i feel like im such a burden for asking for things that make me more comfy becuase other people always complain and then i feel bad and feel like i should just suck it up and be like eveyone else
esp with my whole no pings thing it makes people mad sometimes and then they end up leaving and i feel like thats my fault
#I feel like a burden
inner knoll
formal hamlet
i feel like im such a burden for asking for things that make me more comfy becua...
One thing ive learned from experience is, if some doesn’t respect your boundaries in any way, leave them.
Now that may seen a little aggressive of a decision. But I believe that no one deserves the disrespect they get for setting boundaries.
What you like and don’t like makes you human, and your boundaries are a human right.
Id suggest talking over how them complaining about your boundaries has been affecting you negatively, and give them a bit of time to correct it.
I wish you luck, because it takes sm courage to talk feeling with any of your peers. And remember: you deserve sm better than that! 🫶
inner knoll
(please no ping!) thank you, this really helped!
inner knoll
(it’s fine!)
stone spruce
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