#I'd just say to put yourself in the

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stark hound
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I would appreciate that

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I would LOVE to get a minimal attention from anybody

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but again... its probably just me

sand vigil
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Nah dude, just stop. You're not really helping your case.

cold cloak
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Attention is one thing, the wrong kind of attention is another.

stark hound
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I just wanted to understand this

lone halo
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You would love the fact that you can't just spend a minute, or show your identity without someone trying to hit you up over it? I can imagine it, it's exhausting.

stark hound
lone halo
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granted I'm no social butterfly or anything

sand vigil
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You sound more creepy and don't use autism as an excuse. I'm diagnosed autistic and I recognize social etiquette even if I can't understand some

stark hound
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okay, don't want to get a second strike, because the max is probably 3, and I like this channel btw, even if it doesn't seems to be that

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I don't understand, I just accept the stuff

cold cloak
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I don't think you're doing anything particularly wrong now. Trying to understand what you did wrong is surely fine?

stark hound
half sundial
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Yeah I'd say it's laudable even.

stark hound
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do you know how many times I did the same thing?

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and never ever received a strike for that

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or a ban

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so I had no idea its wrong or anything

cold cloak
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It depends where you do it.

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Different places have different social etiquette and different rules.

stark hound
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I mean I REALLY felt like a creep, when I started to talk with a random stranger on a bus

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but she became my only ever girlfriend

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and I was afraid of the situation

cold cloak
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It depends what you say and how you act too. You can totally talk to a random stranger on a bus. Ask them how they're doing or whatever. Just don't be overbearing or persist if they don't reply.

sand vigil
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Look, I spoke to Snaps and she was really uncomfortable, that's why she left. Not saying you were intentionally creepy or anything. But that's why she left.

stark hound
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wow, okay

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I mean I'm Hungarian, its like a generic stuff in there

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maybe its a creepy stuff in other parts of the world

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sorry for that

agile quarry
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doesnt matter here

sand vigil
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What you did isn't a crime, but in this instance, she has the right to view this place as a safe space

stark hound
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didn't mean to hurt Snaps at all

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yep, its true

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if she felt offended, then sorry

agile quarry
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women have enough problems coming from men on the internet, keep this place safe

stark hound
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okay

sand vigil
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thisss exactly

stark hound
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please send her that I'm sorry, and I won't bother her again

near geyser
stark hound
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okay, okay

sand vigil
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She'll be back. Just needs a break

stark hound
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cool

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I won't even write to the channel at all, if she will be here

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to be sure

sand vigil
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No need to be that extreme.

stark hound
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well, I'm also sensitive, so it is what it is from now

cold cloak
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It's cool, man. You've learned, hopefully. Just don't do it again.

sand vigil
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You already know what you did wrong.

lone halo
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You don't have to do anything radical like that. Just understand what it can be like for that other person.

stark hound
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no, I'm thinking of leaving the whole channel

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because apparently there's a social difference

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thanks for clarifying things to me