what I would do is like tell them over a call or texxt while you're on the trip but that might not be the smartest idea
#Help me please
calm hollow
naive lynx
My dad is on the trip with me
calm hollow
My dad is on the trip with me
oh that does complicate it (I read to fast my wbrain si ugh) maybe don't tell him on trip incase he reacts badly
naive lynx
Ik.... But UGHHH... It's getting super hard because it's a part of me and I really need to tell him
calm hollow
Ik.... But UGHHH... It's getting super hard because it's a part of me and I real...
yeah I get that, are there like opretunities where you could tell him while your friends are there? then he's kind of forced to react okay
naive lynx
Yeah I mean he's constantly forced to be around us :3
I just really don't wanna say "oh by the way Dad I've got a boyfriend. But you can't meet him because he's in Australia"
calm hollow
then I suggest telling him with your friends present so he has to at least hold back on his reaction
calm hollow
I just really don't wanna say "oh by the way Dad I've got a boyfriend. But you c...
understandable, I am the type of person to do that lol, but my parent are a lot more supporting so I would be okay doing it
calm hollow
I would just tell him you're gay on the trip with your friends present
naive lynx
But I'm pan.... And that's so much worse. I think saying Bi would be better
calm hollow
if that is better to say tto him then I would say that
naive lynx
Yeah... Also I have no idea when to tell him.. maybe at dinner
calm hollow
Yeah... Also I have no idea when to tell him.. maybe at dinner
yeah i would do at dinner
naive lynx
Just say to him "Hey Dad, I've been meaning to get something off my chest do you promise to be polite?" And then he responds and id say "you've been constantly saying that this is the age to find a girl. But I'm Bi"
Sound okay?
calm hollow
yep that's perfect
naive lynx
Alr
I'll try that
Oh yeah another thing to add... He doesn't believe in the possibility of being trans and my boyfriend is FtM trans
calm hollow
Oh yeah another thing to add... He doesn't believe in the possibility of being t...
well you better hold his hand while you tell him lol
naive lynx
Yh... This is um.. going to be interesting..
calm hollow
yep he's going to get a nice shocker
naive lynx
Yeah
My comeback if he gets mad is "I'm bi! This is my body! You can't change me and I have free will! He's my boyfriend and I love him"
vocal leaf
did you finally do it ?
naive lynx
Not yet.. chill
vocal leaf
dw, take all the time u need
naive lynx
Alr
novel jay
"I really need to tell him and my mom" - Why? If you know that they may harass you, dont tell.
vocal leaf
Should I? He's pretty chill rn
did you do it?
naive lynx
Yep!
vocal leaf
yess, i'm proud of uuuuu, how went it?
naive lynx
He said that just because I'm dating a trans guy (FtM) doesn't mean I'm Bi
novel jay
He said that just because I'm dating a trans guy (FtM) doesn't mean I'm Bi
Thats A LOT coming from such person. He seems to be nice.
naive lynx
He is