#🎮│farming-activity-2
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i got this very interesting situation going on, that i dont really have anyone to ask opinion from, cus i dont really wanna go talk to a mutual friend
I’m a good listener if you need an ear.
@crude forge 
Thanks love
Visited you too
Sure
So my future mother-in-law texted me, if im gonna attend the party. I got no idea about any party, so yea. I found out from his familys group chat that it is probably in the next few days, at 3pm, but thats all. I got no invite and my bf has never even mentioned about any party. I texted my partner, but he hasnt answered yet. Im considering if i should text his mom about it
Future mother in law. Are you engaged?
I’d just reply “whose party?”
If engaged, ask mom. If just bf, I'd ask bf
No, but we have been dating pretty long (with our parents standards)
Do yall know each other very well (parents and you)
Or “I don’t know anything about a party.” 🤷🏼♀️
Its in a group chat so i dont really wanna do that
not really
If I was in your shoes, I'd ask your bf
Because I feel like if you aren't too close with the fam yet, the bf should help navigate the situations
I've only been in one relationship which lasted 7 yrs so take it for what you will
the problem is, that he should be the one who informs me about this kind of things beforehand. Its his faw thing to invite me to parties and stuff the day before, and i dont like it at all
Just ask your fiancee. If you are marrying this person, you should be able to ask him.
I think that's something you should bring up with him
it is, i agree
Tell him that. If it keeps up, you’ll start to get resentful.
the relationship isnt in a strong point rn, and i really have many things i need to tell him, that being one of them
"Hey I heard about this party. I haven't heard of any from you. Can you provide context? I would prefer for you to let me know in advance."
You might want to consider counselling for yourself and as a couple if you are having difficulties—especially in communication.
For me, I like having a united front with my partner
And that anything that is said is shared
Just remember that one of the most important things you need to maintain a healthy relationship has and will always be healthy communication (keyword being healthy)
And when I hear about a party idk about from his fam
I'd be like, this dude
Why isn't he talking to me

And how your partner reacts to your concerns is important as well, so make sure to take notice of how he responds to you
this is so real
We are waiting for his response. I did tell him that i would like the information beforehand
daamn i wish i had it that way. Like this is the second time this has happened. Last time he didnt inform me at all, his sister did

When you mentioned to him last time about how he should have told you first, or not telling you last minute, how did he respond?
Did he say he would try and do better next time or?
I also hate it when guys tell their fam, "oh yea totally on board with coming over but let me check with my gf"
They basically alrdy said yes
And yall dont go
Then it's all on the girl

Better way "oh we'll check out calendars and let you know"
I mean I wouldnt be happy if someone I dated had said that either, but if someone says that it's my fault, then im not happy with them
Because now, the fam is like, ugh this girl doesn't wanna visit us
The partner agrees to the plan without asking, thats on them, not the person they havent checked with
so he was not able to attend that one, so i just told him i wasnt going either
Yeah that sounds like a toxic family to be honest with ya
Ahh right
Yea fr
i kinda wish i did tell him that i would like the information before
So they invited you knowing he isn't attending?
Or were they hoping you'd say yes and force him to come?
Id really hope that most families, especially with like, the world being slightly more understanding of LGBTQ and* disabilities, would understand the fact that not everyone feels comfortable being invited to gatherings, and that if someone doesnt go, its probably for a valid reason
He was in the army at that time, so they invited me
Unfortunately that's not always the case 😭
Ahh ic
Well I know that yeah
But it's definitely becoming more common
Yea fr
but what i still dont know is what to answer his mom in the group chat
More common than before for sure
Id be honest "I wasn't told there was a party to attend, but I appreciate the offer"
Oh sorry didnt hear about the party earlier and I have some previous engagements. Next time!
Whatever you say, just dont lie to them by saying you knew about it or etc
Or simple answer "Ill talk to XYZ about it" (partners name)
This will give context and also gives u a way to subtly push for notification earlier
But what if she does want to go?
I thought she didnt want to?
Yea, i dont really want to lie about it. He still lives with his parents so its not like we would plan to go together. Thats why im considering texting his mom, because i rather not take that all out in the group chat
That was another one
Ohh
First time this chat is active
i would love to attend, if i just knew when it is
I thought she didnt wanna go lol
Honestly please yeah just text his mum
Hello
active for all the most unexpected reasons lmfao
this xD
Definitely just message her privately then
Yea based on the context
Sounds right
But I would take it up with your bf on the communication part
That's on him
I can see that
yea i agree
i can 100% say that your best option is to message the mum privately and explain you didnt know there was a party but youd love to go
He needs to better communicate
This is my first time texting here
agreeddddd
This is very true
Ooh well welcome to the drama
You cant keep healthy relationships with people who dont communicate
Wanna know something I'm dealing with?
Id understand if he was dealing with mental health or stress, etc, but if this is a regular thing its unfair to you
He has gotten better at it, after he came to pick me up from work, after i had already left, cus i didnt know he was coming to pick me up
I saw a hornet trying to get into my living room through the vents yesterday
nooooo
damn
Im like here, please have my bedroom
Im having an exterminator come in
Today

