#Just a question

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pine kernel
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Ive had this same issue.. except now I'm actually trans (ftm, as well as genderfluid) so I get where you're coming from. Maybe you could be bigender? I had sat with that label for a while before I noticed i was trans.

Textbook definition: Bigender is a gender identity in which people experience exactly two gender identities, either simultaneously or varying between the two. While it originally referred to individuals who identified as both male and female, the term bigender now encompasses the pairing or grouping of any two gender identities.

While I was questioning my transness, some people told me that I could just be in denial about it. Maybe this is your situation? There's also demigirl which is not fully identifying with being a girl, if that sounds like you?

Im not sure if this helped at all but I just wanted to see!

woven knot
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Yeah but I don’t really have any interest in being trans. Maybe it’s because I’m really masc🤷‍♀️

pine kernel
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Out of all likelyness it sounds to me like you're just a butch lesbian

woven knot
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It really all just started when I was, “woah what if I was a boy lmao” and it really stopped there

woven knot
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Ahhh I see

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Yeah that seems it

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Thanks homie

pine kernel
pine kernel
crimson monolith
sand birch
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I feel the same way too. for me I think it also has to do with ive been friends with more boys than girls. I don't think im trans

crimson monolith
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I would never be trans

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It wouldn't be me at all,like honestly..I don't know why I'd call myself a boy more often especially with the new hairdo that I have now,damn,I was stupid

woven knot
crimson monolith
woven knot
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So I looked online and I think what happened was that since online I’m kind of very associated with the LGBTQ community and see gender identity topics all the time. I think because I’ve been exposed to it so much my brain kind of latched onto it and started thinking what if that’s me. A label I found was intrusive identity thoughts and since I fear the question I try to prove it wrong and my brain checks it over and over again. So this will be the last time I talk about this for awhile just so I can get it out of my system :)