#Coming out to my extremely homophobic mom

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dusk hatch
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(14:F) I tried giving her many many hints that I like girls and she did catch up on them but just got disgusted, now everytime I talk to a friend on call afterwards she asks me if I'm a lesbian (I'm bisexual) and I say no because because don't want a fight so one day she read my diary and found out a LOT of stuff about my crush. She made me sit 1 on 1 with her and started yelling at me like I committed a sin or got pregnant. I dont know what to do, I'm Indian so it's culturally unacceptable in many ways but I can't control who I am... please, someone, give me advice on how I can make her understand that I like girls and its not gonna change because she wants me to :(((

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She's always found homosexuality disgusting and unacceptable because it's 'against nature'

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Luckily all my friends and my sister support me so they're not a problem but my parents... and grandparents, basically my entire family except for my sister are homophobic at

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visual oyster
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try asking your sister for help in coming out, and have a fun/safe thing to do after you tell them, just in case it goes wrong, Remember, a parent can only love one of they siblings, or both 😄

Remember, you could be loved in the future anyway, not just from your parents but from others aswell ❤️

Im sorry if this is no help 😭 Im trash at these stuff and i just wanted to try once, just an attempt

split inlet
molten aspen
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js dont

visual oyster
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Yea im shit- 😭