ive had the thought im just not sure, either way i have issues with coming out to my family at the moment either way. any advice or ways to tell if i am or not? .
#i dont know whether im a boy whos bi (i preffer males so more gay ig) or i might possibly be trans.
civic crystal
latent lily
Just slightly give them hints
Or if you trust them enough then straight up tell them. Idk how your family is
civic crystal
Or if you trust them enough then straight up tell them. Idk how your family is
not really
the thing is i might be trans maybe idk im still getting more confused
but as of now im bi/gay
latent lily
Take some time to think it took me a few years. And when you're ready tell them. As well as when you find out your gender
civic crystal
Take some time to think it took me a few years. And when you're ready tell them....
i think im a boy but i may be trans ive had thoughs its mainly abt i need help on abt how to tell my parents im bi or gay yeah
latent lily
I gave my mom hints then told her after two months
civic crystal
the thing is my family is muslim so i dont know what to do
civic crystal
I'm sorry. Idk how to help
u got any tips how u gave hints thats all
thats what i hear the most tbh
bc i have asked many people...
latent lily
So I told my mom I found a certain girl to be pretty(When I was a girl) like to the point where I would date her and then I kept doing that over and over again and then I told her two months later
civic crystal
is there any like less way of doing it
bc i'd rather let my mum only know and my brother lit spies on my daily
like less obvious way yk.
latent lily
Idk man
civic crystal
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wait dm me cause
i hate having to load this and its easier when no one else sees the messages cause it bugs me idk why
im sensitive 😭
i mean u dont gotta
but yea 😭
latent lily
Yw
civic crystal
ima go now but thanks x x.
civic crystal
also IF ANYONE HAS ADVICE WHAT DO I DO like what they think if they arer trans (originally male or sum)
latent lily
What I did was wear a binder like thing and I like it and I didn't/don't feel like a girl
civic crystal
What I did was wear a binder like thing and I like it and I didn't/don't feel li...
oh 0.0.01% chance i would
latent lily
Yurp
civic crystal
Yurp
not even under a shirt... its jst too revealing im the kind of closed person i swear i only wear hoodies.
latent lily
I personally where either a shirt or hoodie I hate it when I wear both at the same time
civic crystal
I personally where either a shirt or hoodie I hate it when I wear both at the sa...
oh wh- but ok i wear both or only both cause im emo i love hoodies
civic crystal
OH
civic crystal
I like my homeless man style
HELP? OH- i just like hoodies cause im closed.
latent lily
I like wearing mismatch clothes that sometimes have holes in them
It's fun and comfy
civic crystal
I like wearing mismatch clothes that sometimes have holes in them
oh i like wearing baggy and oversized.
latent lily
Same
vast pilot
ive had the thought im just not sure, either way i have issues with coming out t...
It’s totally okay to feel unsure about this, and figuring out your identity is a personal journey that can take time. Here’s a breakdown of what might help:
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Exploring Gender Identity: If you're questioning whether you might be trans, think about how you feel about your gender. Do you feel like your assigned gender doesn’t align with your true self, or do you feel comfortable with it but just express it differently? Trans people often feel a disconnect between their gender assigned at birth and how they identify.
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Sexuality: Being bi means you’re attracted to more than one gender, but that doesn’t mean you have to label yourself as a "gay" person, especially if you’re still figuring out your gender. If you prefer males, that’s valid, but it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay if you're not sure about your gender yet.
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Coming Out: It’s tough to come out to family, especially if you’re not fully sure about your identity. Start with small steps if it feels too overwhelming. You don’t have to have all the answers right away. Maybe try expressing your feelings first—whether that’s about being bi, or starting to explore your gender in a way that feels safe to you.
Remember, it's okay to take your time, and your identity doesn’t have to be fully defined immediately. If it helps, chatting with a therapist or someone in a community that understands can provide support as you figure things out. The most important thing is to be kind to yourself during this process!