So I think im non binary but I dont feel offended or something if someone uses him or he on me but i do if they call me a boy or a man directly so can i just be non binary with he him and they them pronouns?
#Hi ehm just does this work
queen grove
queen grove
Im just asking does someone feel the same? And is there a name?
white forge
So I think im non binary but I dont feel offended or something if someone uses h...
You know, I can kinda relate. I grew up being called she/her, so I grew numb to being called that for the most part and I disconnected those pronouns from gender. Then, when I finally came out as trans nonbinary, I started feeling greatly bothered by she/her pronouns whenever anyone other than people I knew used them, and the only reason it didn't bug me quite as much when people I know used them is because I knew they didn't quite see me as a girl. She/her pronouns do give me dysphoria, though, and I always hated being called a girl or a woman, but I often dissociated when I was called that, which probably contributed to my years of depression and anxiety.
Anyway, to answer your question, yes, you can be nonbinary and use he/they pronouns (he/him and they/them pronouns), but you can also just use they/them pronouns if that's what gives you the most euphoria
queen grove
OMG THANKS
Yeah i think im just gonna say they them to new people
But i think im kinda genderfluid between like a little bit boy and fully non binary, just not a man you know
white forge
But i think im kinda genderfluid between like a little bit boy and fully non bin...
Yeah, that's understandable and completely valid
Remember, it's okay for your identity to shift as you come to learn more about yourself, too
queen grove
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grave prawn
Just remember that pronouns dont define gender you can be nonbinary and use any pronouns you want its just what makes you comfortable like ex: someone can be male and use they them even if they arent nonbinary or trans