#Need mental health advice :/ I’m at 50% point to going back and am desperate any will help

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surreal briar
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If anyone wants to share advice and does Ty

vale yew
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What's going on brother?

low panther
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lucid lily
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do you want to share your situation?

surreal briar
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ive recently been struggling to keep control with ppl making fun of me sometimes in games of claim to heroism due to skill issues there are also players in tna who completely clown on me

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also im kinda hurt by the fact that I had to contact a mod bc first post on this were ppl just trying to get me to kill myself :/ im doing a bit better now hopefully I can continue

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tho ty for caring

earnest wharf
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if you ever need to talk but feel concerned about it being out in public feel free to dm me, always open to chat

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except when im asleep which will be now zz but if anything i can respond when i wake up

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glad you're doing a bit better now though

low panther
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as for TNA well

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You have a guild! Ask your guild mates they will likely be more understanding

low panther
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if it’s about the guild bank stuff well.. you know best about what not to do by this point

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well my dms are open ig I can talk

vale yew
# surreal briar ive recently been struggling to keep control with ppl making fun of me sometimes...

Completely understandable man, I have the same thing only in real life. The thing is that those people who make fun of you probably don't mean it or are just complete losers who suck at life so they need someone to take out their frustrations on. Yes it is fucked. You can ask "friends" who make fun of you why they do it, this is almost impossible I know but man has it saved me. And about the people in TNA who bully you, thing I did was to just make them even more angry. And when they do get more angry then you know that those people are just weak minded simple people who suck in general.

low panther
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Honestly don’t waste time making them more angry

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you have better things to do with life

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Just keep a list of ppl who aren’t nice in TNA and leave if you get them in pfinder

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And asking ppl in guilds or other friends to TNA is even better

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irl or Wynn if u surround urself with cool ppl the annoying people can never get to ya

vale yew
low panther
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ic

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same for me

obsidian frigate
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@surreal briar

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collect screenshots and videos of people doing this fucked up shit to you

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If you feel comfortable share them with me I would love to fight this battle with you

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Nobody deserves to go through this and most importantly

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I CANT stress this enough

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You are worth more than what ANYBODY says about you

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If you feel horrible and depressed maybe and still be able to wake up to a new day

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You are stronger than alot of people statistically too

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and any new day is a new start for you, at least I can advice you to feel like that

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Report the people making you feel this way

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Because you are worth more than those people

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Making fun of you to hide their own issues

glad grail
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Guys i'm dating a girl that has been through trauma like rape and i'm kinda worried for my life

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but we stay Gym💪

surreal briar
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;/ I wish you both the best of luck

vale yew
glad grail
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she might kill me

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she sometimes has to hit people to get anger out

low panther
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wants to*

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hitting ppl is still her choice

glad grail
low panther
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being through shit isn’t an excuse to hurt ppl

vale yew
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trueeee

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all excuses

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problem is that most people only come up with excuses these days rather than wanting to fix themselves

low panther
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fixing stuff takes effort sadly

glad grail
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I love how two wynncraft players know how to fix mental health when they have no clue what is going on, name one traumatic experience that has happend to yourself.

fading socket
glad grail
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low panther
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i just say maybe don’t think it’s ok to be abused

glad grail
low panther
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you get the point

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just remember it’s not ok to get hit like

glad grail
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You think woman rly have a chance at doing any sort of damage to me? I box and that dosen’t even hurt

low panther
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u said u were worried for your life so

vale yew
obsidian frigate
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@glad grail You shit on the dudes helping you saying "wynn players" but the problem is youre looking at this from a horrible perspective

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I've had a girlfriend whos been through immense trauma and no its not an excuse to deliberately hurt anyone

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You get professional help learn ways to control yourself or channel anger to other things

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"I'm a boxer I can take hits" is the most disconnected thing you can say

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Yes I'm sure it wouldn't hurt but thats not the point. The point is she now knows and is aware

glad grail
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I never asked for help

obsidian frigate
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that she can take her anger out on you phsically

glad grail
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Please stop embarrasing yourself

obsidian frigate
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Whether you did or not the guys telling you stuff werent really on a wrong note

glad grail
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I appreciate you tryna help but i just find it annoying

obsidian frigate
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its abuse in every book and angle

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If you say so I'll shut up

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But I hope you find your way

glad grail
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Its a personal thing which i don’t wanna discuss with people i don’t know

obsidian frigate
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You did make that thing public and online tho

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Weird set of activities but I still understand

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Take care dawg

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cyan hedge
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Just a small little mistake and you're done

surreal briar
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lmao 3 players die I get bullied 24/7 over 1 failed 15m greg solo

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they suck

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pov: you buy a cata to give to tna players who make it up to their own standards and explain it to every party for 5 years and it never gets given away

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well thats 30 stx ill never get back