I had 3 hours of sleep
Fr
I tried reopening my bedroom door
Couldn't see the hornet
As long as hes trying to get better at it, but if he stops or shows any resentment towards the communication thing, then you really need to consider like couples therapy or something because unhealthy relationships help no one
REBTHI4OIT3PW4JRE ewww cry
I once had a spider crawl over my face when i was younger, didnt go in my room for the entire day until it was killed around 9pm ish
Yea. Im making a list about things i would like to talk about with him
Waiting for the peeps to come check it out
Aw well I'm really proud of you for doing that
Lmfaooo i get that
Thank you
That's great
And thank you all for the advice and opinions, im very thankful about all of them
I did just text his mom, now i gotta get some food
My piece of advice is that sometimes it's not about what's being said but how it's being said

yumm jealous even though i just ate
Back to our boring, meaningless, day long grinding with barely any sleep inbetween 
oohh
So I dont want the delivery person to fall
Makes sense
But I also dont wanna go in that direction
Could you order and pick it up outside?
ahh
aww
I was really upset at my coworker today
I went into the office
Because it was someone's bday so I wanted to make sure I am there
(did you get cake?)
But it was later in afternoon and I needed to be home to take care of the hornet situation
I diddd
what kind of cake was it?
It was ice cream cake
OOhh please i want some
Travel back in time and hand me the cake
I was annoyed when she was like "you have a cheap place and you are putting urself in these situations"
Im like girl, u had a gas leak recently at ur place
What's with the attitude
danggg
Come come
Lmao
Yeaa sometimes it's hard dealing with people
And hornets can happen to any home that has nothing to do with price point of a place
🗿
Ive never been more glad to live in england and in a place that doesnt deal with many insects
Fr
I live in a paradise for mosquitoes, but thankfully i live the centre of the town, that has basically none
Had a bee in the house the other day, but it was more like saving it from my cat than trying to save myself from it
Aww
this is pretty roughly tranlated, but the answer went something like this: "oh, (my partners name) has not referred the information. I did not send him the actual invite tho".
thats probably cus he lives with his parents still. Then she sent me the invite. They wanted the information if i would like to attend yesterday, so i assume thats why she asked me
Has not referred the info?
Oh she wanted her son to let you know but he didnt?
His excuse for not doing that is that is that he didnt know what day they would be
He said he did ask but forgot it again...
Tell him chiha wants to slap him
i will
Its at a point where excuses arent valid reasons as to why he didnt tell you
He shouldve done better
Weaponized incompetence
Do better when
It clearly sounds like
He has done this more than once
And im sure you've alrdy mentioned hey not cool
Kinda way
and its definitely not fair when someone does that a lot and promises change but doesnt actually change
Yuh
As meelie said before, please check how he reacts
And the follow through
If he is not doing something as simple as this
How can he be a good partner
I kinda assume, that his mom said something to him, as he answered right after his mom
it seems he does
Sounds like he needa grow up
Wait im confused, he didnt answer you for ages, but the second his mum tells him off, hes straight into your dms?
People say army makes boys grow to be a man, but i dont think it worked that way in his case
😂
yes
danggggg
okay, i can make this worse
I dont like disliking other peoples partners but boi 😂
We here
he doesnt brush his teeth. or at least thats kinda the conclusion ive come to
Spill da tea sis
Y u dating him again?
Do u really wanna kiss that mouth
Case closed
Is he depressed or unhygienic (I know you can be both but yk)
i kinda think both
Im single, cant wait to get a partner man, life is boringggggggggggggggg
Ooh okay difficult then
Frfr
Ok is he willing to go to therapy
Because Im like heavily unhygienic but I try, i just lack energy and motivation, because of depression, but just generally being unhygienic with no reason behind it is iffy
Or do some things to help address his issues
good question
This feels like a reality version of a sitcom type situation
i dont think he is
Because i can understand if he is depressed but I need a partner who is willing to work on his issues
ah see theres the problem
Single as a pringleee
i hate therapy, but id try it (and hate it the entire time)
Readyyy to mingleee
How long have you guys been dating for though
Plenty of fish~
coming to 2 years soon
damn
this
Remember that just because youve committed such a long time to a relationship doesnt mean you should keep it, just pointing that out
But also in my opinion, just because two random people think you should leave your partner also doesnt mean you should 😭 lmfao
Finally hv time to crochet~
He is a nice guy, but i think im starting to see all the yellow and red flags
Finally have time to farm merge valley~
Agreed
Im half joking
If those flags start to get bigger, dont force yourself to stay in it
well ngl ive been thinking about if this is not gonna last very long, if we dont get the issues fixed
im like 80% sure that if that partner is not prepared to care and consider your feelings, work on himself or even consider the option of therapy, then hes wasting your time
yes
And willingness to address and fix the issues
Are the keys to keep this relationship alive
If not, it ded
Like our soul
When we accidentally merge 3 instead of 5
😂
LOL 😭
soul? I tought i sold mine to the devil long time ago
Dont stay with a 3, find your merge 5
