People

[candid viper]

Why the hell can a partner talk to thier friends and not me

[agile surge]

What's happening

[candid viper]

They were ignoring me and i said are you busy and they said im talking with a friend but im thier partner i Should come first

And i was going through things

[shadow isle]

Did you make it obvious that there was a problem which needed immediate attention?

[shadow isle]

This really depends on the situation. Maybe their friend was having a hard time. Or they were having a conversation which was going very well.

[candid viper]

Yea

[candid viper]

Well to me im thier partner they should not be looking at my messages not answering and texting a friend to talk to them insted

Also they posted on thier story but. Cant answer me

[chilly gyro]

You're their partner not their whole universe. People need a social circle, a group they belong to. It's not called a support system for nothing. It's valid to feel bad for being ignored, if it was urgent. But your partner is allowed to have a life that is not only revolving around you.
Like stated, you don't know what their friend was going through. Question: if your best friend (in a hypothetical scenario in which you're not in a relationship) would ignore you while you're having a breakdown or are otherwise having an emergency, simply because their partner wants attention, then how would that make you feel?

To me personally: sister before mister and bro before h*e.

[candid viper]

I was gonna kms they were play fucking vr chat