#Viewing gender identity ig?

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true smelt
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My question is, is it normal for me being a cis girl to not care about my gender/ pronouns that people view me as?
I ask this because I’ve kinda noticed that most girls gets hella offended when people use anything but She/Her and what not right.
Now in the past I’ve identified as agender because at the time it felt right. I also used They/Them pronouns because again it felt right. I only stopped because the amount of energy that it took to correct people over and over we honestly to much. Not to mention it would be pretty hard to explain to most of my family and friends.
Anyway, like I’ve noticed that me myself idc when people view me as a boy. Ik im not trans or anything but ik how my personality and how I carry myself as can seem “boyish.” And again idc but is it exactly “normal” for me to not care how people view me as when it comes to gender identity?

tranquil oyster
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do you think you might be gender apathetic or perhaps pangender?

true smelt
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Erm lowkey I don’t know what gender apathetic means😭

true smelt
tranquil oyster
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gender apathetic is when you are indifferent about your gender and dont mind being perceived as whatever, and yes pan gender is when you identify as all/infinite genders

true smelt
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Ohhh I see

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Maybe but idk

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I kinda just exist when it comes to gender tbh
But im pretty gender apathetic tbh

tranquil oyster
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mm maybe it'd benefit you to look into that then

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i myself am not gender apathetic and i dont think i could explain it well enough, maybe someone here is though! try and do research on it, because i think that fits your description fairly well

remote ledge