If they arent the double lucky merge 5, whats the point fr
Yeah i think they should update the tutorial to introduce the shovel and also tells you to merge 5
The game is supposed to be casual, its getting stressful with the new update
😂
Frfr
Idk how the phrase goes
Something about kissing a lot of frogs
To find the one
😂
okay, so im making a list of things to talk about with him. i am gonna talk about them with him and then decide after if it is worth to give him one more change
Thats a great idea
However I do recommend giving yourself time to think everything over, I dont know how your brain works, but my brain is easily influenced and after time I often realize i didnt want to do or agree with specific things or people, so really think about what you want, not what other people think you need
the list currently includes:
-basic hygiene
-Information and communication
-me not being his mom
Valid
I shouldnt have laughed at that last one, I feel so bad thats even on the list
is he neurodivergent?
If he cares, he'll try
For all we know, this is him trying and its not enough
Like i used to make sure he has eaten, made sure he ate when he was with me and stuff. After i while i basically gave up on that, i just offer him food, and if he says no its a no
Yikes
he has no diagnosis, but he might have adhd
You’re not “taking it out” by asking in the group chat. If That’s where she messaged you, that’s where you reply. If she texted you solo, reply to the text.
I’m not sure why you are struggling with this, tbh.
I think its a struggle because she shouldnt have to hear anything from family when its so close to the day, it should be from the partner who was actually told to tell her beforehand
I dont really want to take all the drama out in front of his sisters, as they are so young
Oh damn how young
the youngest is 13 i think
When im confronting someone, I like doing things in private
Ahh right
Saying “i have heard nothing about a party” is by no means drama.
Its always better to privately message someone, I only take things out in group chats when i feel personally attacked by everyone in there (im getting a bipolar assessment soon)
Well of course, but this shouldn’t be considered confrontational.
I think the main thing to consider is that it isnt the first time hes done that
Depends on who is reading and how they r reading it
But I agree
I wouldn't find it confrontational
But not everyone would think so
So even just a simple "I hadnt heard about it" based on what she said in private, the mums response would be "I told him to tell you" and it would be somewhat escalated
Its more about the fact that he has done this more than once and the family is probably aware that he has done that, and the fact he once again couldnt just keep a simple promise and inform her of the event, people would start to create their own opinions of how competent he is and even if that doesnt start drama, it might not be fair to him (even if hes at fault)
Seeing everyones different opinions and behaviours, this is why I like psychology, lmao
If mom texted outside the group chat, yes, private chat with her. If she asked in the group chat, it’s out there for everyone anyway.
There is nothing confrontational here.
She doesn’t even know if her fiancee knew about a party.
There is a bigger issue here it seems—fear of communication.
In a way it's to protect the partner and controlling the situation so that it doesn't go beyond what it should be
could just be miscom lmao
She told the partner to tell her about he party, thats why they kept it private (because they already had the chat in dms so none of this even really matters now anyways)
This
so now he is giving me exuses, but he is taking the blame himself. I think he is waiting for the "it happens, its okay"
Dont want a whole back and forth with an entire group
Weaponized incompetence
Kind of like "Its my fault (blah blah) )i shouldve told you, but... [excuse]" ?
I would say if there is a host to the party - ask the host
that would be his mom
Yep
Yea, kinda
Im thinking that i might not go, because i think i wont be part of the family when sunday comes
Aw
With your bf
i will
And u can go from there
And decide then
We say stuff but we are hearing a small snippet of who he is as a person
And if you do decide to break up, try not to let it get you down too much, youd be doing whats right for you
yeah
we dont know the whole picture
There is many things i am leaving out, but really most of them are from the negative side
There's more down from here?
Welcome
yea...
Hello
How are you? My name is Owais. I am new to the app.
Same
Come join my noobness
mostly small things and signs that im starting to see trough
mostly controlling stuff
Im gonna do you a favor - look into merge 5
ooooooooooooooof
That got me good 😂
no wonder you left the controlling part out, you hear that word and its "break up break up"
and why have i been wiht him for 2 years? im scared if change and being alone
<@&1272487739006386187>
its not like straight controlling, its small signs and stuff
Thats a completely valid thing to feel and honestly, its amazing that you recognize that feeling
Thanks
so i have this trauma from my childhood that triggers when im pushed agaisnt walls. He knows that, but you know what he still does
ok i know i'm just jumping in here - but that's AWFUL - time to go. It will only get worse
Single as a pringleee
Rdy to mingleee
Ive wanted to cut off my family because they somewhat laugh at my trauma, but theyre family, they already hate me anyways 😑 but partners? nahh dont leave that to grow
EXACTLY
you know its bad when people whove probably read the conversation and thought "meh i wont bother to join in, they have it handled" and then see that and its like "omg i need to say something"

