#Questioning my sexuality

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green quartz
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I mean, it could be multiple things.
You could be bisexual.
Omnisexual (preference for gender)

But it could also depends if the guy is feminine or more non binary.

bright sundial
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He's not a feminine guy and wdym by omnisexual preference for gender?

green quartz
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It's like bisexual, but you prefer one gender more. You can still like the other gender sometimes though.

bright sundial
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Maybe? I just don't feel as strongly as I have for girls in the past

green quartz
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Fair

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You're not gonna feel as strongly for something you prefer less, or aren't used to.

bright sundial
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And the feelings I have I wouldn't describe as... you know... sexual...

green quartz
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Any attraction can be purely romantic
You can, like some genders only romantically, you can like some genders only sexually.

Say bisexuals sexually attracted to both genders
and
Ceteroromantic (instead of ceterorsexual) purely romantically attracted to non binary people.

bright sundial
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What's the difference?

green quartz
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Of?/genq

bright sundial
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I'm just confused because I don't think I'd date him if he asked

green quartz
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So, like, do you like him but not want him to be with you.
Or do you like him but not want his affection?

bright sundial
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I genuinely don't know

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Like he's fun to be around, but I don't like the idea of the sexual stuff

green quartz
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So you like him platonically

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And not sexually

bright sundial
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It feels stronger than platonic

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I don't have any other guys I feel this way about

radiant condor
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note that there are other forms if attraction other than sexual, romantic, and platonic ^^

radiant condor
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it’s like the “in between” of romantic and platonic

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oops, sorry for the ping

bright sundial
radiant condor
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if thats the case, you could be bialterous SprigLove

bright sundial
near river
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I've been dealing with the exact same thing lol, and I am yet to find a perfect label, but berrisexual (liking all genders but very rarely men) and Omni are the closest I can get. Let me know if you find anything :D

near river
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Oh it's short for omnisexual lol (liking all genders with a preference)

bright sundial
near river
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If you aren't attracted to them then probably not? I'm not sure 😭😭

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But if it is just one person that is okay