hard needle
I want to come out to my dad again since I’ve assumed he’s forgotten that I’m a transmasc. But I feel nervous or unready to confess.
He already told me he would support me if I was fully transitioned but still it makes me unsure??
What could be a thing that I could remind or say to him?
hard needle
I want to come out to my dad again since I’ve assumed he’s forgotten that I’m a ...
Not to mention,, he was drunk and tipsy at the time I said it before and I have a pretty homophobic household.
I’m very wary about the consequences that will happen if he let them know or discuss it with them since they can’t really listen or understand why I want to transition.
drifting mirage
he said he would fully support you but forgot?
maybe hes uncertain of his memory being under the influence at the time so didnt press it
i dont think being under the influence would make someone suddenly supportive of trans people, or at least ive never heard of it. It would impair his judgement and decision making but not his emotional response to something like that or at least I wouldnt think so
if anything if he already wasnt going to be supportive, if you come out while hes under the influence wouldnt he react even worse?
idk it just seems weird that he would be supportive while drunk but a total bigot sober
maybe bring up trans people broadly and see what happens