Yeah im not surprised
i gotta think
Honestly I've been single now for almost 2 yrs after breaking up from a 7 yr relationship
It was hard at first
the internet, which is full of randoms is telling you what you should and shouldnt do, honestly do or dont take my advice but i recommend taking a minute off of this platform and forming your own idea lmfao
woah 7 year relationship
I REALLY dont mean this in a rude way, and i find it hard to know if somethings rude or not, but how old are you ?
I feel like i like me better as a person rn than who I was like dating him
Guess
Ooh okay lemme think about this statistically
I won't take any offense at all
7 year relationship, were most likely friends beforehand so like 8 year friendship hypothetically, alot of people start dating around late teens / adulthood so my guess is 26?
Im older actually
Thats like, a guess based off everything ive seen in life
😂
Yuss
Ooh
i would say yes
Honestly im not sure 😅 but i know someone around your age who acts similar so actually i guess?
Ahahaha
How old do you think i am? i feel like im more obvious
However some people still have no clue
Its very like, a stressful age because everyone expects the world of me, but I actually struggle a lot
Im not
Ive researched psychology, seen a lot of people act immature and started acting the exact opposite 😭
However I do tend to try and like, impress people because im incredibly intimidated by them lmfao
I kinda get the oldest (or second oldest) sibling vibes from you
AGAIN I WISH
I honestly do feel like im more reliable than my siblings so that makes sense
Im the youngest and only daughter of 6 😭
daaamn
Ayyyy
Im youngest tooo
Twinsies
im the oldest of 8
My older siblings (two trans, 3 brothers) are somewhat unreliable, smarter, earn more money, but not nearly as trustworthy and they dont keep their promises
holyy
I hate ppl who dont keep their promises well
same
Definitely yes
We done done
I was just put on a timeout. Admin, why? I’ve not violated the ToS.
Im known to lie when being confronted, but i mean, who doesnt do that sometimes, and I do always come clean about my lies and make it up to people because I do genuinely want to have a healthy friendship with others, its just hard because I never find people who can communicate the way that would work for me
It's easier to keep the trust than win it back
oh damn is that why you werent speaking, i was worried wed upset you or something by not agreeing (im a people pleaser, i also worry alot so that reaction makes sense)
It can be highly stressful and intimidating at that moment. It's good of you to own up to it when the pressure goes down a lil
Welcome back my dude
I just realised its almost midnight for me, and i got work tomorrow, so im gonna say goodbye for now. I hope to see you all again! And a really big thank you for all the advice and nice words

