Me: If you asked somebody to not touch you and they keep touching, you'd get angry and lash out
Me: I will assume your answer is yes? Why can't my mother not understand that if I don't want her touching me, no mean no and no matter how much I back away and push her hands away she KEEPS DOING IT and God forbid I get angry because my physical boundaries are being violated then she acts petty
My dad; How is she able to do all of this stuff if you are not around her?
Me: ...what
My dad: Are you saying that she just touched you or are you talking about something that happened earlier?
I'm talking about "joking touches" Where she'll ask for hugs and stuff and sometimes I'm so physically overstimulated that I physically can't or I have a headache yet she never listens when I plead and BEG her to get away from and tell her what is going on
Dad: My advice to you is that if you do not want to be bothered with someone you simply tell them that it’s not a good time and you will talk to them later and you remove yourself from the situation. At least that way you are not disrespecting that person and you are allowing yourself the opportunity to step away and take a moment to yourself
Me: ...You aren't even listening to me