Chat how do i ask my mom for a binder without outing myself out💔 being girlflux is so hard ong gender dysphoria sucks😞😞 any tips guys?
#Getting a binder while still being in the closet
deft arch
fierce tendon
not sure if you saw my message in general so i'll copy it into here
"i've seen people saying they said that they think flat chests just look better with their outfits, some people said they wanted a binder to stop being stared at, someone in my friend's drama group got a binder under the explanation it was so they could play a male character/do a cosplay"
you could also probably look online for other excuses to ask for a binder!!
deft arch
Hmm alright ill take this into consideration thx! 🙂
fierce tendon
i hope you're able to get one :D
safe thistle
not sure if you saw my message in general so i'll copy it into here
"i've seen ...
I’m planning to use the excuse of ‘it’s for someone else’ as host of a system if you want to add it to the roster of alternative reasons; as I’m more comfortable outing myself as a system with male alters than myself as nonbinary :)
Also if you can afford it and know people who would be willing/able to be the shipping location, that’s also an option I considered previously