a good bachelor’s degree
at least often that’s how it goes
@tight kelp just for general things about Austria:
Austria hat a rather good website for official things to search for, no matter if is about universities, local authorities, opening times, getting a visa/passport etc.
Try help.gv.at
for example a list of the universities:
https://www.oesterreich.gv.at/themen/bildung_und_neue_medien/universitaet/Seite.160302.html
i wasn't the one insterested in it, it was @warm flume
@tight kelp I am sorry, my mistake.
npnp
At the Lidl just now-
Cashier: "Moinsen. Eins Euro neunundfunfzig bitte."
Me: "Zwei Euro sechzig."
Cashier: "Did you want the receipt?"
Ouch
lol
btw from my point of view it's kind of absurd that they have to ask you if you want it in order to emit a receipt, instead of doing it by default
i can imagine shops like döner restaurants producing something quite close to 0€ as taxes for the state for that reason
They print it by default, they just ask if you or they should be the one to toss it in the Restmüll 👀
Moinsen?
Hamburg best state
Oh great, add that on a list of a billion things I'll never learn xD
Grüß Gott*
Other fun variations include "Moin" and "Moin moin"
Both of which make you sound like the seagulls from Finding Nemo
Moin moin is familiar buuuuut idk where i've heard it
A Hamburger, most likely 👀
mmmm hamburger....
i prefer the one with beef and salad but ok. 🙂
German civil administration makes me hungry
@tight kelp the law says they have to hand out a receipt to you. As they know many people do not want to keep it, they ask you if you want to have it for yourself or if they can throw it away for you.
If you stuck to the law, they should not ask you, they should give it to you. That is the law.
The customer has to get the receipt, it is his decision what to do with it.
"Moin Moin" is typically Hamburg and especially said on the coast in general and in areas where "Plattdeutsch" is spoken.
Isnt Hamburg generally Hochdeutsch though?
Oh, and if you really want to see something of Austrian administration language, check out the
Registrierkassenverordnung
and the Registrierkassensicherheitsverordnung
"15. Was versteht man unter Belegerteilungspflicht?
Für jeden Unternehmer besteht ab 1.1.2016 die Verpflichtung bei Barzahlungen einen Beleg zu erstellen und dem Käufer auszuhändigen. Dieser muss den Beleg entgegennehmen und bis außerhalb der Geschäftsräumlichkeiten für Zwecke der Kontrolle durch die Finanzverwaltung mitnehmen. Jeder Beleg muss folgenden Inhalt aufweisen:"
https://www.wko.at/service/steuern/Registrierkassenpflicht---FAQ.html
Antworten auf häufige Rechtsfragen
Yeah, I think we were just pointing out it can be kind of annoying. I think California has a similar law for receipts and whatnot.
Yes, it is annoying. I once bought one pepper bell für 0,49 Cent and got the receipt.
FWP
guys can anyone walk me through about this DSH and whatever the other things are called ? i'm kinda confused xD
is it the same for österreich ? i'm from morocco, with a management bachelor, found a uni but i heard that i should be aware of some DSH or smthing just like in germany
found this uni
DSH= langguage exam
also i found this : https://studienabteilung.uni-graz.at/de/studieren/einschreibung-zulassung/mitbelegung/ and my eyes are about to go blind i wish the website had a dark mode
this goes for every master speciality sorry btw and thanks
!!!!! thanks a lot !!!!!
Hello Guys, i hope you all had a great day. I have a problem concerning my previous landlord. To summurize, he forced us (my friends and me (8 people))to search for new tenants for his house before we leave even though we already told him 3 months ago that we were about to leave. Keep in mind this was a very old house with its own sets of problems... SO when we left he told us that the new tenants coming in were complaining about problems in the house, problems ranging for dirtyness to some small burnt marks on the floor. After much debate it was aggreed that the new tenants will not pay the kaution and that the landlord will keep our part of the kaution(3800Euros), we did that just to keep moving on due to our universities starting. Now after roughly 2 months he told me that we need to pay one more months of rent because the other people doesnt want to pay him. When i asked for the reason he gave me the same reason as the first time. What should i do? He already took 3800Euro with us and he is searcing for 2000 more... THe new tenants already signed the continuation contract, which means that took the responsibility of it....
please help
Is it legal what he is doing? i have a copy of the contract if anyone wants it
anyone got any idea about what i should do?
do u have a proof that he kept the kaution? and do u have any proof that ur contract with him has ended?
and i dont think u shud even reply to him
you are not living in that house anymore and he has new tenants. no relation. ignore him.
keeping a part of the kaution to fix those things is completely fair. that’s literally what it’s for. the rest… doesn’t sound exactly legal, no
@broken remnant try to go to a cheap legal counseling for a first recommendation.
