hi, i'm Shakti but most people in my life know me by my deadname, see i'm someone who never felt like i belonged to a single gender, but i'm afraid...afraid i'll never find love if i came out as genderfluid so i pushed it down and told myself i was the gender i was born as and faked it till i made it so i could still date people, but lately it's been getting out of hand for me...i feel incredibly out of my skin. So i wanna know should i proceed with being out as genderfluid and stop denying myself or should i for the sake of finding love and people accepting me, just fake being my born gender? also added note: my parents do not and never will support me if i do end up coming out and will probably blame it on my trans cousin "indoctrinating" me...so i'm kinda conflicted. (also i'm a minor so not really gonna fly in my house)
#coming...out?
red nova
primal sentinelBOT
If you feel like you can't keep it up any more, then I say go for it.
I also just skipped sleep so my judgment is probably not at it's best
red nova
I also just skipped sleep so my judgment is probably not at it's best
oof you should probs take a nap then
primal sentinelBOT
I have to work in an hour
red nova
I have to work in an hour
oh- right...employment...my worst enemy. forgot jobs exist lowkey. but try and take a small nap, 15 minute naps really do help
primal sentinelBOT
By work I mean quit my job but same thing sadly. Can't just skip for some reason.