I'm very confused about my gender and sexuality and I have been questioning on and off since I was a little kid but I don't think I've fully grasped it yet and I'm still so confused. every couple of months I randomly feel like an imposter and that I'm actually a cis straight person that's confused or something but like, Ugh it sucks having to think about something that sounds like it should be much easier.
#I need help trying to figure shit out
harsh light
uneven prawn
You don't have to always label your sexuality or gender, you can take as much time as you need, no deadline.
harsh light
You don't *have* to always label your sexuality or gender, you can take as much ...
Well yeah that was my sorta thoughts but it's hard when u want to talk to people in a way that's not platonic
deft idol
I'm very confused about my gender and sexuality and I have been questioning on a...
Flirt with everyone
And if you don't like flirting with a gender don't date it
harsh light
Well genders the big problem and how that relates to sexually
Especially because I'm talking to a straight guy rn
deft idol
Especially because I'm talking to a straight guy rn
are you afab?
harsh light
Yeah
deft idol
Then maybe just stick with female until you figure it out
harsh light
So ur saying I should confirm
sharp oak
I feel you it's hard not to be sure 😔 but there is no rush, even if you are dating right now you should keep an open mind about you and others. Sexuality and gender are fluid and it's okay if they are vague too. Find people who will accept you for who you are, that's the most important. If a person makes you think that they wouldn't accept you with your unknown gender, because they are firmly straight, then this person is not good to date for you.