#i dont know my gender

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viscid osprey
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i dont know if im trans or genderfluid ok
im in a lgbtphobic country and a lot of people i know irl are very lgbtphobic, maybe if i am trans i will start transitioning when i move out of azerbaijan if its safe

pls can someone give advice idk how to decide

topaz beacon
# viscid osprey i dont know if im trans or genderfluid ok im in a lgbtphobic country and a lot o...

hi so i was in a similar situation because im also from a third world country, so i kinda just swallowed everything and didnt come out to anyone in my family until i moved out even though i told everyone at class and friends and shit bc i wouldnt let them pass over my boundaries lol, i understand is important to transition socially and tell them about your new identity and stuff but if you feel you will be in danger for doing so and get excluded, punished or even worse: abused, its not worth it to come out yet, put yourself safe first and get a support circle if anything bad happens give dont hurry for coming out yet if you feel its not safe

viscid osprey
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i dont plan on coming out further/to more people until im older, ive already had friends leave me and people make fun of me because they thought im queer

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my 2 older sisters know im queer one of them is ok with it but shes abroad in another country but the other one is openly lgbtphobic and i dont talk to her because of that

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i asked my parents directly what they would do if i was queer and they are very lgbtphobic so ill probably be out when im an adult