So my friends dad changed her room without telling her and she has sensory issues about that stuff so she got upset. She told her dad that it bothered her and he laughed at her and then made her watch the news about a guy who was killed for voicing his beliefs. Its seriously fucked up, but I dont know how to help her or what to do.
#For a friend
coral trellis
ancient groveBOT
I don't know how you can help, but that is seriously messed up. It doesn't matter how he changed the room, she is his daughter so he knew about her sensory issues. Even without that, laughing and threatening her (showing that video in this context is an implied threat) as a response to her expressing that she didn't like it is disgusting. I'd actually recommend getting authorities involved
mint talon
So my friends dad changed her room without telling her and she has sensory issue...
Him threatening her like that is really illegal. I agree with Chloe, getting police is good.
coral trellis
just what did he change to the room
He changed her bedsheets
mint talon
Is her mother there? Or any other adult she trusts?
coral trellis
Him threatening her like that is really illegal. I agree with Chloe, getting pol...
I dunno though. I feel like if I do that I might not be able to go to her house next weekend 🙁
coral trellis
Is her mother there? Or any other adult she trusts?
Yeah her mother isn't that great either
mint talon
I dunno though. I feel like if I do that I might not be able to go to her house ...
Ok so let me explain smth to you
Would you rather:
Have your friend be threatened and possibly have mental health issues for the rest of her fucking life but get to go to her house this weekend
Or help her in the best way you can and see her at some later time
mint talon
But if you think its not major enough for police intervention than thats fine too
coral trellis
Im not sure its major enough
mint talon
Idk she might already have mental health issues tbh
You can always add more, believe me, first hand account right here
mint talon
Im not sure its major enough
It might not be
coral trellis
You can always add more, believe me, first hand account right here
True
coral trellis
It might not be
I don't think it is
mint talon
Try to spend some time with her then and support her as much as you can
coral trellis
I just wanna know how it support her effectively
mint talon
I just wanna know how it support her effectively
Well what does she like? Do something with her.
coral trellis
Alright, thanks.
broken vigil
Him threatening her like that is really illegal. I agree with Chloe, getting pol...
i mean
in my country
dad forcing to change the bed sheets is legal
but father laughing at their child repeatedly is considered illegal, and yes, forcing her to watch a video is also
i can say he could
go to 2 to 15 years of prison according to state and country law
depending on severity of course
ancient groveBOT
The issue isn't the sheets. That is just why she told him she was uncomfortable. The issue is his response
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broken vigil
ik, i am just going into the legal stuff
mint talon
dad forcing to change the bed sheets is legal
Well yeah ik