so i use lesbian because my parents arent aware im trans so i pretty feminine irl (i use clothing to convey masculinity)
ive tried using lesboy but some people (including some queers) dont like that term. i know i shouldnt let myself get beat down for it, but id rather not deal with random people arguing about it in the first place.
i dont use straight, again, because im feminine irl. if i say im straight, i dont want people assuming i like guys. sounds dramatic, i know, but ive had my fair share of guys liking me, coming to the conclusion i dont like them back, and build a grudge over me bc of it.
is there a term i could use to describe myself? i seen some but im not sure if id like to use them or if i should use lesbian and wait until of comfortably transitioned enough to confidently say im straight.