My headmates have been fighting and like talking over eachother and they don't want to come out and introduce themselves. One did front today but that's it. It's just been very loud in my head and it's stressing me out. Anyone know what to do when this happens?
#Developing System in need of help/
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tidal sedge
I dont sorry ( ive been ghosted here so now youre not
deep mural
I dont sorry ( ive been ghosted here so now youre not
thanks anyways, appreciate it
pulsar pewter
May I get more context?
deep mural
May I get more context?
Im 18 mtf, atleast mother (the main headmate) is and I just keep hearing a bunch of voices in my head overlappingn eachother. The other day Nixian came out but even he was super sensitive and shy and my other headmates are even shyer and they're angry and they keep talking and sometimes it's quiter but it keeps getting louder.
pulsar pewter
Im 18 mtf, atleast mother (the main headmate) is and I just keep hearing a bunch...
Ah, I don't think I know much on this to comment, unfortunately. I think I've heard that you can try and communicate with them and run some sort of poll to get them to calm down? Perhaps google would know how to do such a thing, hopefully. Best of luck! ❤️
boreal zinc
Fellow system here! And one who's known they're a system for like, 2 and a half years or so now
It was tough when we had that kind of stuff happen, but it's something that's sadly bound to happen. If they're struggling to let themselves be known and seen, that means they and the system don't feel safe enough.
The best thing you can do is repeat that "it's safe, it's okay to come out" maybe out loud, or even just in your head directed towards anybody who's lingering and able to hear it
Give them time and patience and they'll slowly come out of hiding 💚
(also sorry this server doesn't seem the best place to ask this question as it's more geared towards queer related stuff specifically, but at least I was here and saw it! Tho we're not active on here all the time)