Transmasc things

[valid wagon]

Bro I’m so jealous of cis guys 😭🙏 wdym you js have a Dorito body since birth ts unfair 💔 so yeah do yall have any tips on how to make my hips look smaller and my shoulders wider 🥹

[balmy pecan]

Workout?

[sleek olive]

NAHHH

[warm frost]

truth

just deadass hit the gym

[balmy pecan]

Wym

Lift up some weights

Do exercise that grow the shoulder muscles

[valid wagon]

It’s kinda hard for me bcz I get lightheaded very easily when exercising but I mean I can give it a try

I was just talking about getting the look of wider shoulders though not really getting wider shoulders 😭 I know working out is kind of impossible for me

[balmy pecan]

U don't do workout usually?

[balmy pecan]

Nothing impossible

I have a question but i don't wanna be rude or offensive so I'm not gonna ask it

[valid wagon]

Nah it’s fine just ask

I’m not gonna get offended

[valid wagon]

Not really because I get dizzy when doing sudden movements 🥲

[balmy pecan]

Are u originally a boy?

Because I'm new to this stuff

[valid wagon]

I did say I’m transmasc in the title and it’s also on my profile 🙂

[balmy pecan]

So I don't understand quickly

[valid wagon]

Don’t worry, I’m open to questions

[balmy pecan]

Oh

[valid wagon]

It’s alright, I know this topic can be confusing for some folks

[balmy pecan]

So yeah the only solution is to workout

Because idk how transition works

[valid wagon]

It’s alright! Thanks for the advice anyways :))

[balmy pecan]

I'm middle eastern so that culture don't exist in here

[balmy pecan]

Np

[valid wagon]

I’m Balkan so I understand this isn’t a widely spoken about topic in most cultures lol

[balmy pecan]

Yeah good

[shrewd elk]

Fellow transman here!

You can wear and style clothes in a more masculine way/ways that don't emphasise curves, as well as building shoulder and lat muscles. This can be done at home via bodyweight exercises such as pushup variations or at gyms/with weights. If you get lightheaded as you mentioned, you may not be drinking enough, or a number of things. If it's a matter of just not being used to it, then just start small. There's plenty of guides, reddit posts and YouTube videos and such by other transmasc creators. And if you have a binder, don't exercise in it...that's been the cause of my own bruised ribs and light-headedness.

Clothes-wise you probably already do, but I tend to avoid tight hip-hugging clothes. (So yes I do end up looking like I'm wearing clothes 3x my size ahaha but that's just my sense of style) In my experience, pockets (cargo shorts/trousers) can do a good job of distracting from hips and I tend to wear trousers/shorts lower (more around the hips than the waist). I avoid things like leggings or skinny jeans as well. You can also balance out the body by adding more layers on the top (I personally like to opt for some layered shirts/flannels and a jean/leather jacket on top). Small or tight tops can once again make your overall shape 'bottom heavy' aka not the triangle you're going for. But it is all up to you and if certain clothing choices make you happy but not necessarily masculine then go for your favourites. There's also numerous style guides on youtube/reddit/websites etc for transmascs.

Without T or consistent working out you may find it hard to get a wider-shoulder look. I know personally I probably won't ever get the 'upside down triangle' but i can get somewhat of a square and that helps solve my dysphoria. You got this man!

[valid wagon]

OMG I WAS NOT EXPECTING THE PARAGRAPH 😭 thanks a lot for the advice tho!!! Appreciate it

I think the lightheadedness maybe has to do with the fact I have low iron and orthostatic hypotension lol 😭 but maybe if I js go slow it’ll get better (mostly on me since I don’t take my supplements though)