I’m in a server with my extremely close pookies but one of my pookies added his friend and I liked him at first but now he mostly just pmo like I set my triggers and boundaries CLEARLY and he crossed it once, then after I warned him, not even a day later, HE DID IT AGAIN. I know it’s not right to immediately expect everyone to do everything that you ask just because you have triggers and trust me, I have went through many mental breakdowns because I felt so self absorbed and selfish, but he has pmo so much I just want to yell at him and kick him, but it would be rude if I did and I’m afraid of losing some of my pookies because I think this so I didn’t vent/rant in that server
Please give any advice because I have NO CLUE what to do, I wanna say what I think, but I don’t want any of my pookies to dislike me.
#Genuinely don’t know what to do.
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frank moth
Listen to me star... Some people are just a-holes and don't respect people.. I have friends like that and at times I want to strangle them. But here's the thing.. don't give in to your temptations of hurting them. Because if you hurt them you also hurt yourself. Keep warning them. Maybe even bring them into a private room or call and explain to them what they are doing really triggers you and crosses your boundaries. You need to remain semi calm and resist your body's urges to cause harm.
frank moth
I’m in a server with my extremely close pookies but one of my pookies added his ...
I have been a part of and witnessed many conflicts like this. The best thing to do is explain your frustration and tell them what they should do instead of ignoring your boundaries. Hopefully they will start to understand what they are doing wrong. And if your little one on one doesn't work. Bring it up to your friends and see if they can help you. Just remember that during this altercation please resist the want to yell. Stay calm, some people enjoy seeing people get mad and scream. I really do hope for the best during this time of struggle and I hope they end up listening to you and respect your boundaries
rose vault
He just dismissed my triggers when I tried to tell him with a flippin “ouuh.. emmm… ok ig” those were his exact words like it just makes me so mad I just want to cry