#I realized i might be a lesbian, how do you know if its true?
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i mean i have this girl that i like but my initial plan was to not tell anyone that i’m gay for the rest of my life and not acting on it but i can’t do that anymore but on the other side my parents would be sooo mad and i would probably lose most of my friends if anybody found out
well do you want my help maybe i can help
as i am good at giving tips
well, you should be okay
Well you don’t have to act like you aren’t gay for your WHOLE life. Once you move out and go to college you can be whoever you want to be. If your parents don’t accept you for who you are then that’s your problem. If they love you then they will accept you. Not saying they don’t, it could just be their beliefs but all parents should accept their children for who they are.
they probably will disown me or something. but like i’ve been hiding it for 16 years now praying for it to go away and i don’t think it will and i can’t hide it
like i don’t know much about about lgbt also i’ve been researching for like a week
but now that i’m thinking about it i probably hate that i’m gay more that my parents will if i tell them
i that makes sense
like i want my parents at my wedding ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
I think you just gotta learn to except yourself before you tell anyone else. Do you hate being gay because of your religion?
its complicated becuause i dont believe anymore but i still have some kind of i would say guilt inside me
like something telling me that its wrong
Nothings wrong with you not believing! People all have their own beliefs
Yeah that i know
I've been atheist probably for 3 years now
but its like i know being gay is not wrong in some way but when it comes to me accepting that im i just cant
Well dude you just need to work on that. Maybe start seeing a counselor/therapist that could help you with that?
Yeah ig but i probably wont go to therapy till im 18 since my parents probably wont let me
It’s worth a try to ask tho right?
trust me i tried