#I'd just say to put yourself in the
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I would appreciate that
I would LOVE to get a minimal attention from anybody
but again... its probably just me
Nah dude, just stop. You're not really helping your case.
Attention is one thing, the wrong kind of attention is another.
I just wanted to understand this
You would love the fact that you can't just spend a minute, or show your identity without someone trying to hit you up over it? I can imagine it, it's exhausting.
already said "I'm out"
granted I'm no social butterfly or anything
You sound more creepy and don't use autism as an excuse. I'm diagnosed autistic and I recognize social etiquette even if I can't understand some
okay, don't want to get a second strike, because the max is probably 3, and I like this channel btw, even if it doesn't seems to be that
I don't understand, I just accept the stuff
I don't think you're doing anything particularly wrong now. Trying to understand what you did wrong is surely fine?
I just accept this thing, but as I said, I don't understand
Yeah I'd say it's laudable even.
do you know how many times I did the same thing?
and never ever received a strike for that
or a ban
so I had no idea its wrong or anything
It depends where you do it.
Different places have different social etiquette and different rules.
I mean I REALLY felt like a creep, when I started to talk with a random stranger on a bus
but she became my only ever girlfriend
and I was afraid of the situation
It depends what you say and how you act too. You can totally talk to a random stranger on a bus. Ask them how they're doing or whatever. Just don't be overbearing or persist if they don't reply.
Look, I spoke to Snaps and she was really uncomfortable, that's why she left. Not saying you were intentionally creepy or anything. But that's why she left.
wow, okay
I mean I'm Hungarian, its like a generic stuff in there
maybe its a creepy stuff in other parts of the world
sorry for that
doesnt matter here
What you did isn't a crime, but in this instance, she has the right to view this place as a safe space
women have enough problems coming from men on the internet, keep this place safe
okay
thisss exactly
please send her that I'm sorry, and I won't bother her again
It depends on a situation, in some casual situations when the parties involved mostly know each other it can probably be fine
In a (semi) professional environment, which I would say this is, where people aren't there for "compliments" is when it gets innapropriate
okay, okay
She'll be back. Just needs a break
No need to be that extreme.
well, I'm also sensitive, so it is what it is from now
It's cool, man. You've learned, hopefully. Just don't do it again.
You already know what you did wrong.
You don't have to do anything radical like that. Just understand what it can be like for that other person.