#I dont know what to do rn

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mossy saffron
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Tell them how you feel

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They will understand if they love you

fiery plover
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Im just worried because I met him like a year ago but we stopped being friends after smth happened and I finally was able to become his friend again as well as date him and I love him dearly but i feel its just as a friend and im worried he'll hate me again

timber tartan
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Your situation sounds vaguely similar to my ex, who broke up with me roughly 3 months ago

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That is purely a result of my own speculation, though, I don't know how similar her situation actually was

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I also don't know all the details of your relationship with this person, so it's difficult to say definitively, but I'd recommend ending the relationship if you are no longer attracted to your partner.

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It hurt like a bitch for a long time after she broke up with me, and it still does occasionally, but I am thankful to her for ending the relationship and not dragging it out longer than it needed to last.

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And if he truly loved you at any point, then he could never hate you

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That's my two cents

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Oh I forgot to mention: PLEASE respect his decision if he can't or doesn't want to be friends with you anymore

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I tried but it was too emotionally painful so I had to cut contact

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That doesn't mean he hates you