Not at all Meelie. I was actually replying to you when I got the timeout message.
Gnnn
I somewhat recenetly had to stop being friends with someone who expected too much commication, they wanted screenshots and proof of other peoples conversations, if i wasnt telling them something they assumed it was about them and it was an incredibly difficult friendship
Good night and good luck love.
Omfg one of my coworkers is like that 😂
Goodnight! Hope to see you too, youre really cool!
Im like I didnt know I had a bf
😂
The coworker is a woman*
Just very possessive and controlling
Is anyone struggling to focus on the game because theyre too involved with this conversation or is that just me LOL
I chop those folks out. They wouldn’t like you sharing stuff about them.
on pc, I can keep one eye on both LOL
I just really like carlenes cat pfp
A prowowow
That’s my Gracie. She’s 18. And spry.
Awww cutee
I had one person say to me that they were stressed out by the ex-friend, and when I spoke to the ex-friend about how they should try and be patient with friend 1, they immediately lashed out and accused us of talking about her behind her back
Good lord.
Carlene I love your status, its honestly a vibe
The coworker cried because I was having a dinner date with my work bestie from out of town
And I didnt invite her
😂
Thats just oof
If it was a group thing, id understand
but a one on one dinner is exactly that
Just 1:1 bby
😂
She even told my work bestie at one point
"Why do ppl try so hard to make time for you?"
Uhhh cuz she out of town and she nice???
😂
Lmaoo
The things I deal with i swear
Also thats such a condescending thing to say 😭 i feel bad for the work bestie
Fr
It almost feels like she tried to put her down by saying "you arent worth it, why do people bother" in another way
Yes exactly
And thats why she wasnt invited to lunches lmao
Me: I really hope the people behind FMV are working on updates
The people behind FMV: Playing apex legends for 2 hours 😭
😂
Im assuming farmer koen isnt working on the game as they work at coolgames and i dont see like a develepor role (if it exists) but mann thats a long time
I say while also playing fmv for 12 hours everyday because i physically have to if i want to beat the challenges
dang
Id love to play without the update, I was so excited for it and now its controlling my brain and genuinely feeding my addictive behaviour which probably isnt good
It's perfect for a lazy person like me
i do enjoy the little stars going into the star box a little toooo much haha
I feel obligated to beat the sticker album, and to do that I have to spend all my time doing challenges, however I also took a break and now im nowhere near everyone else is with the progress
My clanmates r playing too
I love all of it, but i hate the fact that I took like a 3 day break and everyones miles ahead and I might not even beat it after all the hard work and sleep ruined
I just want that dang greenhouse

