So er... My entire family is conservative, homophobic, transphobic and all that stuff... (Courtesy of living in Indonesia I guess), and although I know how dangerous it is to come out or out myself in a place where no one would accept me, I still feel like it's just a heavy weight on my chest to keep my own identity as a secret. I don't necessarily know what I'm asking for here, I just want to know if someone has been/is in the same situation and how they dealt with hiding this stuff day-by-day?
#I don't know what to do
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There are a lot of people out there who have dealt with this, but they decided not to tell anyone since it wasn't safe.
If you don't feel safe, then I'd wait it out until you're in an environment where people can accept you as who you are.
Sounds like a painful wait but it's safer ^^