It is alright to keep a part of the caution when damages appear. But all in all I think it is not fair what he is doing.
Btw: one recommendation for the future:
a) get everything in written form
b) do not ask after a couple of time, ask immediately
c) take photos and get witnesses, even this sometimes costs money
You can send me a copy of the contract and tell me where you live, I might be of any help
(I am no lawyer!)
oh - and the next time you move out, take photos etc. together with the witness
Arrange for what will be done (like "the expert estimates the damage will be about...") and get signatures.
Do not rely on verbal arrangements and get some proof whereever possible.
do you have proof for the tenants new contract?
do you have some proof for the damages apart from his ideas? I mean, was there anyone who witnessed the damages?
Did the continuation contract state when you will be out of liability?
And again:
do not get too easily into contracts, search for legal counseling at first and whenever you are getting into trouble. It will save you time, nerves and money!
Has anyone here lived in the US originally(was native and moved to Germany) and could explain what's it like. I'm planning to live in Germany a couple months after I get my masters in computer science. Is it hard getting computer science jobs in Germany?
I can't really speak to what the computer science world is in Germany, I can only attest to the fact that I'm a native-born American and moved to Germany for a year.
My experience in Germany was very positive. I lived in Dresden, which had a very interesting history and really cool people. The food there was great and I got to learn a lot more German living there. You'll find that since it has so many Western amenities, you will rarely miss much in America.
I do want to clarify that I already had at least survival German by the time I moved there and had conversational ability by the time I left. This really opened up my ability to live freely there and really experience a lot that others wouldn't. Learning the language in any country goes a long away...this has become exceptionally true now that I live in China. That said, you can get by fine with English, as many people there speak English, and tech sectors definitely come with many as well.
My city had a massive fabrication plant for computer semiconductors. They may have some computer science jobs there, but can't really say much more than that. I believe they were called Global Foundries
Did you have any other more specific questions?
Okay, here is the contract
Wat, discord rip
And there was no witness whatsoever about the damages
And also, i've never met the landlord in person
The full 1 year i lived there, never once saw him
P.s the owner already tried to steal money from us last year, by saying that we should pay the wastewater management, waste management and all
I just ignored it, then he never mentioned it again
?
Yea
Probably the same one
It is sonneneck 4
But we've already searched for new tenants
They are already living there
Yea something like that happened 2 years ago too. I think the owner or the landlord just makes up bs and rips people off
So what should i do?
I don't think he can legally ask you for a month's rent after you cancelled on time, and if new tenants are already living there
If you can, try contacting one of the current tenants and see if his story is true
Hes saying the current tenants don't want to pay the rent. He should be dealing with them then not with u
Exactly
Moreover, he usually send an email for these stuff, this is the first time he called and asked
Do you know or are in contact with any of the current tenants?
One of my friends is going to contact one of them soon
Ok make sure that happens
Ask whether they paid the Kaution
And whether they didn't want to pay the rent either
If his story doesn't match up to theirs, you need to seek legal counsel and report him
He's done it before and he'll keep doing it again
What about the Kaution?
Ok then if he's just asking for the rent from u, just ignore him. (Maybe not the best advice tho, u should still check with a legal counsel)
I think according to this you're still bound to the contract for the 3 months after u first cancel it
If I understood that correctly
But the people after me already stayed there for 1 months already paid their forst rent and all
Idk if I'm correct here, but according the 2nd part of section 9, you're stil bound to the contract until the end of the 3rd month since you cancelled. So if he asked you for the rent after 2 months, I think he can legally do that 🤔
I understood that another way: we should let him know 3 months before we leave otherwise we have to pay 3 more month
Need a Muttersprachler for that cause I'm not sure