tell her that? if thats the real reason she broke up, then she'll likely get back together
#Day 3 without her
cursive pollen
safe lion
I did she didnt listen
jaunty blade
She might have a different motive then what she gave you
If she didn’t listen, then that’s on her end and you shouldn’t waste your tears on someone who doesn’t care enough to hear you out
gilded pivot
This rings a lot of painful bells for me. I remember the same thing happening but I was able to convince her that no, she was not a burden and was not making me sad.
…we broke up for a different reason a long while later which was my fault, then we got back again, then she found out she was lesbian about 7 months later (last December).
It kinda hurts that she left but we’re still good friends and talk regularly and I support her journey for finding out who she is. I’m glad I still get to talk to her. It’s still a good ending, I guess (:
Anyways- I guess the bottom line about the main issue we both share is that self doubt, depression, and other such issues are likely the real demons she’s fighting right now. If you wanted to know why she didn’t listen, I offer you a potential reason why.
safe lion
If she didn’t listen, then that’s on her end and you shouldn’t waste your tears ...
Ok. It just really hurts to see her willingly leave
safe lion
This rings a lot of painful bells for me. I remember the same thing happening bu...
Sorry to hear. What is a potential reason?
Its really hard for me because past trauma occurred
gilded pivot
Sorry to hear. What is a potential reason?
A potential reason why she might have not listened to you
safe lion
A potential reason why she might have not listened to you
Yea
gilded pivot
A potential reason is that she is suffering from self doubt and depression, which might have been due to potential previous experiences with relationships. In my case, my girlfriend never had an even close-to-healthy relationship before me and was cheated on and abused, so the seeds of self doubt were planted in her mind by those experiences which told her that “I’m the only consistent factor, I’m not making my partner happy”.
This is only what I can say from my experience, and it may be completely different for you, of course. I cannot account for all potential reasons and realities, though I wish I could.
safe lion
She did mention some depression but we talked about it
We both said we are both depressed and wont do self harm or committ because of eachother
gilded pivot
We both said we are both depressed and wont do self harm or committ because of e...
that’s like bar for bar what me and her did too
Except I was never terribly depressed and would likely never kms regardless and I rarely self-harmed
safe lion
Except I was never terribly depressed and would likely never kms regardless and ...
Oh
Day 2 without her
I feel somewhat of betrayal and greif. Its even harder to get out of bed but I have a busy day today. Hopefully I can do what I do best distract myself from the cruel world and try to forget about her for atleast a few hours.
safe lion
Impossible.
Its impossible for me to forget about her
I tried so hard to be with her and now..
Fuck 
I screwed up once again
Im at my all time low crying silently
safe lion
Nothing gets my mind off of her, why cant she just see what's happening