We all want the greenhouse, if only it wasnt uh, lemme figure something out rq
I still need 11 five star stickers—I play all day, finished all quests except for the day I had surgery. Seems unattainable.
Lemme check mine
this isnt real right?????????????????????????????/
It’s my truth. I am so over hateful people.
Please tell me i have my math wrong people
I dont blame you tbf
I need someone whos always doing calculations for this server
17 stickers remaining
honestly - even if that is right, it doesn't bother me -- I enjoy the journey and the merging, and an occasional conversation.
I can’t math that. I’ve had a couple 🍻
Actually lemme join u instead
Cheers!
Cheers!
lets see then
2 level 12s = 5 level 11s
uhm no okay i cant do merge 5 calculations too hard
1 level 12 = 3 level 11s
3 level 11s = 9 level 10s
9 level 10s = 27 levels 9s
continue that down? (used chatgpt from here on out)
81 level 8s
243 level 7s
729 level 6s
2,187 level 5s...
6,561 level 4 :p cry
177,147 i dont trust this number, but i feel its right
someone tell me its wrong
wheres my alcohol? its legal for me in uk 😭
Oy. We should get paid to play.
agreed, this actually just is a full time job, not even ironically or something
Talk to you all later. Off to a Canada Day party.
Ooh enjoy yourself!!
Ttyl
Hot dang
I think we close our eyes
❤️🫂❤️
@alpine spruce Sorry for the random ping, but is 177,147 genuinely an accurate number for how many merges itd take?
its too many merges for a greenhouse lmao
those silly hornets
double checked it, yes it really does take that much
Lemme give u an example
I splurge and buy something on my credit card
I immediately deposit from my debit
Pretend it never happened
😂
Yep totally that was my balance
thats insanee
I basically convince myself
R u sure it happened?
😂
Cuz it could totally havent
Mmm fair point brain
ill have to try that loll
Let's just go with that
😂
Huh? I spent $1k on a phone?
Where? Dont c it in my credit card balance
winks
OOP
I agree honestly
Thats weird, 300 hundred pounds out my bank account AND my best friend just got a new slushy machine for her birthday? Thats really weird (im actually doing that on the 8th for my friend)
I gotta say tho. I still haven't convinced myself of buying a pc
Ooh theyre worth it if you dont mind sitting at a desk
Totally weird it randomly went out like that. Sounds like a bank issue
I move around alot so im a laptop person
😂
definitely a bank issue! ah welp
I have a galaxy tablet
So im like ehhhh do i need a laptop
Or get a pc
laptops and pc's are GAME CHANGERS
But pc requires sitting at a desk
What laptop do u hv
What are we talking about here? Merges for a greenhouse? I'm on my way to work right now, so I don't know if I'll be able to give you a proper response until later
as far as i know, theres no inbetween, you can get a mini pc but you still need a moniter
Oh thats okay! and yeah the amount it takes to get a greenhouse, its insane
Have fun at work! Whenever u get a chance if possible. Thankss
I thought it was a few thousand pieces, not almost 200k if you merge 3
Fr
Are we just talking about starting from level one parts that you get from bronze chests?
I have a dell and a hp envy
Yep, and also i forgot better chests give better pieces
Oo u fancy. Double laptop~ U happy with those?
Can we grab some coffee on the way? Caffeine is needed
It's definitely less merges when you start with higher chests, but I guess you could consider just from Tier 1 than you have to do other emerges to get those chests. I believe someone has done the math somewhere on here, but I don't know if it is correct
I have a diet Pepsi while I'm waiting for the bus right now
Well they both have problems, and if i get a laptop i really want, it becomes expensive, the DELL laptop is really good, which im currently using, however it overheats and the camera is giving off creepy vibes because its at the BOTTOM of the screen?????? but the HP Envy 13 or whatever is a really good laptop and basically everything i want EXCEPT the colours look dull and washed out
Diet Pepsi woahh
Hmmm
The HP one has 360 turning, speakers near the keyboard and not underneath, good fans, good camera, and a somewhat nice keyboard layout, but the colours are a dealbreaker, i dont use it, im getting rid of it
Sad
You will always find problems with laptops unless your standards are low, PC's the best option
Ive only used Lenovo laptops in the past
Ooh lenovo, they make some good ones
But im exploring options rn~
That makes sense
😂
sometimes im really quick in deciding
Like I bought my car same day I tried
But my daybed? Took over a yr to decide
Ahahahaha
But I really do like my daybed
Ooh atleast you know what you want with the car
And my car
Is it bad or good lmao
I just wanted something comfy with safety features that takes me from point a to point b
Daybed tho
I actually had to replace it because it broke during a move
But I bought same model
Because I like it so much

