glad crag
bro im on a group call with my friend group and this interaction just happened between me and one of my friends
friend: “what’s your gender identity?”
me: “um… yes”
friend: “wdym yes?”
me: “i dunno”
then it ended there o_o
they dont know im agender (yet?) have i slipped up chat 
i dont think the other two members of the friend group heard this cuz they already moved on from the topic
guess this gives me another reason to come out to them? idk
cloud orbit
If it’s safe to do so, I think you should come out to them. If I were you, I would drop subtle hints before telling them. This way they aren’t surprised.
Do what you think is best.
glad crag
yeahh, i do wanna come out to them but their parents are transphobic and their mom is also best friends with my mom so if my parents find out im kinda cooked 🫠
i guess this was the first “subtle hint”, one of them also asked what pronouns i go by and i said “i don’t care” so that’s another
i think i’ll keep dropping hints till i come out
crude summit
So agender people dont like to be identified as any gender right? So say when someone mentions u but u go by no pronouns, woukd they just say ur name?
glad crag
So agender people dont like to be identified as any gender right? So say when so...
not necessarily; gender ≠ pronouns, so anyone of any gender can go by any set of pronouns, even if they don’t traditionally correlate with one another
for me personally, i don’t mind any pronouns so i go by any
crude summit
Ok thx for letting me know