#I just need someone to talk to :)

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I just have no one to talk with about my situation. so I really need someone to share my problems in life at the moment, so I am looking forward to talk with someone from this discord server who might be able to suggest me what to do 🙂

I know I am a Bisexual RainbowBisexual from like 12 years old (now I am 18 years old) and I still haven't told a single person in my life about that part of me.
I really want to start telling but I can't find the courage to tell this to anyone cause I am scared of the consequences.
What should I do ❓
Please help me 😟

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I cant hold it inside me anymore, and because I am keeping this inside me for so long and now that I am 18 years old... every time I even think of the day I will tell I just burst out in tears

lunar river
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maybe try talking about it with people that you trust truly (it can be a friend, parent….)

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cause I am scared to lose all the people that are important to me in life

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idk really how to help you because I’m a very direct person, maybe try asking them what are their thoughts about lgbt people

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lunar river
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maybe say something like: “yesterday I found out one of my friends is gay, what do you think about it?”

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lie about it

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Ok... thats sounds good

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and if the response will be what I think it will be... do I just keep hiding it forever? 😟

vivid nacelle
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not at all, but i would find people who are supportive

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I have like 3 friends

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and if I will lose them I really dont know what I will do

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shell steppe
# narrow arrow and if I will lose them I really dont know what I will do

I live in a place with 160 other nearly grown men. (14-19) im 16. pan, a whole lot more. If they leave or try to ruin you or hurt you. Its just a sign they aren't mature. I've told several people. like 8 at this point. and they don't care. yes they tease me but its all fun and games. Just don't worry to much about it.

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And fyi if you dont feel safe around that person then don't tell them. I came out just because is was acting a bit more gay than most would expect and got asked and was like "Yeah im pan."

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@shell steppe I understand

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I act "gay" most of the times too, but there is a small "issue", I have a really good female friend and everyone thinks that we are dating or something, so most of the people around me thinks that I am straight

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so they never asked me anything bout it

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ngl I dont even know if I would even have the courage to tell them if they ever ask me

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@narrow arrow Don't say you won't have the courage because you do. Like it is just a thing. 10 15 30 years down the line, nobody will care what sexuality or identity you are aside from yourself and those. who are true to you. Just stay safe mate.

All i do if i do get asked is "admit nothing, deny everything" because I don't trust many.
And hey try talking to your female friend about it. One of my ex's, who I'm just friends with now (life got in the way) came out to his female friends as gay, and that helped him with that. anyways peace.

Just @ me or dm me if you need someone to talk to. and make a post like you did if you need to aswell. There are 157k people here and 10 - 15k on at almost anypoint so there is always someone to talk to.