Good choiceee
Of course yeah lmaoo
What time is it there
I just need a lot of etrades lol
OOP
damn
ahhh
😂
How much progress you done?
Less than 100 left to go
Heck yeah!
Yep!
Ignore the mess in my land btw
😂
Cleared?
Yep!

energy spent + energy i have right now = 643 / 1050 so not bad so far
Plus I could get 2 x 270 energy things if I really wanted to but i dont want to
Want to save them
Pogg
True that
my pets just licked my face smh lol
Ahahaha cute
Where is the exterminator 
It took me way too long to figure out what you meant 😂 for the hornets?
Lmao yes
I was confused because I actually have pet rats (i know some find it weird, but just imagine mini puppies) and i hear exterminator and im like 🤔
They cute if we ignore the tail
😂
Yeah a lot of people dont like their tail, glad im not being judged! 😂
For one of them, they have a weird patchy fur (born like that) and i have sensory issues with that, so its iffy for me, but either way theyre really cute regardless

Ohh
Yuss fur babies
Finished my 1050 yay

definitely! the rest are energy challenges so its just one focus luckily
smart, takes up space anyways 😅
Oop
And im lv 26 😂
Lmaoo
The first 20 levels do feel quick to be honest, it can be surprising to get from level xyz to 20+ in a couple days
Ikr
The 30s gonna be long af
Makes you think youre great at the game until you realize theres a million strategies you didnt know 😅
definitely but a lot of new items you unlock so yayy
so many workers 😂
Ahahah bought one intentionally using gems
One by accident
😂
Since I alrdy hv them
Might as well use
Pretend it didn't happen
It was intentional
Wdym
😂
Pfft definitely

Ooh silly question but its always good to ask, you dont have like epilepsy or anything that i should try and avoid triggering? like with the flashing emoji
Nah I dont. Ty for asking tho
porrugues
Erro
Estou usando o Google Tradutor, temos que usar o inglês neste canal
Wauw pros
I used google to translate loll
How long did it take? 😭
I have 4 hrs to spare
woah
etrade
I can one sec
quero ver coisa boa nesse grupo
Omw
como uso o tradutor se estou conectado aqui ??
me too
Por favor, use o inglês ou use o canal fornecido para o seu idioma
thank you
pesquisar "Google tradutor"
@solid oracle
Yes
👀
I need 7 people to visit me and for me to visit 7 people
Ill visit when i have a ticket
BRO MY CAT JUST GRABBED ME SO HARD her claws are sharp
Visited
thank you
Anyone able to visit? Ill visit afterwards when I get a ticket
No crates, no tickets, no energy 😭 can anyone visit me?
Thank you so much! Ill visit you soon
Hi u still need someone
I always need visits 😂 need like 200 more energy
Lol ok u cleared?
Yep!

What time is it now
Rip lmao
U r fastttt
.g
Oh right
I just had a 270 energy tbf, i used it earlier and it made it a lot easier
No anigame here
Wauw wauw
Anyone able to visit?
Cleared?
Hi
clear yep

