how the fuck do i tell my family i dont like physical touch.

[slim leaf]

EVERYONE keeps fucking hugging me, i HATE it. they always do it for a long time too. my mom tells me to hug them back to not be rude, like today, i was mad asf cause my mom isnt letting me eat (normal) WHEN THERE WAS FUCKING CHICKEN ALFREDO, off topic lmfao. my tia (im guessing???) hugged me when her fucking shirt was wet. now i have a wet spot on my back. i have a cleanliness ick when people have wet shirts or anything wet/dirty and hug me or touch me. it inched my way away from her but she just hugged me tighter. i fucking hate it. like fucking get away from me. i didnt ask for a fucking hug.

[elfin haven]

had you ever confided with them about your dislike with hugging, even if you were forced to hug back or like those hugs? I had a feeling you already did, and they ignored you, tho :/

But anyways, thats so fucking atrocious of them.

[hasty pond]

I do not mean this in a bad way at all but I think you might have a form of autism or some anti social disorder I have autism and if someone touches me from surprise and I don’t expect it it’s super uncomfortable and something I pull away from them cause they don’t listen when I say stop

[slim leaf]

YES. my mother jokes that i have autism ALL THE FUCKING TIME, and I don’t take this as a bad way at all!!

[slim leaf]

i haven’t, and if I did, my mother would just say im overreacting and take away my electronics 😔