#I dont know what to do rn
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Im just worried because I met him like a year ago but we stopped being friends after smth happened and I finally was able to become his friend again as well as date him and I love him dearly but i feel its just as a friend and im worried he'll hate me again
The truth is it WILL hurt them, even if they do love them
Your situation sounds vaguely similar to my ex, who broke up with me roughly 3 months ago
That is purely a result of my own speculation, though, I don't know how similar her situation actually was
I also don't know all the details of your relationship with this person, so it's difficult to say definitively, but I'd recommend ending the relationship if you are no longer attracted to your partner.
It hurt like a bitch for a long time after she broke up with me, and it still does occasionally, but I am thankful to her for ending the relationship and not dragging it out longer than it needed to last.
And if he truly loved you at any point, then he could never hate you
That's my two cents
Oh I forgot to mention: PLEASE respect his decision if he can't or doesn't want to be friends with you anymore
I tried but it was too emotionally painful so I had to cut contact
That doesn't mean he hates you
I’m sorry ;(