Sleep when
realll
well its mine so i love it loll
Ooo
Does ur bestie play fmv too?
yressss
I just need 20 more energy and then ive done 945, im stopping at that one unless someone wants to help me speedrun it 😭
this one should not be so expensive imho
goodnightttt 
can you rejoin the activity?
oh boy, you're really new
okay, @trim cloak you see how everybody in this channel is playing farm merge in the channel?
stop sending invite links, and tell me if you understand or not
crate share?
visited u
and i you
Hello farmers
Ctrade
etrade
Ctrade & etrade available and two tickets if anyone needs a visit!
etrade !
omww
done tysm^^
me, pls
etrade
Could someone visit my farm plz and I’ll visit u back when I get a ticket
ok
ping me if you join back
Ok
just got 250 energy from a set.... don't have a single quest of energy today
this game is playing me 🥲
etrade?
Etrade
@terse marsh how on earth do you have so many cards?! I thought it capped at 9 1 stars but you have an insane amount
i just didn't merge it when i got it
So you can get more than 9 of each card? I’ve never been able to
yeah i guess so
i haven't unlocked new ingredients so idk if it's still the same rules or not
etrade
good morning all my fellow mergers....i hope you all have a blessed and wonderful day with lots of lucky merges
ctrade?
ok
an hour later lol
not watching the chat and i saw it wasnt checking time
i have done hte same before
?
sorry could not get back last nite...yes i see the players on the left
visited! rejoin to see 
will visit back! thank you
@rose delta and @rugged valve visited ☺️
visited back!!
if you rejoin I'll visit back! :) --- wait i found you! OMW
man i merged all my chests like 2 hours ago sobs i should have waited... rip
There was no guarantee merged chests wouldn’t be glitched so don’t stress about it.
what are etrades and ctrades?
Energy, crates.. someone visits and you visit back, you both get crates and/or energy
is there a way to choose either? or is it random upon each visit?
You get both each visit unless you are over 50 energy when you visit. Folks say “c trade” when they are over 50, just to let folks know they can’t give energy.
Hi guys can someone help me remove my haystack?
Visited
think u need three unique visits for it to be gone
Hey guys can someone help me remove my haystack?
Thanks for visiting
Can someone help me remove the tire
Visited
@bright prairie visited
C trade
omw
Let’s go
Done!
I dont have any ticets rn, but ill see if i can get one
Dn thx
Visited 
Got another ticket, visiting now!
Wait a minutes pls i don’t have a ticket now
@craggy fog visited 
Thank you! Visited back!
Visited 
And now I'm out of tickets ☺️ back later
i got half an hour to get 150 crates from somewhere...
Left you 10🙌 .. if you like i can visit again, tag after you claim them
Thank you so much!
I’ll come visit you.
Visited.
Thank you.
Visited you!
someone helps me to eliminated the straw
Does anyone know when the patch to fix the chests will be put in?
Let's g0
It’s in. Not all that exciting.
does anyone know if they increased gold chests like they said they would initially?
Seems they just increased to what they were pre-update. The silver chests give less though.
Love a good lie
I’m not even mad they didn’t do it, just disappointed they don’t have the courage to tell people they changed their mind. Just slip it out of the update and hope nobody knows, terrible form…
Yes, it was all poorly executed and poorly communicated.
Is the silver chest or the gold chest best to do?
I don’t know. I’ve not compared them myself.
OOPS
Bruh. got hit with 945 energy two days in a row
Should I even care about the dailies 😭 😂
From the conversations in General chat it seems gold. But I’d hold off a day or 2 in case there’s any changes
hey yall does anyone know how to get rid of the haystack thing
I would imagine their goal in nerfing silver was to push us to open gold
Ohhhhhh... cant wait for the math people to let me know what is now bette4
Better lol
I know, right??
People visiting you have to click on bicep to get it removed
that would make a lot of sense
etrade?
Folks in general and quick questions have said gold, since they downgraded silver.
@odd pecan visited you back! Ty for the surprise visit!!
I'll be so upset if gold is the best one omg 😭
Haiii
@dull cobalt hii can I visit u
Sure I just got a ticket, I can visit back after ☺️
Ok
Visited back 
And now I'm outta tickets again lol
Ty. Im hving issue seeing ppl in the game
I see "guest"
When I play in server with friends
I had that earlier.. logged out and restarted discord, went back to normal
Must be a glitch
hi
I restarted but still hving issue. Ill try again.
Visited
☺️
ill come to u next ticket i get
I am waiting to open chests for a couple days.
@drifting comet and @cosmic fable couldnt find u guys to visit back
Gold chests?
Yeah. There’s still glitches, so it can wait.
Ok found one of you.. Moi still dont see you, I'll try next ticket I get 
visited

What time is it
It's 2:36am 
I was about to say
My dad was like "why not do it now" so we did lmaoo
I thought u alrdy went to sleep
Oooh
😂
Never get sleep when there's a FMV challenge to complete


