#I realized i might be a lesbian, how do you know if its true?

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heavy laurel
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by being with someone

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maybe @dreamy crag

dreamy crag
# heavy laurel by being with someone

i mean i have this girl that i like but my initial plan was to not tell anyone that i’m gay for the rest of my life and not acting on it but i can’t do that anymore but on the other side my parents would be sooo mad and i would probably lose most of my friends if anybody found out

heavy laurel
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as i am good at giving tips

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well, you should be okay

stray holly
# dreamy crag i mean i have this girl that i like but my initial plan was to not tell anyone t...

Well you don’t have to act like you aren’t gay for your WHOLE life. Once you move out and go to college you can be whoever you want to be. If your parents don’t accept you for who you are then that’s your problem. If they love you then they will accept you. Not saying they don’t, it could just be their beliefs but all parents should accept their children for who they are.

dreamy crag
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like i don’t know much about about lgbt also i’ve been researching for like a week

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but now that i’m thinking about it i probably hate that i’m gay more that my parents will if i tell them

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i that makes sense

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like i want my parents at my wedding 😭😭

stray holly
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I think you just gotta learn to except yourself before you tell anyone else. Do you hate being gay because of your religion?

dreamy crag
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like something telling me that its wrong

stray holly
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Nothings wrong with you not believing! People all have their own beliefs

dreamy crag
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I've been atheist probably for 3 years now

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but its like i know being gay is not wrong in some way but when it comes to me accepting that im i just cant

stray holly
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Well dude you just need to work on that. Maybe start seeing a counselor/therapist that could help you with that?

dreamy crag
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Yeah ig but i probably wont go to therapy till im 18 since my parents probably wont let me

stray holly
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It’s worth a try to ask tho right?

dreamy crag