#Gender help

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timber orbit
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Hi so i have always been girly when i was younger i always wanted to wear dresses play with girl stuff ect but my parents never let me now that im older i know that im gay and a femboy but i also cant tell if i would prefer to be a girl and i have been thinking about it a lot and i just dont know what to do because i have always felt kinda girly

eager parrot
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Hi M&M,

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forgot to press shift haha, sorry i'll write the rest, give me a while

eager parrot
# timber orbit Hi so i have always been girly when i was younger i always wanted to wear dresse...

I'm gonna start off with saying, its 100% okay to look into being transfem (or whatever you look into) and not end up becoming it, you can even begin transitioning and later decide it isn't for you, and stop transitioning. Its all a journey to figuring out who you are.
To me, it seems like you need some experimenting; names, pronouns, e.t.c.
Having a couple of good close friends is amazing for this. You don't have to stick to one thing. You can try more feminine pronouns, try more feminine presenting outfits, wearing more fem accessories, maybe even try using fem products.
If you don't feel that comfortable with any of your in person friends, you can always try it online. One way can be through online games, and another could be through right here in this server.

Remember, it's all a journey, and you don't have to stick to any one thing. You got this ❤️