Hi guys my name is jewel im 15 and I need real human advice because chatgpt cant help me and I cant affird therapy. Basically ive been talking to this boy i dont wanna give away his real name because who knows maybe someone here knows him but lets call him John
We have been talking stage for exactly 2 weeks now and yesterday we hung out for the first time and I really really really like how hes respectful and treats me so nicely because every other boy ive dated treated me like shit or wanted to fuck only BUT john actually respects me and is super nice to me. The only problem is I see him more as a friend rather than a boyfriend but I still also really would like to date him because hes so respectful but still we havent had any romantic talk because i feel like i dont see him that way AND i dont know if he sees me as a girlfriend either like all we do is talk casually and we never romantically talk except one night we were both drunk and on facetime and then we were talking to eachother romantically and i liked it like he called me beautiful and hot and i called him handsome but idk!! I really am debating on whether we should date or not and idk if i should have another hangout with him and Idk how to BREAK that talking stage into more romance and dating because i feel like hes too shy to do it and so am I and i cant read his mind so idk if he likes me romantically or not