I dont know who i am

[brazen swallow]

I dont know if I want to still be Male.. I just dont know. Can someone help me find out who I really am?

[rotund imp]

Girl if u really feel like u don’t wanna be a male anymore it’s fine. People r super rude bcuz some ppl want to be a woman or a man but I can probably help u out with it.

[brazen swallow]

Wait so people get rude if you say your a girl but if your Male?

[rotund imp]

Yh it’s genderfluid I think it’s called.

[brazen swallow]

Oh?

[rotund imp]

U can be both genders if ur not for sure aswell

[brazen swallow]

Sorry i'm new to this stuff forgive me

[brazen swallow]

I can?

[rotund imp]

Yh it’s totally fine to. U don’t have to pick a specific gender

[brazen swallow]

Okay..

[brazen swallow]

I'm scared that people will bully me

[rotund imp]

As long as u rlly dgaf what ppl say it doesn’t matter like racist ppl they’re js jealous their skin tone is basic 🤷🏻

[brazen swallow]

Ok

But i'm like

Whqt gender do i choose there so MANY

[rotund imp]

That’s why u can become genderfluid so you js don’t have to be 1

[brazen swallow]

So thats multiple genders??

[rotund imp]

Yeah so basically u don’t identify as a single gender so basically Yh it’s multiple genders

[brazen swallow]

Ohh..

[rotund imp]

Yh^^

[brazen swallow]

I just want to be certan of one gender.. thanks.

[restive warren]

There is absolutely no rush. Explore, do you research and see what makes you most comfortable and happy. Don't feel like you need to rush yourself or put a label on anything because you absolutely do not.

[brazen swallow]

I feel like I want to be cisgender..

But. I'll think sbout it

[serene smelt]

Finding your gender is a long journey hehe 😅 you can explore different things like try new clothes, ask people who you're comfortable with to use other pronouns and note how it makes you feel etc. You don't need to put a label on yourself or you can choose a larger term to define yourself. You can change it later if it doesn't fit you anymore.

There are some lgbt+ wiki online that you can browse to see if you recognize yourself in anything. I'd recommend to start with "trans", "non-binary", "genderqueer", "genderfluid", "demiboy", "demigirl"

[brazen swallow]

Okay...

Sorry i'm just so skeptic of doing something wring here

[serene smelt]

To me exploring your identity is never wrong there's no harm in trying different things, and I don't think anyone here would ever say that you're doing wrong for it. The only safety advice I would say is to make sure that people around you are safe to talk to about this topic and that you are independent before coming out, in case they are not.

[brazen swallow]

Ohhh

[brazen swallow]

Out of curiousity

What is the thing called when your attracted to the same gender?

[serene smelt]

Homosexuality? Or what do you mean?

[brazen swallow]

Oh

I think thats what u men

Mean*

[brazen swallow]

If you like the same gender

[serene smelt]

Yeah then it's homo/gay/lesbian, or eventually bi/pan if you like more than one gender

Idk the term if you're non-binary and like non-binary people though, I haven't encountered any yet ^^' I guess it's also homo or gay

[brazen swallow]

Alright, thanks!

[neon lava]

You can be whatever you want man!

I can help talk to you if you want!!!!

[neon lava]

DMs we can talk abt it

[brazen swallow]

ok

[brazen swallow]

Hey

Just curious, are you pansexual, correct?

[neon lava]

Mhm!

[brazen swallow]

Okay.m

So you get bullied for being that?

[neon lava]

Nonono!

Nobody usually cares.