Ok so a few years ago, I realised that when I was a kid, crushing or liking somebody was foreign and almost non-existent for me. Which made me realise I was part of this community and in the aro-spec. Then a guy from my school told me he liked me and we kinda hit it off from there but nothing serious just like talking, which made me realise I also like men. So I though I was bisexual or in that spectrum. Though my attraction was mostly to men and not trans, non-binary or any of the other genders. Fast forward to this year where I started randomly switching between liking men, women or no one, with women being not as frequent or almost undistinguishable. I also wouldn't say I had a crush on anybody, only a small like. I've only considered myself to have this 'small like' on men. If someone could help me figure this out, it would be much appreciated
#Confusion about what I am
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i think it is still bi or pan
or maybe flux
Thank you for the help
@velvet cliff I've also seen almondsexual from another post and I find that it also kind of describes my attraction due to it being a sub of pan and omni as well as aroflux. Hopefully I figure it out eventually. Thank you for the help too
I don't think that multigender orientations can have no attraction though. I think that they can only have women, men and non-binary.
Or any combination of this 3
Well there's never truly an identity for everything, maybe I'm have one of those identities or my sexuality is constantly changing. Liking everyone and no one is both a blessing and kind of a curse at the same time.
The fluid orientation is abrosexual, that's the one I said
I'm sorry if I sounded aggressive
Its fine. Its on me that I read the meaning of that sexuality wrongly