Minimum height to be formidable if you bulk up?

[indigo summit]

Take a pit bull or a doberman wherever you go and you'll be intimidating at any size

[cobalt mesa]

cuz someone outsmarted me so now I wanna beat them up

[cobalt mesa]

cant trust dogs to attack who I want them to attack

[indigo summit]

Yea you can

[cobalt mesa]

hmm i might

but still im curious about the question, someone answer

[fiery fox]

5'6.9"

[cobalt mesa]

ugh

knew someone would say this

Ill answer my own question then.. I think it is 5'10.5 for me personally

[azure snow]

Bruh, if they outsmarted you, you outsmart them. You don't beat them up?

[cobalt mesa]

yeah i get it but like its not outsmarting, its more emotional (they know my triggers and they trigger them on purpose)

I know their triggers too but why play their game, its endless and toxic

[azure snow]

Then cut them off

And tell them this in no uncertain terms

[cobalt mesa]

Of course! But theyre family

Im not in the position to be cutting them out, kinda forced to meet them

[azure snow]

Get distant. Say work, study, etc

That way you aren't burning any bridges

But those are acceptable excuses for even a toxic person usually

[cobalt mesa]

Yup Ill try this, just want to have a backup plan incase Im ever forced interact with them again (I cant take even 5 seconds of it lol)

[azure snow]

Fake a phone call.

[cobalt mesa]

hahaha, theyll say shit like wtf do you have to do, tum parhtay bhi ho?? bahaanay mut karo

[azure snow]

"Haan karna padhta hai, it's a part of life. I'll text you when I'm free? Thanks for being so understanding!"

Don't react. Your reaction eggs them on

[cobalt mesa]

yeah plan is to leave the house whenever they visit, but my dad forces me to interact with them, sometimes its hard to resist everything. So need a backup

[azure snow]

Don't give them that ammo

[azure snow]

Go to your room or get outside coz you have to buy somethinf

See

[cobalt mesa]

Lol

[azure snow]

The point is

You need to learn to stand up for yourself

Even if it's your dad

[cobalt mesa]

I guess its the opposite, I dont generally react, and that keeps them going

[azure snow]

It's an important life skill

[cobalt mesa]

when I lash out at them they usually shut up for a while

[azure snow]

Oh wow

Fr

They like to make you toxic?

That's messed up

[cobalt mesa]

that is true

[azure snow]

Are they significantly older than you?

[cobalt mesa]

they like to get an emotional reaction out of me I suppose, cuz they don't like being the 'triggered' ones

and Im generally not reactive

[cobalt mesa]

no they're younger

[azure snow]

Snap at them - aap aise kyun bolte ho? Aapko pata hai mujhe ye pasand nahi, toh kyun karte ho? Main toh "x" ke baare mein nahi bolta aapko?

[azure snow]

Then what's holding you back?

Kick that pidgin on his rear

The audacity

Drop kick him

[cobalt mesa]

yup, this is simple but I feel like it would work

[azure snow]

Pull the "respect your elders" card

[cobalt mesa]

lmfao

[azure snow]

And do it in front of your dad

[cobalt mesa]

that 180

when I told you theyre younger

[azure snow]

Yeah young people are shitheads

[cobalt mesa]

theyre taller

and bigger

[azure snow]

So, the older people thing is a lil sensitive because your parents may have to rely on them

[cobalt mesa]

yup boys especially

[azure snow]

But if they're younger, they're essentially being a dicj

[cobalt mesa]

oh hell naw, but theyre rly close family ffs

[azure snow]

Use mc bc to drive home the point

[cobalt mesa]

dad loves them too much

[azure snow]

Abbe lodu terko pata hai mujhe ye pasand nahi

[cobalt mesa]

hahahaha

[azure snow]

Kyun kit kit karta hai?

[cobalt mesa]

yk what

this is simple af

but it just might work with them

[azure snow]

Do it

And do it in front of family

Public humiliation works with dicks like him

[cobalt mesa]

ugh its gonna be embarrassing

but it will work

[azure snow]

Do this

[cobalt mesa]

thanks, that was surprisingly helpful

[cobalt mesa]

thats gay

[azure snow]

That's edgy