Am I AroAce?

[hollow locust]

Like, I’m starting to notice that I tend to feel awful when it comes to romantic relationships, and not because of fear. It is almost like I feel a sort of disgust towards the idea or something? It is weird, because I somewhat can imagine myself in a romantic relationship but I can’t picture who my partner is supposed to be. I literally can only draw a blank when it comes to that sort of fantasy. There also had been times where I did try to date people, and I really could not feel all that connected to any of them even if I tried.

I’m honestly trying to recall any moment right now if I ever felt something to another person that wasn’t platonic in some way, and I can’t. Every single time I tried to be romantic I either felt inadequate or disgusted in some matter, and I don’t know why. I would love some help with this if possible, thank you.

[fleet trout]

So firstly, unless you forgot to mention something about sexual relationships, i think you are not in the acespec. Secondly, you most likely are cupioromantic, it means you desire a romantic relationship, but you dont feel romantic love. I, as an aromantic cant imagine myself with anyone and feel like romantic things like kissing are disgusting so you most likely arent aromantic.

[hollow locust]

I didn’t say anything about sexual relationships because I was uncertain if I can talk about it.

[fleet trout]

you can talk about it as long as you dont go in the nsfw territory and it's about orientations.

[fleet trout]

oh, you meant that you werent sure whether you were comfortable to share that online, then you can go on the lgbtq wiki and look at the acespec orientation (I think there is a category).